IraqVet2003 wrote:
Kradmelder, I believe there are several reasons why black American men don't expat to Africa to look for women. The first is that people have to remember Africa is a whole CONTINENT that contains within it 54 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES. Of which in each of these nations has hundreds if not thousands of different tribes, languages, and dialects. Second, there are large areas of Africa that are unsafe if not down right dangerous with the many conflicts (religious, tribal), diseases (such as Malaria, West Nile Fever, Ebola, etc.). Not to mention there are some African countries that are still underdeveloped and are filled with massive corruption. The third is that Africa just simply doesn't get as much attention in the media to neither expat nor to go seeking women as Latin America, Southeast Asia, Europe, or Oceania (Australia, New Zealand, Cook Islands, etc.). However, an author by the name of Steve Love has mentioned a few African countries in his E-book entitled:"BEST COUNTRIES FOR BLACK MEN". And in it Steve has recommended certain cities in the African nations of Ghana (Accra), Ethiopia (Addis Ababa), Namibia (Windhoek), and South Africa (Cape Town, Johannesburg ) as possible places for black men to find women and/or expat to along with some Latin American, Asian, European countries and Australia. Kradmelder you could purchase the E-book at
http://www.amazon.com. In Addition, you can go to
http://www.expatkings.com which is a website for black men interested in traveling, working, dating/marriage, or living abroad. And then the final reason I think why black American men don't go to Africa to either expat to or find women is that if they only want black ladies they can easily find them the Caribbean or Latin America. Particularly, in the Dominican Republic, Belize, Costa Rica, Panama, Colombia, and Brazil which is not too far to fly from the states. Also, please check out the
http://www.youtube.com documentary called "FRUSTRATED" about black American men going to Brazil to both expat to and find women. Otherwise, more black men are going to Asia or Europe to find a new life.
That is exactly my point. Every nation blacks took over is a total stuff up of poverty, corruption, crime, life means nothing, cannot develop etc. For exactly that reason black women would want to get out and you could get a young woman cheap.
The only disadvantage is the tribalism (racism) I see amongst many blacks. Many black Zimbabweans working here will not take a black South African wife, and save money to pay lobola to get a wife from home. There is a hierarchy amongst blacks, with Xhosa seen as the lowest. No one, black or white, like nigerians either. The links i sent you shows they don't like black Americans either. For one, they are considered Coloured, not Black. I am not sure if the hierarchy stems from history. Blacks had no prisons. As the Bantu migrated southwards from west Africa, the thieves and trouble makers were expelled southwards, hence the laziest, most violent, most criminalistic were always the southernmost tip. That is why the Xhosa were found the furthest south and were the first to encounter whites, from whom they tried to steal of course. The agricultural, self sufficient ones are found further north.
When I was in Kenya, all the Somali women would go for me, but I don't race mix. The Black Kenyans told me it is great honour as Somali women are considered much better than a Kenyan one. So blacks do not see all backs as the same
They would consider a Somali woman worthy of a white man, but not a Kenyan one
There are other criteria as well. In some places the darker a tribe is, the lower their status. Like in Sudan and other countries. In southern Africa the fatter the wife the higher the status as it shows you can afford to keep your wife well fed. In other tribes a woman with a kid is worth more lobola than a virgin as she is proven to be fertile. In fact the cultural value system is totally inverse of the white one.
Black African women are subservient and hard working. For example they do all the housework, while Mr sits on his arse, and do most of the agricultural work. So i would figure if black men want to be treated like a lord of the manor, Arican women would be a better bet. I am not sure if the black Caribbean women are like this.
Your answer basically tells me the thinking of black Americans is very different than that of Africans because you don't see the hierarchies that Africans do. Is that correct?
It strikes as me as very different as whites 350 years later will look back to Europe as the centre of their culture and origin. Maybe not so much white Americans, but whites from former colonies always want to make at least 1 trip to Europe, like a muzzie wants to make his hadz and headbutt the ground of Saudi Arabia. Black Americans don't feel this pull to Africa?
Not that we want more of you here. we have plenty
But if you would take some wives back it would reduce the birth rate here
I have been to america plenty. But blacks there are just not as approachable as black Africans. There is far more racial hostility there than here. Like I easily mix with black africans overseas. But both white and black Africans don't easily mix with African-Americans. In liberal places I can more easily mix with black Africans than the libtard whites, whose mindset is more alien to me than the black one. Like in Norway. the libtard feminist women are horrible and did they ever get a shock that us racist whiteys fresh out of apartheid utopia would prefer to talk to Ghanians etc than to them
What are your thoughts on that?