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American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby BlueEverglades » Thu Jul 14, 2016 11:32 pm

Young people are dismissed, patronized and made feel like crap until they hit 35 and are making money with a social status.

They are made to pay an atrocious amount of money for "Education" and not given jobs to support themselves because they need experience that no one is willing to provide. You have basically no time for self exploration which is critical for development.

They are told it's ok to waste their whole childhoods and teen years sitting still inside a classroom and heavily medicated when their natural instincts kick in to break free.

They are told to respect their elders and everyone else in power yet those people don't respect us back and they don't really care about our personal happiness when it comes down to it (specially control freak parents).

No one teach us anything about real life (relationships, bills,handling money) but hey if you are not out of home by 18 with all the knowledge of the world you are a goddamn loser.

If you get sick doctors look at you like you are crazy because only older people get these conditions (sarcasm). This actually happened to me more times that I can think. I have also been told I'm too young to get pregnant and be in a relationship but I'm already 28.

You don't have any control over anything in your life. You didn't choose your name, your parents, your location, your gender, country and physical looks. You were probably were born poor or middle class and its an uphill battle to live a life of freedom economically. You didn't get money for the first 18 years of your life and that's absolutely not ok no matter what your parents/society made you believe. Now that you are grown up you still don't have any choices left other than slaving away for a little money.

There are no activities for young people other than getting wasted, malls and the movies while in the other parts of the worlds education and/or healthcare are free and young people are much more rounded, mature and have more cultural experiences and friends as a result of having more choices available to them.

In my homecountry at 18-20 years old you were already out of school with an actual real job. My friend in the Caribbean was already a dentist at 19 while I barely got out of high school in America and got strung along for more useless classes in college that got me anywhere and made me broke. Our 4 year high school is their career making time.

I am very mad at the system, it's playing against us day after day and blaming us for it.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby jamesbond » Fri Jul 15, 2016 12:00 am

BlueEverglades wrote:Young people are dismissed, patronized and made feel like crap until they hit 35 and are making money with a social status.

They are made to pay an atrocious amount of money for "Education" and not given jobs to support themselves because they need experience that no one is willing to provide. You have basically no time for self exploration which is critical for development.

They are told to respect their elders and everyone else in power yet those people don't respect us back and they don't really care about our personal happiness when it comes down to it (specially control freak parents).

No one teach us anything about real life (relationships, bills,handling money) but hey if you are not out of home by 18 with all the knowledge of the world you are a goddamn loser.

There are no activities for young people other than getting wasted, malls and the movies while in the other parts of the worlds education and/or healthcare are free and young people are much more rounded, mature and have more cultural experiences and friends as a result of having more choices available to them.

In my homecountry at 18-20 years old you were already out of school with an actual real job. My friend in the Caribbean was already a dentist at 19 while I barely got out of high school in America and got strung along for more useless classes in college that got me anywhere and made me broke. Our 4 year high school is their career making time.

I am very mad at the system, it's playing against us day after day and blaming us for it.


Well said BlueEverglades, America is truly a country made for people who are workaholics. It's all about making money in the US and not about having friends or a social life.

No wonder why there are so many lonely people in America. :cry:
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby gnosis » Fri Jul 15, 2016 12:00 am

BlueEverglades wrote:Young people are dismissed, patronized and made feel like crap until they hit 35 and are making money with a social status.


This may never happen for many of today's young people. Just because most men in the past were making money and had social status at 35 does not mean that today's younger generation will.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby Adama » Fri Jul 15, 2016 12:12 am

You are a woman, and you still feel this way.

See men, I have been saying all along. There are lots of women in similar positions.

Anyway, besides God, I think the one thing keeping many young people afloat is their parents. If your parents start you off well enough without any debt, at least you can start from zero, rather than starting from in the hole with student loans.

Also, you got to hope that your parents didn't screw you up. If your parents are screwed up, chances are they've screwed you up too, which means not only do you have to fight the world economically, but you also have to get over whatever damage they've done to you on your own. If you had good parents, then you're already ahead of the game, because you have no trauma to overcome. If you had bad parents, you may never even realize how they sabotaged you from the start.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby BlueEverglades » Fri Jul 15, 2016 2:16 am

Adama wrote:You are a woman, and you still feel this way.

See men, I have been saying all along. There are lots of women in similar positions.

Anyway, besides God, I think the one thing keeping many young people afloat is their parents. If your parents start you off well enough without any debt, at least you can start from zero, rather than starting from in the hole with student loans.

Also, you got to hope that your parents didn't screw you up. If your parents are screwed up, chances are they've screwed you up too, which means not only do you have to fight the world economically, but you also have to get over whatever damage they've done to you on your own. If you had good parents, then you're already ahead of the game, because you have no trauma to overcome. If you had bad parents, you may never even realize how they sabotaged you from the start.



Doesn't matter if you are male or female we get the same end of the stick. Many females lead lonely lives because they are introverted, don't fit in or are just tired of playing the game. Many of us go without love and relationships for years because of some physical defect that men don't want to overlook and not interested in silly hookups through tinder or some shit like that.

Yes parents can make you or break you. Mine overprotected me too much and had absolute control over everything I do or say. I am recovering and fighting this problem at the moment.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby GoingAwol » Fri Jul 15, 2016 7:51 am

BlueEverglades wrote:
Adama wrote:You are a woman, and you still feel this way.

See men, I have been saying all along. There are lots of women in similar positions.

Anyway, besides God, I think the one thing keeping many young people afloat is their parents. If your parents start you off well enough without any debt, at least you can start from zero, rather than starting from in the hole with student loans.

Also, you got to hope that your parents didn't screw you up. If your parents are screwed up, chances are they've screwed you up too, which means not only do you have to fight the world economically, but you also have to get over whatever damage they've done to you on your own. If you had good parents, then you're already ahead of the game, because you have no trauma to overcome. If you had bad parents, you may never even realize how they sabotaged you from the start.



Doesn't matter if you are male or female we get the same end of the stick. Many females lead lonely lives because they are introverted, don't fit in or are just tired of playing the game. Many of us go without love and relationships for years because of some physical defect that men don't want to overlook and not interested in silly hookups through tinder or some shit like that.

Yes parents can make you or break you. Mine overprotected me too much and had absolute control over everything I do or say. I am recovering and fighting this problem at the moment.

No,
It is not the same for men and women. Women can live at home and do nothing and still get dates. Meanwhile, men like myself, can live at home and go to school full time and work full time and we are still labeled as losers because we don't own a 250k house by age 25.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby Ghost » Fri Jul 15, 2016 9:54 am

It does and it's very intentional. There's no money to be made from a healthy, happy, community-and-family-oriented population. Money is made out of misery.

The thing to understand is that the way the modern world does things is completely backwards and unnatural. The needs of economies are put far ahead of the needs of people: individuals, families, and communities are antithetical to this inhumane system, hence the system subjects and destroys these whenever it can. Young people in the West are mostly idiotic and infantile, ad this is no doubt partly because of a system that retards their passage into adulthood and robs them of futures. Your place in time and space defines you, your options, and the paths you can take.

What amazes me about young people in the West though (well, young men) is that they haven't yet burned cities to the ground. Surely by now they must realize how irrevocably f***ed they are? And yet with few exceptions - such as we see on the news frequently - most accept the stupidity and inhumanity of this system and even keep fruitlessly vying for positions of some sort within it. They have no hope, yet they cling to it.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby Adama » Fri Jul 15, 2016 11:22 am

BlueEverglades wrote:
Adama wrote:You are a woman, and you still feel this way.

See men, I have been saying all along. There are lots of women in similar positions.

Anyway, besides God, I think the one thing keeping many young people afloat is their parents. If your parents start you off well enough without any debt, at least you can start from zero, rather than starting from in the hole with student loans.

Also, you got to hope that your parents didn't screw you up. If your parents are screwed up, chances are they've screwed you up too, which means not only do you have to fight the world economically, but you also have to get over whatever damage they've done to you on your own. If you had good parents, then you're already ahead of the game, because you have no trauma to overcome. If you had bad parents, you may never even realize how they sabotaged you from the start.



Doesn't matter if you are male or female we get the same end of the stick. Many females lead lonely lives because they are introverted, don't fit in or are just tired of playing the game. Many of us go without love and relationships for years because of some physical defect that men don't want to overlook and not interested in silly hookups through tinder or some shit like that.

Yes parents can make you or break you. Mine overprotected me too much and had absolute control over everything I do or say. I am recovering and fighting this problem at the moment.


No, it doesn't matter. We are all damaged in some way. Just there are some who realize that other people actually are people and treat others tenderly. Then there are those who have been damaged, either known or unknown, and their goal is to destroy everyone around them, including their own children and even themselves.

I think most women belong to the second group, while the good women belong to the first group.

Does it matter if you are male or female? No, not really. I suppose not. I have had a few women throw daggers into my heart after prompting me to open up to them. I am sure many women have had men use them for one night stands and disappear.

It would be great if the sociopaths just stuck with each other. I think mainly this is what happens: that sociopaths are the main ones doing all the hooking up and having all the fun. As a non-sociopath when you try to join, you get burned terribly. Those people are already destroyed. They can only destroy others, which it why it burns. They also hate the good within you and seek to destroy it intentionally, especially if they can't have you.

The burning will serve as a warning and a reminder, just as literally sticking the hand in the fire. Each time you think of attempting to join the sociopathic group, you'll remember quite well how it felt.

The problem comes in when it prevents you from getting that special person God would send to you. Fortunately I know who it is, what my type is, cause every woman that God sent me fit into one category, and each of them looks virtually identical to each other.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby Adama » Fri Jul 15, 2016 11:27 am

By the way, I used to think I had physical defects (not sure what kind you are talking about though). People used to make fun of me and how ugly they thought I was. Turns out each one of my flaws is perfectly normal for normal people. Just when people want to hate, they look for a reason to hate, any reason will do. In fact, those making fun of me often had the same flaws but worse. That's how retarded many people are. So I couldn't give a care what most people think now. I already know what they're all about. Life is like one huge mind trick. If you sink into self pity and misery, you'll fool yourself into a deeper depression, and it warps reality.
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Postby traveller » Fri Jul 15, 2016 8:55 pm

GoingAwol wrote: men like myself, can live at home and go to school full time and work full time and we are still labeled as losers because we don't own a 250k house by age 25.


In Illinois, guys are labled losers if they don't own even a $7,500,000 mansion in a gated community by age 21!
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby GoingAwol » Sat Jul 16, 2016 7:18 am

Ghost wrote:
What amazes me about young people in the West though (well, young men) is that they haven't yet burned cities to the ground.

Young men are just watching the world burn. There has been a lot of talk in American society about how young men and boys have "checked out". It's no secret that more and more young American men are dropping out of school or foregoing college all together. It seems that most young men in America dont have any ambition or purpose. I dont think most young men are even consciously aware of what is going on, but they are responding to it all the same. The men who are consciously aware of what is going on are making mgtow videos on youtube.
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Postby jamesbond » Sat Jul 16, 2016 10:40 pm

GoingAwol wrote:Young men are just watching the world burn. There has been a lot of talk in American society about how young men and boys have "checked out". It's no secret that more and more young American men are dropping out of school or foregoing college all together.

It seems that most young men in America dont have any ambition or purpose. I dont think most young men are even consciously aware of what is going on, but they are responding to it all the same.

The men who are consciously aware of what is going on are making mgtow videos on youtube.


This explains why MGTOW is becoming so popular in America, men are "checking out" of society and having nothing to do with women.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby Katmandu » Mon Jul 18, 2016 2:44 am

I agree. American Society treats young people like shit! I felt the same way when I was 18. When I was 18 I wanted to move to Germany. I let my mom talk me out of it which I still regret.

A big reason why I wanted to move to Germany when I was 18 was that in European countries you're an adult when you're 18. I thought being an adult but not being able to buy beer or wine or go to a casino until I was 21 was an injustice. I was also told I would feel differently when I was older but now that I am older my opinion still hasn't changed. I still believe when a person turns 18 they shouldn't have to wait until 21 to do adult activities.

Americans really are condescending to young people. They were condescending when I was a young person and they still are. I was told that not liking the minimum drinking of 21 wasn't a valid reason to move to another country. Looking back at it I think it was a perfectly valid reason to move to another country.
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Re: American Society treats young people like shit!

Postby USA_luxury_prison » Thu Jul 21, 2016 2:04 am

Adama wrote:. Life is like one huge mind trick. If you sink into self pity and misery, you'll fool yourself into a deeper depression, and it warps reality.


That's the same exact way I view things. I've thought about it many times and our thoughts are very powerful. You've got to be very careful with what you're thinking at any given time and be on the lookout for any negative thought's that may appear. Life is especially like one huge mind trick or game here in america. It's mentally hard and tiring most of the times.
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