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FOR THE LOVE OF CHRIST, HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

Post by womanizer » August 3rd, 2010, 1:10 pm

I CANT GO THROUGH WITH THIS, I CAN'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I'm supposed to get married to this girl, and I'm still banging hookers!!!!1111 WTF am I supposed to do??????!!!!!

I love her and want kids but Im banging whores on the side and i can't stop!!

Somebody tell me, WHAT SHOULD I DO??????!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: FOR THE LOVE OF CHRIST, HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

Post by jamesbond » August 3rd, 2010, 1:27 pm

womanizer wrote:I CANT GO THROUGH WITH THIS, I CAN'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I'm supposed to get married to this girl, and I'm still banging hookers!!!!1111 WTF am I supposed to do??????!!!!!

I love her and want kids but Im banging whores on the side and i can't stop!!

Somebody tell me, WHAT SHOULD I DO??????!!!!!!!!!!


Jumpin Jesus! Your in an interesting situation! Only you can do what's best for you. I would have a hard time marrying a girl knowing that I am addicted to banging hookers. :shock:

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Post by Jackal » August 3rd, 2010, 2:30 pm

Is there any way you could make sex with your fiancee more satisfying and exciting? You know, buying her some lingerie, f***ing her in the ass, etc. ?

I doubt you can be happily married if you're not satisfied with the sex you have with your wife.

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Post by dano » August 3rd, 2010, 2:45 pm

Its obvious your not ready to get married yet, you will not be able to keep this a secret. If you get married your future wife will find out and she will divorce you. I suggest you take the money you have saved for your wedding, travel to asia and bang some more hookers.

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Post by MrPeabody » August 3rd, 2010, 2:45 pm

Don't get married. You will just bring more pain and suffering into the world, especially if you have a child, followed by a nasty divorce.

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Post by womanizer » August 4th, 2010, 5:19 am

To all who posted:

thanks for the advice. Yeah I'm probably not marriage material, given my overpowering sex drive. What can I say, I love banging young hot women, and I can't just settle for one. How can a super charged horny guy like me change and become monogamous?

And what about those kinds of marriages where the husband and wife live separately? I've heard about those, wouldn't that be a workable alternative? I dont know about you, but I'd go bonkers living with my wife day in day out
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Post by dano » August 4th, 2010, 6:03 am

womanizer wrote:To all who posted:

thanks for the advice. Yeah I'm probably not marriage material, given my overpowering sex drive. What can I say, I love banging young hot women, and I can't just settle for one. How can a super charged horny guy like me change and become monogamous?

And what about those kinds of marriages where the husband and wife live separately? I've heard about those, wouldn't that be a workable alternative? I dont know about you, but I'd go bonkers living with my wife day in day out


I found marriage to be really boring. After a few years your wife will remind you of your mom no matter how sexy she is and then its all downhill from there. Taking out the trash will be more interesting than sex with your wife.

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Post by ladislav » August 4th, 2010, 7:21 am

I am polyamorous ( not 'polygamous) myself. Took me a long time to come to terms with my sexuality. But I am now out of the closet but there is no parade. How come there is no polyamorist pride parade? I think I am much more natural than gay men and even more natural than marriage-minded men.
Welcome to the club. While hookers are fun to a point, one gets tired of their 'jadedness' after a while. It is much better to have multiple GFs and be honest to them, treat them all well and not give promises or anything. There is a way to practice one's sexuality and still not create bad karma.

I have decided that marriage is not for me as I enjoy being around many women and can't help myself.

Don't marry. It will fail.
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Post by womanizer » August 4th, 2010, 7:33 pm

womanizer wrote:And what about those kinds of marriages where the husband and wife live separately? I've heard about those, wouldn't that be a workable alternative?


Hasn't anybody heard fo this type of arrangement? Like right after you get married, you and the wife each have separate places. My fiancee works in one part of the country, so she could live where she is while I live in another part. How do you think this would work out?
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Post by starkeep » August 5th, 2010, 12:49 am

8) I would like to have sex with as many as possible hookers also. But in this age of aids herpes hepititus etc i think your chances of getting
married after contacting some disease is slim and none. Ive heard of guys not allowed in brothels that have herpes. So in my opinion the married life is a lot better if the gal is slender and appealing.
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Post by womanizer » August 5th, 2010, 6:25 am

starkeep wrote:8) I would like to have sex with as many as possible hookers also. But in this age of aids herpes hepititus etc i think your chances of getting
married after contacting some disease is slim and none. Ive heard of guys not allowed in brothels that have herpes. So in my opinion the married life is a lot better if the gal is slender and appealing.



Thats' great if you can find a woman like that. I wish I could live the way you think, but I feel driven to chase p***y. What can I say, I'm a sad tragedy, a man of his time and place.

BTW Ive always worn condoms, NEVER gone down on them, and I've had blood tests done regularly for stds, and I've always tested negative for them including HIV. Im not sick nor do I show any symptoms nor have I in all the time Ive been doing this.
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Post by Winston » August 5th, 2010, 8:14 am

I think you know the answer. You shouldn't get married. It'd be a lie if you did. It's not natural to promise to love one thing and never another for life. That's ridiculous and artificial.

Can you imagine promising to only like vanilla ice cream and no other flavors, for life?!

It doesn't make sense.
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Post by Benj » October 2nd, 2010, 12:48 am

You could ask Gene Simmons what to do.

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Post by E_Irizarry » October 2nd, 2010, 3:38 pm

dano wrote:Its obvious your not ready to get married yet, you will not be able to keep this a secret. If you get married your future wife will find out and she will divorce you. I suggest you take the money you have saved for your wedding, travel to asia and bang some more hookers.


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