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Post by Renata » January 6th, 2014, 2:12 pm

Johnny1975 wrote:
Renata wrote:
zboy1 wrote: A lot of angry men here, but, to be honest, I don't blame them. The thing you said, if you're not willing to do anything to change circumstances, there is no use complaining. ...

Going overseas is the best thing anyone can do, in my opinion. I'm far happier in Asia than I ever was in the U.S. of Gay. For some reason, Anglo societies just have a very negative effect on people's soul, in a way that doesn't happen in other places. ...
I think a lot of the guys are strapped for cash & so migrating is difficult for them, because what else could be stopping someone from leaving if they're not happy?> There are lots of options for ppl who are on a budget like volunteer work, organic farm hands, couchsurfing, backpacking but one has to have the guts to take the risk into the unknown. I tell myself what I gain I gain & what I loose I loose. My dad taught me that if I don't try then I've already failed.
There are other reasons too. For example, culture shock, home sickness, anxiety. The thought of "what am I doing flying half way across the world just to find a decent female?" It's not just about practicalities.
Danger is real but fear' is something created by us, it just holds us back, it's man's biggest illusion .... the culture shock, home sickness, anxiety. etc you mentioned is just us screwing ourselves over basically.

As well it's all about perspective, you see it as moving half way around the world for a girl, but that should just be part of it. Migrating can give you a better life. Every action has a reaction. 8)
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Re: About me, a Not so typical American girl

Post by Lucy123 » February 24th, 2014, 10:52 pm

DanielleNguyen wrote:
High School
High school was hell. I was the only virgin in my senior class and the only virgin when I graduated. Being a virgin really got me bullied. I never understood the concept of that.
Wow I'm sorry you were bullied for being a virgin. Everyone in my school was a virgin, you'd be harassed if you weren't a virgin. Teens can be mean.

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Post by DanielleNguyen » March 21st, 2014, 10:38 pm

really? I want to go to your virgin highschool.

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