You are overblowing this man. Me and Rock were speaking Chinese with those Chinese girls. Rock's Filipina friend could not join in and speak Chinese with us. How were we rude? What would you have done? I saw two pretty Chinese girls in Manila, which is a rarity, so I tried to capitalize on it. What do you expect me to do? Ignore them? Come on. They are my taste and type and I wasn't out with a Filipina date. Rock was. It was only a few minutes anyway.yick wrote:A (rare but...)great post from Starchild5.
And the tl;dr version is of course, treat everyone with respect, and treat people how you would like to be treated, he also said something
along the lines of nobody has the full story about why what happened went down the way it did.
Now, I don't get all this 'Chinese people are more superior to Filipinos' it's not true - I have taught thousands of Chinese people and though a lot of them
are great and wonderful people, a fair few are thick, stupid, ugly and are prone to cheating - about the same amount of arseholes as there are in the UK.
The thing is though - we don't know what and why this girl was with Winston and Rock.
Now, it seems to me that the pair go to the Philippines and get women in Angeles City and Manila because it's easy because they have the means to get women - the women are with them because they have spare means and they can treat them to nice things.
If Winston and Rock know this - then they are going to treat them all as 'easy come, easy go'.
Would they be as disrespectful to a woman they were spending time with in Tokyo, Seoul, Gothenburg or Copenhagen.
No - because these women have standards - and they won't just go with a man on a date because he has a bit of spare cash to spend, he has to have a lot more in the way of factors going for him - it isn't easy to go to Copenhagen and date young, single women.
So this is my point.
It is absolutely UP TO THE WOMEN to determine how they are treated by men.
And this is why I have NO PROBLEM with western women and their actions - because they are the arbiter of how they get treated by men.
If western women were like Filipinas and let Winston be king of all the domain he looks out on, he would treat them like shit, so, they don't have anything to do with him.
Because he and Rock are pretty smart blokes - they go to places where they can indulge in their shitty behaviours - which is their right.
But at the end of the day - it is the woman who determines how she is treated, the Filipina in question was obviously being disrespected and she split, which is the right thing to do.
Rock could probably get her back onside - because he has money - and everyone knows that the score - now if you did that to a woman from the lowest socio-economic class in England - she would never deal with you again.
So - again - the woman is the absolute determiner of how she gets treated, and if she decides money is the factor in regards winning her over - then she is going to be treated like shit by men - don't blame the men, blame her.
Being poor is no excuse, they are poor in Argentina, but dating an Argentinian woman is as hard as dating any woman in Europe or The States.
Rock's Filipina friend was not a random girl that he treats as expendable goods. No way. She was a girl he had known for a year. Rock doesn't usually bang them and leave them, unless they have huge personality defects. He usually sees his girls regularly and maintains dating relationships with them.
We are not users. We are very talkative type of guys who love talking to girls and getting to know them. We aren't the "bang them and leave them" type that you stereotype us as.
Sorry but if I was with a UK girl, I don't see why she would mind or leave. Girls don't usually mind about stuff like this. Rock's date that day was an unusual type with a jealous streak. Most Filipinas would not do that, neither would most UK girls. Ignoring someone for a few minutes while you're distracted is no biggie. Those Chinese girls were acting like tourists taking photos anyway.
You are overanalyzing this.
In the Philippines you just live and let live. You go with the flow. You don't analyze things like that or take things too seriously.
The good thing about Filipinas is that if they are angry they let it go soon and return to normal. Rock's date apologized the next day for leaving like that. She knew she shouldn't have done that, but he couldn't help it. So don't make it sound like we did something bad or wrong. Geez.