
Just found this article of the benefits of polygamy or "big love" from the New Scientist no less!
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14564
We are men for a REASON!

GREAT POST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Rebel_man_UK wrote:
Just found this article of the benefits of polygamy or "big love" from the New Scientist no less!
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14564
We are men for a REASON!
Rebel_man_UK wrote:Nope its the Scottish flag![]()
The only way you can pull it off in the U.S.A. is if you import the girls from another country/culture. Most American women won't get involved in a polyamorist/polygamist relationship (unless you're rich and famous like Chris Brown, Charlie Sheen, Hugh Hefner, etc.). But even then you're just dealing with gold diggers who will eventually exploit the justice system to royally screw you over.Jester wrote:Always my favorite topic.fuzzy_corleone wrote:I found this topic via google search.
Do you think you can pull it off here or need to go abroad?
Jester wrote:Ok, I've been on this site for hours, fascinated. My first night. Now I'm going to ask the question that's really on my mind.
Here's the problem: I've had multiple simultaneous girlfriends, but their friends screw it up. Two girls might sleep with you (on different nights), but they don't take the relationship seriously. And even if they are both serious, then if they have mutual acquaintances, the acquaintances start gossiping until they provoke a girlfight or a breakup. Because women are so thin-skinned, they need to be accepted socially, and the gossip really gets to them.
So the question is, when I relocate, where can I most easily maintain multiple wives (calling them girlfriends, fiancees, novias, wives, casa chicas, minor wives, whatever) where I am NOT obligated, socially speaking, to hide their existence from each other? And where I can have children with each of them? I'm not looking for one primary relationship with a little dabbling on the side. I want quality relationships that last. I don't need to flaunt it, but I don't want to have to hide it either.
For the sake of this discussion, let's rule out the Moslem countries and Africa. Those areas would be a separate discussion sometime.
Obviously it would be easier if it was a culture where female bisexuality was not totally taboo, since the girls might make friends. (Thailand?)
Or where non-Moslem polygamy is legal . (Myanmar?)
Or where the Cardinal has joked publicly about polygamy versus "monotony" (Philippines).
On one hand, as a tall, American-born, Southern-raised totally-white-looking, half-Armenian Catholic with old-fashioned values, I might fit into Latin American culture more easily than Asian culture.
But on the other hand, I'm wondering if what I want to do might be more accepted in Southeast Asia than in Latin America.
Thoughts anyone?
Suggestions?
-Jester
GREAT question.Tsar wrote:Has anyone had a stable polygynous relationship? Do you think it would be difficult finding two or more young women that would accept such a relationship?
Definitely.Tsar wrote:Many young women seem to be more open to those sort of relationships than young women in past generations.
Interesting principle there, EB.eurobrat wrote:
You want to go to a place where you feel welcome.
Spain is a great idea. Food, climate, culture, people...eurobrat wrote:Well obviously I would never feel welcome in a place like Africa. I'm not black culturally or physically. I also hated the midwest, I felt I never was able to fit in Kansas City. I didn't like watching sports or nascar, I hate cheap beer and BBQ is ok but it's not something to eat all the time etc.Jester wrote:Interesting principle there, EB.eurobrat wrote:
You want to go to a place where you feel welcome.
Care to say more on this topic?
I know I could never fit in with Russia or places like Norway, Sweden, Finland.
I know who I am and what I like, while I don't discourage trying new things just know what you're getting into first. I'm ethnically Mediterranean so I seem to fit into countries in that region.
Have you thought of Spain?
1) Residence as a Means to Spanish Citizenship
You have been a legal resident of Spain for at least 10 years.
You are a citizen of a Latin American country, Andorra, Portugal, the Philippines, or Equatorial Guinea, or you are of Sephardic descent, and you have been a legal resident of Spain for at least two years.
You have obtained refugee status in Spain and have been a legal resident for at least five years.
You fulfill one or more of the following conditions: you were born in Spanish territory, you have been married to a Spanish citizen for at least one year, you were born abroad to Spanish parents and/or grandparents, you did not previously exercise your right to Spanish nationality when given the option, you are a widow or widower of a Spanish citizen provided that you were not separated upon your spouse’s death, or you were a ward of the Spanish state for at least two consecutive years. In addition, you have been a legal resident of Spain for at least one year.