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publicduende wrote:100% "bola", as they say over there.
Duende, isn't bola used mainly in the context of someone flattering someone else (but not self flattery), especially sweet words from a guy to a girl where the girl may retort, bola bola? I don't think bola can be expanded to the broader meaning of bullshit but I could be wrong. I've just never heard a Filipino use it that way before.
Yes, as far as I have heard, it's used to mean (self-)flattering exaggeration. I meant it to politely say what Quito is saying is just made up stories to inflate his ego. This was the same poster who portrays himself as an average looking 50-something and, in an old post, would boast cold approaching countless women in malls and public places - in Davao none the less - openly asking if they would like to have sex with him and scoring most or all of them.
OK the thread topic is supposed to be titillating, but it's not a good service to the HA community to post made-up stuff that is meant to groom the poster's ego (or give him/her the kicks off a boring life...you know who I'm referring to) and give people who want to learn something about Filipinas wrong impressions.
quito wrote:this is why I seldom post.. there is always some asshole around that wants to start shit for no reason. thanks for calling me a liar fucktard
I haven't called you a liar, but if you're looking for people who don't like HA becoming another Roosh Forum subsidiary, count me in!
Try to keep your tales a little shorter and you will come across as believable. Simple as.
Johnny1975 wrote:What about the conservative ones? I find it hard to imagine them going crazy.
Once they lose their virginity, they lose all their inhibitions.
Or, better put, once they feel a man is committing to them and giving them (and perhaps their family) the safety and support they need...they lose all their inhibitions.
It's certainly easier for a girl, be her Filipino or Finnish, to stay chill and focus on sex when she doesn't have to wonder where her next meal or mobile top-up is going to come from.
This was the same poster who portrays himself as an average looking 50-something and, in an old post, would boast cold approaching countless women in malls and public places - in Davao none the less - openly asking if they would like to have sex with him and scoring most or all of them.
You have the wrong guy. I have never been to Davao and I have never straight out asked anyone off the street for sex in any country.
For the guy who asked how I could do this.. there is nothing special about me as far as I know. i think on a scale of 1 - 10 i am about a 4 in appearance. what Filipinas do say they like about me is that I am tall, white and have a good sized nose.... all of which is the exact opposite of what they are. I have been in places where I saw Filipinas that were extremely attracted to some old white guy that seemed totally ugly to me. I asked them why they are attracted to that guy and they pretty much all give the same answer as previously stated. the girls that are more socialized (city girls) might include big dick as a part of that equation. as for the girls that I am generally attracted to there it's usually been college educated and working.. architects, bankers, call center workers etc. although a few girls that were able to hang out conversationally did not have college. fil-am looking types were my typical preference but the school teacher I married is very dark. I would say the one thing that maybe I have different than a lot of guys is that I am usually comfortable talking to anyone and everyone including here in the usa. I have never found it difficult to meet and date white girls either but I have a preference for Asian. i believe that for those guys that lack confidence i would just say that at some point you have to say to yourself that you don't give a f**k what people think of you and just be yourself. but be the 'communicative' and 'honest' version of yourself.
i have spent serious time travelling to phils and have done so for about 10 years since my divorce. my intention was 80% to find someone for marriage and 20% for fun. i accomplished both. to be honest a lot of guys get hooked up with the first or second Filipina they meet and they are depriving themselves of the opportunity to do better for themselves. as i implied before you make better decisions if you have more options.
quito wrote:You have the wrong guy. I have never been to Davao and I have never straight out asked anyone off the street for sex in any country.
Nope, I remember your nickname well. This was from one of your first posts...
quito wrote:As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol
I was wrong about Davao. I am sorry, you did not mention that you were doing that in Davao. Still, what you said above just doesn't register with what most of us here know about Filipinas, especially Filipinas in the 20-28 age range. I personally don't know any Filipina girl in her early 20s who would be willing to sleep with a not-so-attractive 50-something men "just because". They're either semi-pro sluts who are after money or they will want some serious signs of commitment on your side. Which is probably what you gave your current wife. Good luck with her by the way.
Hero wrote:
Once they lose their virginity, they lose all their inhibitions.
Or, better put, once they feel a man is committing to them and giving them (and perhaps their family) the safety and support they need...they lose all their inhibitions.
No, not necessarily... I've dated 4 Filipinas who completely went wild after just 2 or 3 dates... I was a long way from making any kind of commitment to them.
The more I read this I feel as if filipinas are bunch of hoes..even the so-called conservative ones. WHy? Because they give it up that easy after 2-3 days and become wild nymphs.....I mean come on .unless someone is lying or that everyone of you look like Brat Pitt or Won Bin you make it as if Filipina are super easy...
So why a filipina for some guys? I remember your post that you got burnt in the Philippines. But if what your saying is true it;s no great achievement for a guy to get laid or get a girl in the Philippines. I mean if your a white guy or expat from some other country how do you know for certain if your not the 1000 sex partner for that filipina girl?
Quito, what you're saying is interesting but it's hard to read if you don't split it into smaller paragraphs.
quito wrote:For the guy who asked how I could do this.. there is nothing special about me as far as I know. i think on a scale of 1 - 10 i am about a 4 in appearance. what Filipinas do say they like about me is that I am tall, white and have a good sized nose.... all of which is the exact opposite of what they are. I have been in places where I saw Filipinas that were extremely attracted to some old white guy that seemed totally ugly to me.
I asked them why they are attracted to that guy and they pretty much all give the same answer as previously stated. the girls that are more socialized (city girls) might include big dick as a part of that equation. as for the girls that I am generally attracted to there it's usually been college educated and working.. architects, bankers, call center workers etc. although a few girls that were able to hang out conversationally did not have college.
fil-am looking types were my typical preference but the school teacher I married is very dark. I would say the one thing that maybe I have different than a lot of guys is that I am usually comfortable talking to anyone and everyone including here in the usa. I have never found it difficult to meet and date white girls either but I have a preference for Asian.
i believe that for those guys that lack confidence i would just say that at some point you have to say to yourself that you don't give a f**k what people think of you and just be yourself. but be the 'communicative' and 'honest' version of yourself.
i have spent serious time travelling to phils and have done so for about 10 years since my divorce. my intention was 80% to find someone for marriage and 20% for fun. i accomplished both. to be honest a lot of guys get hooked up with the first or second Filipina they meet and they are depriving themselves of the opportunity to do better for themselves. as i implied before you make better decisions if you have more options.
Taco wrote: they are smaller so you have to be gentle with them. The average American has a penis the size of their leg so keep that in mind.
Maybe you have to be gentle if they're virgins, but they don't mind the size once their bodies have adjusted. One of my Pinay gf's told me that she was sore for days after her first time. But when we were having sex, she told me that it felt good when it went all the way in.