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Ten Pointers for Ladies Looking for a Foreign Man Online

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Postby Ghost » Sun Sep 08, 2013 2:40 pm

Don't be picky and roll out a laundry list. You will rightfully be ignored when competing with nice, reasonable women.
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Postby Banano » Sun Sep 08, 2013 4:42 pm

Why would QUALITY woman spend her time online looking for foreign man?

Local men bad??Foreigners good?
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Postby ladislav » Sun Sep 08, 2013 5:33 pm

Banano wrote:Why would QUALITY woman spend her time online looking for foreign man?

Local men bad??Foreigners good?

1) Not enough quality local men around because of demographics- most are married or have 1-5 gf's. This is a situation in small town Russia. The opposite of the US where you can be a quality man but there are just not enough good women to match you around.

2) Local prejudices which are very unfair. You can be of some ethnic background that the local men do not like. My mother had a problem like that. College educated and beautiful but local guys just would not court her- wrong ethnic background. Some countries are VERY intolerant.

3) An unfair society and men that treat women bad overall as a culture. She wants a man who would treat her better.

4) In spite of being " quality", the local economy is not "quality" .

Incidentally, in case of Thailand, the country is not poor, there are plenty of good local guys and the economy is doing well.

But in case of the Philippines, things are much more complicated, same in Russia.
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Postby Winston » Sun Sep 08, 2013 8:04 pm

Thanks Ladislav. I will post this in the Ladies Forum too. And maybe on the FAQ threads page.
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Postby Hero » Sun Sep 15, 2013 2:53 pm

I really have to reiterate the "don't be silent" rule. I'm chatting with some absolutely gorgeous Latin American women who simply can't hold up their end of the conversation, even in their own language! It makes me wonder if they're really interested in me. But if they're not, why did they give me their contact information in the first place?
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