Is it easier to please or impress a girl when she's younger?

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Is it easier to please and impress a girl when she's 20 compared to when she's 30?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

It depends what you mean by "impress." If you mean to impress with physical attraction, then no. Youth is a key factor is beauty itself and young women have legions of men offering them sex and attention all the time. Therefore younger women tend to be only physically attracted by the top 20% of men in terms of appearance, aka "the Chads and Tyrones," but many of them do love the idea of short term providers to ease the pain of student life, material deprivation, or bills. Young women in feminist cultures are generally repulsed by particularly intelligent men because of the fempowerment narrative.

However, young women ARE extremely easy to impress with money and the trappings of the good life because they very seldom have access to it that early in life.

In the case women 30 to 34, they tend to be far easier to impress with intelligence when you have your overall act together and project higher than average status be that in the form of wealth, power, prestige, etc. That is because older women are on the hunt for long-term providers rather than choice d*cks to ride on the cock carousel.

Women 35 and older don't even exist in my world. They are simply female and they are of no use in my personal life unless they are working for me in some professional capacity. Ironically, these are the women that have tried to throw themselves at me over the years only to react with indignant rage when they see who I actually date.

Hint: If you are an older bachelor, be particularly guarded about your personal life if the women in it are half your age or less. To do otherwise invites the wrath of older women who feel supremely entitled to what you represent, their last ditch opportunity to capitalize on a dupe.

[HappyGuy]

Is it easier to please and impress a girl when she's 20 compared to when she's 30?

It depends, I've experienced extremes on both ends. To add to what CE wrote, yes some girls straight out of high school are often naive and innocent if they are virgins or only dated one or two boys. Those are very easy to impress at first even if you're just a few years older because most of their teen male peers have nothing going on in their lives yet and teenagers naturally get excited about small things so at first glance you appear so well rounded to them you might as well be a super hero. But I don't see the point of exploiting that because eventually she'll lose her nativity and see you as the mediocre or average guy that you are especially when boys her age will start catching up.

I've also experienced and seen the scenario where older women starting at around 30 are easily impressed by reliable men even if they're ugly, because all they have dated up to that point were good looking players. Those same women would act cold to average reliable men and wouldn't be impressed with anything but good looks and aggressive behavior at 20.

You could summarize that group as former sluts and mean girls who wise up and change their tune with age and sometimes desperation. And those from the first paragraph are nice girls who eventually become jaded from dating dickish guys and from adult life in general. So it really depends who is easier to impress or win over or deal with, the girls who like you at 20 might hate you at 30, and the women who hated you at 20 might like you at 30. I'm referring to their age, your age doesn't really matter.

In the case women 30 to 34, they tend to be far easier to impress with intelligence when you have your overall act together and project higher than average status be that in the form of wealth, power, prestige, etc.

If you're ugly but smart and rich or you're a comedian with a good personality it doesn't matter if you're 15 or 55 you can impress a 30-35 year old and she will sleep with you for being her future provider even when no 20 year old will be impressed or even touch you because you're too ugly but they'll explain it as you being "too young" or "too old". And if you're good looking and confident it doesn't matter if you're 15 or 55 most 20 year olds will date or sleep with you without a second thought while many 30-35 year olds will reject you because their priorities have changed. Women are fickle and don't know what they want, this presents some opportunities but it's also very annoying.

[Neo]

I don't believe women need to be impressed at all. Women need to be screened for morality and compatibility. Attraction is not a choice. It is either there or it isn't. A man doesn't need money, height, muscles or a fast car. After attraction is recognized, then a man needs to determine whether or not the woman is a good person or an evil one.

Certainly a man can use money, but then he has to consider if that is wise.

[HappyGuy]

A man doesn't need money, height, muscles or a fast car.

You're right he only needs a big dick

[mattyman]

Again, the question is OP what do you mean by impressing?

It depends what you want to impress with and how. Girls in different age groups are really looking for people who've had common experiences and are at similar places in their lives that could be related to.

RE younger women, they're pretty easy to impress if you play a few instruments like I do (on a shallow level). The trouble is, even if you do impress them, do they appeal to you or do they mostly seem a bit shallow (especially Americans & Americanized Europeans). Isn't that a more out the box & confident way of viewing it?

The note of girls having only dated 'players' is very important. A big part of the reason is because more genuine guys simply haven't had the balls to walk up and say 'hello!'. The nice girls turning bad from too many dickish guys. That what Contrarian Expat is saying re the nice girls turned bad.

One thing I think is very important;

Young women in feminist cultures are generally repulsed by particularly intelligent men because of the fempowerment narrative.

I think a big part of this could be they're focused too much on differences & 'being better' instead of finding commonalities with their fellow human beings.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Young women in feminist cultures are generally repulsed by particularly intelligent men because of the fempowerment narrative.

This is why I believe that contemporary online dating for the last 5-7 years in N. America is unofficially reserved for the top 5-8 % of American men that are degenerates. POF, Tinder, Bumble, Hily, OKcupid, all trash. The only women I acquire on the aforementioned media in N. America now (especially the U.S. of Gay not Can it? Duh!) are dark hued Black American women that lose interest once they find out how intelligent I am; WASP women that hit the wall and think every guy should be grateful that she's of avail and chose them in return; or faggots/trannies trying to pique my interest. I think the only place left in the U.S. of Gay to acquire a "hawt" chick is the gym. Not even a Meetup.com.....nope....you have to catch them in their most shallowest environment: the gym. At the end of the day, stop believing that feminist narrative (which I used to believe in when I was a left-leaning libtard and "I'll kick your ass if you touch her" simp days) that men are more shallow than women when it comes to favouritism in looks. B.s. Women judge men more hence the "they know after five minutes if they are going to sleep with you or not" phenomenon. Because women do this, they are like children. Children learn that fat is weird and taboo so what do children do once they learn such a concept, they bellow out the cringy term, "FATTTTTTT!" Women are like chldren so they blurt it out or think that in their mind hence their "I will wait until he's 10 feet away before I snicker about it - hurry up, fatty, I don't want to be rude in front of your fat abhorrent face & body!". Women are like children because they love to shave their body hair off so much so that their ladyparts aren't the only parts nowadays....they actually shave their head bald!!!! What's next? Their eyebrows without drawing them back on??? They are doing everything they can to become abhorrent and repulsive to men (becoming o'beast...etc. and et.al everywhere).

In addendum, gentlemen, if you want an AW or a CW, hit the gym and actually rack up results to show off like the alpha male peacock you're destined to be! After all, they got what a hermaphrodite has, a p***y and a c.ock. I think if I had one, I wouldn't chase women any more as demented as that sounds. Meh I'm being facetious here. Seriously, women have zilch valor and zilch value which actually affronts me so much that I only like to f.uck them. However, I'm coming to a crossroads where I'm tired of paying P4P because the industry is inflating worldwide nowadays. e.g. There are expats leaving Thailand now because of this...p***y on Beach Road in Pattaya is becoming a tad too inflated hence a lot of hawt w.hores standing on the street without one customer all night during dry season and like one customer every other night during high season.

[flowerthief00]

I have done relatively well with women around age 20 and with women around age 30. I have done relatively poorly with women around age 25. I suspect this is because women in their mid-twenties are beginning the search for a man to lock down for marriage, and a guy like me can't possibly be seen as a serious candidate for any such thing, hahaha. I won't even buy them a lunch.

At age 25 women's standards are at their highest, from my experience. At age 30 if they still haven't found Mr. Right (aka Mr. Gullible) they lower those standards again. My preference is for Asian women, however, so in the case of American women those numbers probably have an offset. American women don't start looking to settle down until it's too late.

[yick]

Women in their twenties who are in shape and without child are at a premium in the west - there are so many fat, tattooed and basically vulgar women who have no problem commanding a love life that you notice the men are far better looking than the women - just to compete, you need to be in-shape, well dressed, know something about grooming, develop a personality, have a good education/career etc to get someone above average - these are all good things to develop by the way - but if you don't - you are going to be left behind and if you leave it until your thirties - it's single mums whoever you are - and if you are shorter than average or you start losing your hair... f**k! You're screwed.

In the UK, the men are far better looking than the women, probably in the states, Canada and Australia too - when you see that, it's time to go because the place is done!

In China - most twentysomethings are physically mature but are like 15 year olds mentally - so they're a pain in the arse, the great things about them are that they are usually virgins/sexually inexperienced and they're usually in good shape! But dating them, they take a selfie of you and her and she turns you both into cats with whiskers... They're lovely and everything but that's what you're dealing with. You're best off waiting a few years until the grow up in their head - that's right! Shengnu! However much they are into you (as a foreigner...) there is so much cultural/societal baggage in dating you that would take a mentally strong and somewhat mature lady to date you which a lot of Chinese 20-25 year olds lack.

[Johnny1975]

there are so many fat, tattooed and basically vulgar women who are too good for me because I'm a loser.

I don't think anyone here is surprised to hear that.

[yick]

I am a bald, speccy, short arsed virgin who had to go to the Philippines to get laid.

Oh come on, let's not make it about you.

If the Philippines didn't exist, you would never have got laid.

[HappyGuy]

there are so many fat, tattooed and basically vulgar women who are too good for me because I'm a loser.

I don't think anyone here is surprised to hear that.

That's not what he wrote

I am a bald, speccy, short arsed virgin who had to go to the Philippines to get laid.

Oh come on, let's not make it about you.

If the Philippines didn't exist, you would never have got laid.

I get it now. It's funny to see two beta males bickering amongst each other having no awareness of why western women never found them to be adequately masculine enough to be their husbands.

I'm not saying stop please continue it's very entertaining

[yick]

there are so many fat, tattooed and basically vulgar women who are too good for me because I'm a loser.

I don't think anyone here is surprised to hear that.

That's not what he wrote

I am a bald, speccy, short arsed virgin who had to go to the Philippines to get laid.

Oh come on, let's not make it about you.

If the Philippines didn't exist, you would never have got laid.

I get it now. It's funny to see two beta males bickering amongst each other having no awareness of why western women never found them to be adequately masculine enough to be their husband.

I'm not saying stop please continue it's very entertaining

I am not into 'Western' women to be honest... they're not my cup of tea and never really have been...

What's a 'beta male'? I take it you aren't one...

[HappyGuy]

I am not into 'Western' women to be honest... they're not my cup of tea and never really have been...

Yellow fever isn't natural unless you're Asian yourself. It's caused by low testosterone levels among other personal problems. If you change yourself you may find western women will become more appealing, at least physically.

What's a 'beta male'? I take it you aren't one...

I wouldn't say that but at least I'm not shamelessly indulging in effeminate behavior. Beta males think and behave like women but they want the perks of being a man. One way to be a beta is to never mature from when you were a teen and blame other men or women for your problems.

[yick]

Yellow fever isn't natural unless you're Asian yourself. It's caused by low testosterone levels among other personal problems. If you change yourself you may find western women become more appealing.

Yeah, I have Asian blood, they look somewhat similar to me - eyes, skin tone, hair colour - I am not into 'western' women - sure, there are some nice ones but they're a minority - no real hate towards them, there are enough of you to take on the dregs.

Beta males think and behave like women but they want the perks of being a man, like sex.

I am over six foot tall, run and weight train every day, used to be a reasonably successful amateur heavyweight boxer and still have my own hair. Also, I enjoy my life and am not blaming it on the matrix, space jews or feminism.

I have never taken drugs, smoked, I don't drink and I have never been with a whore - I take it you compete somehow.

Unfortunately, you have took one post and attributed your ridiculous labels on me, unfortunately, I have to respond in kind to morons like Johnny1975 - I would rather he f***ed off but sometimes you have to take the low road.