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The new-age phrase people use towards especially men seeking lasting friendships and/or relationships today is "Quit being entitled! Nobody owes you anything!"
Here is what it really means;
No person shall form any type of friendship, nor shall any person attempt to get into a relationship with any other person. It shall be unlawful in the United States of America for any man to mingle with any person or persons, as well as to have any type of non-business related interactions with any stranger.
In other words, it means; "Guys, remain an island, stay away from all society, flee from all women, do not leave your residence except for work and school only, and mind your own business, or face life in the Federal supermax prison and be treated as a sex predator."
Nobody DOES owe you anything, except to be nice and civil to you.
Nobody owes you a friendship.
Nobody owes you a date.
If those things happen, great, but nobody does owe you anything.
What exactly do people owe you?
Then men owe nothing to women and society either.
Look around you. Everything you use to make your life was invented, extracted and installed by men. And you say you don't owe us anything? You are one disgusting, ungrateful bitch. You think you can get all this and give nothing in return. You are parasitical scum.
I read a very interesting post some years back written by a gal who lived in a communist country and she was talking about how in the country nobody would befriend and talk to people because of reprisals inflicted by the state for speaking your mind so everybody just did their job and went home and she said when the communist party fell apart and receded it was like this thunder cloud of despair just went away.
I forget what country it was but it does sound familiar. Our rulers are projecting their paranoia on all of us living under such a dictatorship....
Hey Corny if mother was here first on the scene in this world and when sex arrived the males came here second wouldn't that make the males just part of the female ? and there was no man to till the ground.......
Time to Hide!
Nobody owes us anything, if someone doesn't know you and you have not done anything of value for them then never expect anything from them. Do not assume that anyone will be fair, kind, honest, dependable, decent, truthful, respectful, considerate, or generous. No one owes you anything unless you were the first person to give. Never expect the world to make the first offering, it begins with your offering to the world, with no offering but expecting something in return will surely yield disappointing results. Create your own value first and bring it to the table and the world opens up to you and you will receive value from the world.
If you want more from the world, ask yourself how can i offer more value to people around me.
Pretty sure she was talking about individuals, not collectives.
What have you invented or brought to the world to be owed something by women? Just because other men have done great things, doesn't mean YOU are owed something for their hard work......those men who worked hard through history WERE loved and appreciated by society......and they wouldn't have struggled to meet women either.....because they were men with value. What is your value?
Our ancestors left us something. If our parents moved to a ready-build country, they could have left us millions of dollars in their bank accounts. But instead they had to build a country themselves, which most of us contributed to. In most cases they generally didn't leave us millions, but they left us a country. And those of us who showed up for school and work and such are owed that. We own these countries. We built them and or inherited them. The other people living in them are living here at our sufferance and owe us rent, including sex.
I agree with you completely!
I am so sorry you are so damn unhappy with your life.
I hope one day you find a girl who will give you everything you think she owes you.
I'm actually not parasitic scum (parasitical isn't a word). I work for a living. I've never had to rely on a man for anything (although I am happily married).
But, as far as you, or any other dude goes, I don't owe ya a damn thing except for a kind word on the street.
And hows that been working out for you?
I'll decide what's a word in my own language, bitch. You are in an Anglo-Celtic mens country. We built it. You owe us everything.
The men who offered value to the world in the past were all rewarded for their value, with money, social respect and love too.....Those men all had ancestors too you know……They didnt just sit on their ass and talk about the men who came before them and say they are owed something for their ancestors hard work.....they got up off their ass and made something out of themselves and brought value to the world......and reaped the benefits of their work and self made value. Imagine Alexander Bell saying “Im not going to bother inventing the telephone, I shouldn’t have to work to get respect, the world already is in debt to me because other men before me already worked hard" Imagine if every inventor and innovator and creator throughout history had your attitude, we would still be living in mud huts and eating feces
I will repeat the question.....
What value have you brought to the world?
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