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The Manliness of the American woman

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The Manliness of the American woman

Postby Adama » June 8th, 2010, 7:18 am

I mention this to my friends and they have no clue what I am talking about. I will cite some examples from the media. Namely one of the most successful TV shows of all time: Law and Order.

The Assistants to Jack McCoy have been nearly universally female. Listen to them with their deep, manly voices. There is not one feminine thing about these women. You probably could not find many Continental European, South American or Japanese women whose voices could be so deep, angry and authoritative.

As for the foreign women I know in person, all of them tell me the characteristic they think distinguishes the American woman from the European woman is the fact that American women are "aggressive." What they mean by that is that they are really outspoken bitches.

It's like everything delicate, soft, feminine, graceful, sweet and kind has been erased from this model of female. Each characteristic replaced with the Alpha male pseudo-imitation traits of Authoritativeness, anger, hostility, and combativeness.

This isnt just the strong women on TV. When you hear some of the women in everyday life yapping, they have voices just like this.

These women all want to act like men, while retaining all the special privileges of the female. Men let them get away with this crap, too.
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Postby raindreamer333 » June 8th, 2010, 7:36 am

Yup, growing up I always had the sense there was something deeply wrong with around 95% of the girls around me. I can only remember a few sweet and feminine girls in high school.

There was one really sweet girl; unfortunately she didn't have any friends. She just didn't fit into the rest of the girls who were bitchy and slutty, who drank themselves to excess, and whose mouth spewed out foul language like diahrea.

All I can say is I am truly blessed to have my filipina fiance. She is good natured and God-fearing, loves me to death, is cheerful in all circumstances, is caring and sweet, is romantic and passionate, is responsible, has a realistic self appraisal of her body image, is smart, is sexy, is simple, is submissive but will challenge me when I need it, and a virgin. What else could I ask for?
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Postby Repatriate » June 8th, 2010, 8:05 am

Yeah look at the female "heroes" in U.S. media. It's butch masculine women like Michelle Rodriguez who with a mustache would look almost like Pancho Villa.

Apparently a lot of guys in America think this sort of thing is sexy or "sassy" when it's just really phony and overcompensating. It's possible to be a strong secure woman without looking and acting like a man.
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Postby jamesbond » June 23rd, 2010, 7:32 am

Repatriate wrote:Apparently a lot of guys in America think this sort of thing is sexy or "sassy" when it's just really phony and overcompensating. It's possible to be a strong secure woman without looking and acting like a man.


A woman can be strong and secure WITHOUT acting like a man! I am not attracted to women who look like men, act like men or talk like men! I am only interested in women who are soft and feminine. Women who are harsh and abrasive turn me off big time! When I meet a woman who tries to act like a man, I don't know whether or not I should laugh ......................... or vomit! lol :lol:
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Postby dano » June 24th, 2010, 4:41 am

Contrary to popular belief, women are supposed to be reserved not outspoken. When a womans voice is several octaves lower than a mans it means theres a problem. The feminist movement can't change thousands of years of evolution. Men are attracted to beautiful, feminine women that sacrifice for them. Most american women do not meet this criteria.

I noticed the guys that see no difference between american women and foreign women are usually arrogant. They live for today and so they have no concern regarding the long term consequences of dating or marriage to western women. These are the guys that get divorced over and over again and can't seem to figure out what the problem is.
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Postby Mystery » June 29th, 2010, 6:33 pm

We can better understand this by seeing the contrast.

This video clearly shows the contrast.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9IL6kx_y2vw

You know as much as I do how different it is from what we see on television :P
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