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Donnelly Miller Set to Compete in Alpine Downhill Ski Racing

Postby skier10800 » Thu Feb 14, 2013 8:45 am

Hello, my name is Donnelly Miller. Over the last few years, I have seriously gotten back into skiing and have shifted my focus from what is termed big mountain or freeskiing and now am focusing on alpine downhill ski racing and may even consider skier cross. I am even considering training to compete in the Winter Olympic games in the sport of skiing.

My goal is to inspire other people to not give up on their ambitions because of their age. Although many people would say I am way past my prime, my goal is to prove life is not over at age 30! I have even started a new YouTube channel that will document my training and will include some blogging. Although this post has nothing to do with meeting women abroad, I figure the best way for any single man to quit feeling sorry for himself is to take up a hobby or sport.

In the mean time, I am in the process of getting a full on downhill ski race set up. I can tell you this, the last thing that will be on my mind going over 80 mph while skiing will be asking myself "Why am I still single?" My biggest focus will be making sure I don't crash and end up getting a toboggan ride down the mountain! :lol:
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Re: 38 Year Old Virgin Experiencing the Seattle Freeze

Postby lone_yakuza » Thu Feb 14, 2013 9:11 am

skier10800 wrote:Hello all, I am a 38 year old college student currently living in Bellingham, Washington. Throughout my life, I have had great difficulty making and maintaining relationships. Growing up in the state of Washington, I feel like I have never stacked up to the average male. I recently broke up with the first girl friend I ever had in my life. After 37 years of not even experiencing my first kiss, I thought I had finally met the girl who would understand me and be willing to be a part of my life. I was wrong in more ways than others. The relationship barely lasted a month and from then on, it has made me questioned if I really am not good enough for any woman. I am currently a junior at college pursuing a kinesiology degree and I partake in many adventure like sports like skiing, hiking, rafting, and cliff jumping. I go to the gym 3-4 days a week. I served 4 year active duty in the Navy. Despite what I have achieved, I feel like I am just not good enough for any woman in my area. I get so jealous of seeing all these guys with their girlfriend or wife, and it makes me feel like I'm defective. I feel like I've been blackballed by the peers I grew up with. I see all the people who bullied and teased me growing in their Facebook pictures of them being happy with their wife.

I can't imagine I'm that horrible of a person. But maybe to a lot of women in my area, I am a horrible person. If you look up articles on the Seattle Freeze, you will see I live in an area where it is really hard to even make friends. What I want most in life is to be happy, to be touched, and to feel worthy.

I have made a couple of friends which is helping me to keep my depression from getting severe. I hope to make more friends. I know that many of my friends I make will be involved in a relationship and that will make me very uncomfortable after a while because I generally don't like being the 3rd wheel in the crowd.

There is another guy who I think is also 37 or 38 and his name is Donnelly Miller and I think he also used to live in Bellingham and then moved also always had problems getting girlfriends. See the problem here in America is #1 lack of attractive women #2 more men than there are attractive women and then of course total lack or respect for other people. This society is messed up. Most of us are trying to leave. If you are white, you are lucky. You have white privilege and can go to East Asia and live very well, simply because you are white. You will also have girls all over you for the most part.
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Postby lone_yakuza » Thu Feb 14, 2013 9:22 am

Wait a sec you can't be THE Donnelly Miller can you? If you are, then I say keep up the awesome work in all the sports you enjoy and the bodybuilding. Lift heavy take a multi!
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Postby zboy1 » Thu Feb 14, 2013 9:47 am

Welcome to the forum.
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Postby Winston » Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:30 pm

Are you Donnelly Miller, the guy on YouTube here:

If so, thanks for accepting my invitation to visit us.

I used to live in Bellingham too. It's one of the worst places for social life or meeting girls. People there are weird. Washington is a very beautiful state. So it's a pity. Check out what I wrote about Bellingham here:
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Postby pete98146 » Thu Feb 14, 2013 5:40 pm

Hi Skier....

I live in Seattle and I feel your pain. The State of Washington will never be a social mecca. Ever think about getting a foreign bride? I have and it's made my life here much more tolerable!
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Postby jamesbond » Thu Feb 14, 2013 5:48 pm

Welcome to the forum skier10800. I have also heard horror stories about the dating and social scene in Washington state. Winston has talked about this a lot and so have other members of the forum.

I would never want to live in the Pacific Northwest, I did visit Seattle and Portland a long time ago, the scenery is awesome but the people (especially the women) leave a lot to be desired.

Do you plan on visiting any countries in the near future? You can always get yourself a foreign woman to marry, which is a much better alternative to marrying an American woman! :D
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Postby OutWest » Thu Feb 14, 2013 6:14 pm

pete98146 wrote:Hi Skier....

I live in Seattle and I feel your pain. The State of Washington will never be a social mecca. Ever think about getting a foreign bride? I have and it's made my life here much more tolerable!

I thought you all knew the secret in Seattle! They have no need to meet and breed...they reproduce only by mitosis.
The other big secret...the girls at the boarding gates are friendly...LOL

For example, "Last call boarding for flight 3452 to Bogota" ...flash her a big smile as you can get out of town.
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Postby Andrewww » Thu Feb 14, 2013 6:34 pm

Well to be frank you're not missing much...Besides the sex (for which you don't need a girlfriend anyway) I really can't see any advantage of being in a relationship with an American woman.

If you're the guy in that video then you should just get out of seem to be in great shape, you look relatively young, what are you waiting for ?
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Postby Teal Lantern » Thu Feb 14, 2013 10:35 pm

не поглеждай назад. 8)

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Postby Ghost » Thu Feb 14, 2013 11:53 pm

Hey, welcome to Happier Abroad. First of all, let me say that you are not the problem. This society is. I don't know how many of the "red pills" you have taken yet, but rest assured that there is hope. You are quite accomplished and have a good physique. The U.S. is a horrible place for dating and relationships, but you can go places in the world where being yourself will work to your favor and you will be liked and loved for it.

In the end, you can find a good woman from a better culture who will love you for who and what you are, women who are themselves nice, and then you'll be glad that you never got involved with American women. With your looks, accomplishments, and ability to travel (assuming you can, but if not now, then later), you have a lot of reasons to be hopeful! :)
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Postby mand38 » Mon Mar 04, 2013 1:41 pm

Dude this really sucks...
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Postby zacb » Mon Mar 04, 2013 1:53 pm

If you plan on staying in the US, your best bet might be to invest in one of Roosh V.'s books. Otherwise, I would suggest checking out your options abroad. Best of luck!
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Postby ContraMundumRants » Sat Mar 09, 2013 6:40 pm

Welcome to the forum Donnelly,

Your post touched me. I wish you the best in getting out of depression; I know how hard it can be for a Western man who feels lonely given the harsh and cold dating scene we are faced with.

I just checked out your Youtube channel for the first time, and not only are you in great shape, but you also seem to be very intelligent. If American women cannot appreciate you, then that is their loss. Go somewhere else where you are appreciated.

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Postby Raffie » Thu Aug 08, 2013 5:14 am

I lived in S. Caif in the mid 90's around the Huntington Beach area for 13 years and dating was easy and the women was beautiful.
The one kicker was they love to have a man spend $$$ on them. At that time I was making over $8hr.
Needless to say dating was great, even tho I did not have the $$$ to keep them more then 1 week. Had many 1 week stands at least. LOL

Moved to Seattle and my dating life went over the cliff.

I got a great job and pay, but there is no women. The women who would go out with me, are, well...not to sound shallow but they are big and very unattractive.

I try to approach women at parks while walking my dog and they look away from me or look at me like I'm a stalker. Others will casually reach into their purse, so not sure if they going to pepper spray me or use a gun and shoot me for looking their way.

Seattle women are very messed up and that is putting it mildly.

I might get a date about 3-5 years at best with a average looking gal around here. Seldom a 2nd date due to the high amount of serial daters in the area. They love to dine and dash the men.

I have pretty much given up on dating. Now days I just focus on retiring and moving far from this Liberal Toilet that is called Seattle.

So @OP, its not you at all. The PNW is F'd hard core and it will never be fixed.
If I did not have a good job I would have left long ago.
So, if you can move from here do it. Don't even give it a 2nd thought.
There is many threads and articles about men who left the PNW and are so happy now.
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