What would you do in these situations?

[Iawesome60]

Hello everyone, how are you all? I have a few questions. If you had a girlfriend/wife, would you go to clubs? I would not go to clubs because there will be members of the opposite sex. If there are females in my vicinity, I will look. I do not want to look at other women especially if I have a girlfriend/wife. I have a guilty conscious. If I look and I am attracted, I am sending a message to my girlfriend/wife. That message is "she looks better than you." I have to pick the right woman looks-wise and personality-wise.

How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife went to a club/bar? I would hope that she is not interested in other men. There is a good chance that she could dance with other men.

If a woman had a boyfriend/husband, would you accept a coffee date or something minor with them? I would not because I do not want to fight with another man and that is wrong to attempt to take another man's woman. What if her man tried to kill me? I want to continue to live.

Look, I am not one of those verbally and physically abusive guys. I am doing things in order to continue to have a good conscience.