My sexless relationship with Filipina. What to do?

[droid]

logical conversations with her similar to a typical 1st world woman

Lol you're still on Ambien man

No it's true. Dianne can hold deep conversations. I've told her many true things about America and cultural comparisons between countries. She sees what I see and understands the truths I talk about. She is very open minded when it comes to hearing the truth about things. But she's not a first world woman. First world women tend to be politically correct and hate hearing negative truths or comparisons. So he used the wrong term there.

I didn't mean it like that, what i'm questioning is being able to hold "logical" conversations with western women, in general. At best they're opinionated and pseudo-intellectual. There are exceptions of course.

[Winston]

Winston,

So you want to hop back and forth between China and the Philippines? Can you afford that?

Sure why not? Anyone can. There are many cheap flights and deals on Cebu Pacific to China and Hong Kong. And I have income from this site and rental income too. So why not? No problem. The only problem is whether I have the energy to move around so much. Going to the airport and dealing with immigration is a hassle and stress.

[chanta76]

Winston,

Since your the creator of this site. What are you looking for? I mean you want to be happy abroad obviously but you tried Russia, and Philippines but those countries didn't work out. So what are you looking for in China?

Plus since you believe you offer soo much to a woman. Why not Russia again? I mean I remember you mentioned that a Russian girl has the intellectual capacity to keep you on your toes.

[Winston]

Winston,

Since your the creator of this site. What are you looking for? I mean you want to be happy abroad obviously but you tried Russia, and Philippines but those countries didn't work out. So what are you looking for in China?

Plus since you believe you offer soo much to a woman. Why not Russia again? I mean I remember you mentioned that a Russian girl has the intellectual capacity to keep you on your toes.

I never said those countries didn't work out. I just want to try something new. I feel attracted to chinese women now so I want to pursue that. I'm seeking love, dating, romance, a girlfriend, etc. Why is this hard for you to understand? It's self explanatory.

I plan to return to Philippines again and Russia too. I'm trying to get rock to go with me to Siberia.

Yeah Russian women are fun and open and engaging. However they like big burly masculine men so they are not sexually attracted to me. I explained all this many times in other threads. How can you miss that yet you remember one post many years ago about Dianne working in the bar? Your memory must be highly selective.

However I think asian men may do better in eastern Russia because it's closer to Asia and may have more asian influence in its culture. Thus the Russian women in the eastern half of Russia may be more attracted to asian men. It'd be interesting to find out if that's true.

[chanta76]

Winston,

That's what gets me confused. So you saying that in Russia it wasn't all bad for you and it did work out for you but you saying that Russian girls prefer big burly guys and don't find you sexual attractive? If that was me I wouldn't consider Russia all that successful. What about a big burly Asian guy? Would they do OK in the western part of Russia?

I imagine the eastern part of Russia with the heavy Asian population will be ok to Asian guys . However, it sucks that Asian guys are limited and can't get white girls. I mean if not Russia there really is no other place for an Asian guy to get a white woman.

[Winston]

Winston,

That's what gets me confused. So you saying that in Russia it wasn't all bad for you and it did work out for you but you saying that Russian girls prefer big burly guys and don't find you sexual attractive? If that was me I wouldn't consider Russia all that successful. What about a big burly Asian guy? Would they do OK in the western part of Russia?

I imagine the eastern part of Russia with the heavy Asian population will be ok to Asian guys . However, it sucks that Asian guys are limited and can't get white girls. I mean if not Russia there really is no other place for an Asian guy to get a white woman.

I've answered that thousands of times already. How is it that I can answer something 10,000 times and you forget it, but if I say only ONCE that Dianne worked in a bar, then you memorize it for all eternity? Can you explain that?

I said I was HAPPY in Russia most of the time. And I got more dates than I ever thought possible. Why do you think that getting sex is the only thing that constitutes success abroad? Why? Doesn't happiness matter too? Isn't happier abroad about being happy overseas? Why are you so narrow?

I never said I was successful in Russia in terms of getting sex. I said I was successful in finding happiness there for some time.

Admittedly I was not happy in Russia for the last 3 or 4 months of my third trip. But that was because I suffered the Russian winter to the extreme which got me down on my mood. Furthermore, people in Russia become miserable and grumpy during the winter which rubbed off on me too. And of course Murphys law gave me a lot of problems and obstacles and bad luck too.

But I felt more alive in Russia than I ever did in America. It opened my eyes and inspired me to start this website and movement. Happier abroad wouldn't exist without it. That's why it was successful. I discovered my destiny there, which was to inspire men to live overseas.

Isn't that worth more than just getting laid? Ask yourself that.

It's kind of like how in the movie Superman, when superman goes to the north pole and discovers the fortress of solitude and hears the message left for him by his father jorelle, he finally knew who he was and what he was on earth to do. That's when he got his blue suit and red cape and officially became superman. That's what my Russia trips did for me. It's where I got my "blue suit and red cape" too. Lol

Do you understand now?

Can you bookmark this post chanta76 so I don't have to repeat these answers another 10,000 times? Why do many guys here have such horrible memory? Is that deliberate?

Yes if you are big and burly and strong, Russian women will like you more. They don't like thin men or soft men. Yes asian men's options are limited. They can get girls in Russia but they will have to put in more work and time and will most likely end up with plain looking girls, not attractive ones. It also depends on if you are a good looking and tall asian guy too.

[chanta76]

Winston,

I don't think I have selective memory. Before happier abroad came out your trips to Russia came out. Within the Asian american forum they talked about you. That's how I followed you. I read some of your reports in Russia like I said I'm probably one of the few guys that follow this site before inception. When I first heard of you I felt compassion because you felt the same racism in the dating market or the social out cast that Asian men face in America.

If you think you felt success in Russia that's on you. I mean it's really your opinion that counts not mine. The reason why I brought the issue about sex is that I think sex is important to you. Even now you complain about how come in China your not getting causal sex .

I do remember one post you wrote about Russia how you went to a massage parlor or something like that and the Russian working girls didn't want to go with you and how humiliating that was. In your Russian trip you made issues about what is this girl thinking or how flaky Russian girls are too you. You are right that sex is not everything but I think to you sex is important. In many of your trips you frequent brothels or look for them . Nothing wrong with looking to get laid but if you were getting laid more frequently in Russia your probably still be there. I think.

[droid]

Yes if you are big and burly and strong, Russian women will like you more. They don't like thin men or soft men.

How does it compare to America? is it just as prevalent, and does it include tattoos?
I'm no expert but I've seen pics of scrawny nerdy and thin Russian guys with hotties. Isn't the market supposed to be more biased in favor of men, unlike America?

I suffered the Russian winter to the extreme

Napoleon and Hitler made the same mistake Lol you repeated history. Better leave operation Winstonrossa for the summer.

[chanta76]

droid,

My guess is that you have to look at the local men. Russian guys on the average are tall and some are well built. I think that most Russian girls probably prefer Russian guys because of similar culture and language.

The difference between let say the Philippines is that the local Philippine guys is shorter and darker compared to a white guys. So that's part of the reason why a ugly white guy can do OK even in the Philippines. But in Russia it's different story. I mean look at this site most of the poster here seem to focus on Asia ...

I think if your short and not handsome in Russia you have to make it up with wealth or something like that but from hearing how Russian girls are manipulative you have to watch out. If anything it seems like white women in general (russian or american) are not as good. I don't know if it's genetic thing for white people. I mean this as no offense.

Again I can be corrected ..I mean you can have some ethnic guy write field reports of how he is getting laid left and right in Russia.

[Falcon]

Winston, how is your relationship with Dianne now? I'm amazed you are still with her. Congratulations!

Did you get married yet so that you can stay in the Philippines long-term visa-free?

[redfeather]

Winston,
A friend emailed me this article, so I wanted to post it for others to read.
If you are not super religious do not worry, but just take it in the realm of what a healthy relationship should be like.
My ex-wife used to withhold sex from me all the time, so I know how messed up this can get.

http://joebeam.com/blog/does-bible-say- ... riage.html