newlifeinphilippines wrote:so your saying most women cheated and dumped you? Thats some bad luck.OutWest wrote:I did not travel to be a sex tourist and have a strong distaste for playing with women.newlifeinphilippines wrote:20 years adn 63 countries. Sounds like you had quite a few vacation girlfriends yet shun other guys for doing so.OutWest wrote:PandaMan wrote:Thank you so much for the support.
Thank you Jester.
Yes... better women --- but some hurdles. Mostly with finances and passport/long term stays. That said, in many countries cost of living is lower.
I currently only pay $350 in rent here in the US for ALL of my needs. I live like I might in a foreign country.
But the women? Forget it. Oh my god. Honestly, they don't even care if you have money. You have to be a HUGE d-bag to get their attention and wear your pants around your waist.
Anyway...
It can happen. I just have to REMIND myself THIS IS NOT HOW LIFE HAS TO BE. I DO NOT HAVE TO ACCEPT THIS.
First, get a passport if you do not already have one. I was about 30 when I first fled the country, and more than 20 years and 63 countries later, I can assure you, it was a good idea. You will wonder why you did not do it later. You are not going overseas to save money- though in some places, the cost of living is less, which can help make up for some inconveniences.
You will soon realize, there actually are normal women in the world and that YOU can most likely have your pick of them. The biggest problem you will have is a sorting problem.
>>>Make a commitment to yourself- you WILL do this. PM me if you wish...
You do not need to continue in unhappiness.
Outwest
Misamis Oriental, Mindanao
It always seems to end badly. I had long term relationships that I just kind of assumed would culminate in marriage, but they did not until later. I do not trust most women- a good one is hard to find, so when I found one I thought was good for the duration, I wanted to keep her. In addition,
I do not want my life to be about girl drama, so I far prefer stable long time relationships....
What you do is your choice, and if you want to shun men who are into permanent relationships, go for it. For my part, I have observed that men who have stable relationships tend to be better to do business with, but that is just my sampling...
You have heard the term "the unintended portion of choice."? I tended to like girls who were hot steamy vixens with a domestic side...well in a few instances, my choices were poor, though they were totally beautiful girls. I did have a Russian GF who was excellent- but through somewhat tragic circumstances, life took us apart. We both regret it to this day. Both marriages have been to Filipinas- my first was not horrible, but over years, she had some issues that became irreconcilable, though we both continue to collaborate with our 2 Children. I now happily have an excellent filipina...and hopefully
we will keep each other to the end. I really think my current wife spends time daily thinking of ways to make me happy....or it just comes through instinct...either way...it works for me.