Bao3niang wrote:Yea, I believe that companionship is most important for a relationship to last, regardless of age. My list of priorities in a relationship would be:
2. Emotional security
3. Intellectual / spiritual compatibility (includes shared hobbies)
5. Health (married people live longer)
The reason why I put sex at #4 is because #1-3 are prerequisites for me to fully be able to enjoy making love. I am still virginal and could get some experience, but it will mainly be carnal pleasure. When there is a deep bond, it is much more intense and satisfying.
Blacknight, I guess our tastes are just different. Personally I don't find European features that attractive. Many European women have very V shaped chins (but so do many Asian women), which according to Chinese face reading is not a good trait to have. Women with almond shaped eyes are more appealing to me than the very fish-like eye structure of European women. As an Asian guy, perhaps it's just familiarity. I grew up around females with the same cultural and ethnic background.
I like a variety of looks. I've seen some hot East Asian and Vietnamese women. However, Europe is just a better cultural fit. When I think of East Asian and Vietnamese women I think of the SF bay area which was a social dead end.