gibraltar wrote:This is happier abroad, not surfing for sluts. I've been with plenty of american sluts and I wasn't happy with any of them until I travelled abroad to meet a real traditional woman.
Tinder is like eating McDonalds. It's good if you're starving, but it won't compare to a real 4 course meal.
Stop being so absolutist, the primary reason that most girls fall into their default sex role is because most girls are not exceptional or smart or whatever evolved, etc.
There are girls who actually learn, are bright, teach themselves know-how, and are awesome in general. However, intelligence is rare, damn f***ing rare! That sprite/muse, little spark, the circumstances, and challenges, whatever it is that induces hyper intelligence and awareness in a human is rare. Those are the girls who are fun to talk to and who truly inspire me to work/build shit/and actually love waking up with her in the morning, the rest are boring -- perhaps good in bed for a short while but mostly boring unless they happened to be in heat, lol.
Now, the same applies to guys! So, no shit, smart girls tend to hate all the dumb guys... Because unless they actually meet an intellectual match, they are bored and shit brained slutty because of that boredness. The levels of compatibility are varied and numerous, including just timing and direction in life, that so many guys and girls tend to ignore until they are talking marriage and shit comes up that says NO-WAY to one of them.
So, if you feel like a traditionalist, go find a traditionalist girl -- usually in a small town,-- meet her parents, go visit her favorite places, plan future with her, and live a traditional life... Just f***ing make sure it'll make you happy because there's no way anything lasts that leads to unhappy people. I.e. all the stats say relationships last as long as the biological goals of reproduction last, i.e. ~2 years, i.e. f***ing sex, baby-hood, and to early childhood/mother independence! That doesn't say much for the human animal. City-educated-feministas, well most of them just have wanderlust and have no real intelligence to find a real match, they generally fail to know what they truly want because the human brain is not intelligence, it's a survival mechanism optimized for selecting immune and other compatibilities.
The smarter the girl, the higher the IQ, the more likely she is to use birth control and have fun on her terms while she learns who and what she likes, leaving all the dumber guys behind. Same thing goes for smarter guys, they have fun on their terms. The only sad part is that there are so few smart girls and smart guys that it's a boring wait to find a match with chemistry, intelligence, interests, and the same shared goals.
If everyone was the same, smartness or stupidness-wise, I'd agree with the traditionalist sex roles. There's no way I'll settle with a stupid ass girl though, even if her body is a perfect 10. I've tried and it lasts about 2 months before her stupidity drives me insane, I mean there's only so much sex can make up for and lack of brains isn't one of them.
That leaves me to say that there's a problem with this world and it is everyone who sees things as black and white, who don't know all the colors in between, really those people are the problem. What is truly rare, is the intellect and ability to apply self-control to master fields well enough to actually innovate, to be a innovator/power challenger/changer/(technically a true "feminist" if you know the true definition as it was meant to be used by the smarter females who actually think, not the dumb ones who read too many idiot feminists who are just traditionalists who despise stupid guys.
Just like the feminists bitches who realize most guys are idiots who never grew up, and the world is horrible inefficient letting them stay in power because they don't really care about anyone else, the more mature you get the less you'll put up with immaturity, black-and-white-perspective people. It's not like the world is full of simultaneously grown up individuals, it's a dynamo of change. The only way to really take over the world is to find a way to get people to learn faster and to grasp the understanding of the entire universe, otherwise they are just little kids lost in their kindergarten playground trying to dominate the other little kids.