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The Pitfalls of Meeting Foreign Women

Postby jagulep » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:49 am

I found this short blog online (done in 2011):

What do u think of it?

I guess Winston, u still disagree with the conclusion of the blog, that men shouldn't seek foreign women but instead seek local Christian women? I do too, as given in the 11th comment to the post.

But how do u feel about these things now, Winston? U had dating trouble in USA, searched the world, decided on Dianne, who then gave u a whole heap of trouble - proving how difficult it is to find a decent woman and be able to read women who seem so perfect. I later read u were doing well with Dianne and u keep this website running :) so I guess u think it still is definitely worth searching overseas for a mate? Nevertheless, please say what u think of this blog. thx
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Postby OutWest » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:58 am

jagulep wrote:I found this short blog online (done in 2011):

What do u think of it?

I guess Winston, u still disagree with the conclusion of the blog, that men shouldn't seek foreign women but instead seek local Christian women? I do too, as given in the 11th comment to the post.

But how do u feel about these things now, Winston? U had dating trouble in USA, searched the world, decided on Dianne, who then gave u a whole heap of trouble - proving how difficult it is to find a decent woman and be able to read women who seem so perfect. I later read u were doing well with Dianne and u keep this website running :) so I guess u think it still is definitely worth searching overseas for a mate? Nevertheless, please say what u think of this blog. thx

>>>>The site you link to is a trojan virus infested pit. You must be a troll.

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Postby jagulep » Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:15 pm

The address works, u click on it and the site comes up. If someone on here would like to read it and can manage to type an intelligent sentence without indiscriminately writing insulting comments, please check on it and give your insights
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Postby ph_visitor » Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:30 pm

jagulep wrote:The address works, u click on it and the site comes up.

Hi, Yeah, your response is a weasel-worded, non-reply to his observation that your link is full of malware.

Since you dissembled when replying, I see no reason to click the link.
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Postby C.J. » Thu Mar 29, 2012 2:48 pm

Phew! I was about to click the link too. :D
Don't click the link in the OP guys, ITS A VYRUSS!!
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Postby jagulep » Fri Mar 30, 2012 1:24 am

I'm using a library computer. There is no weasel-wording. It just seems to work on here, but I'll risk my computer blowing up by copying and pasting the words from the link below.
Thank you, C.J., for responding, but by actually using words devoid of insults!


Some men have considered meeting their soul-mate abroad.But, there are many reasons why this should be discouraged.

First, let's examine the main reasons why some men attempt to marry a foreign woman.
1- More than anything, he's tired of being abused by The American Women. (or, The European Women).

2- Most domestic women are too picky. Men often realize that lesser women are too selective, as well. So true, that she might turn him down, even if his appearance is 100% suitable. The same rule applies, even if he's better looking. Perhaps, the woman simply believes that she could "do better".

3- the idea of meeting 'old fashioned' women is vastly overrated. Most men don't really care about these things. However many domestic women don't wanna settle down and start a family. Although this gives rise for suspicion. It's almost as if Mainstream Media has brainwashed them.

4- Here's The Main Reason: It's rarely discussed, but, foreign agencies have better software compared to American Dating Sites, such as, or In other words, it's simply easier to chat with women via foreign agencies.
For instance: IF you're browsing through profiles, a foreign lady might place you onto her "favorites list". And, if you visit her profile again, she will then place you to her 'admirers list'. Therefore, you already know beforehand that she may be interested in Chatting with you.

So, here's a simple solution: Dating Agencies in the USA must completely change their software. Currently, most American dating sites are not User-Friendly. Literally speaking, thousands of strangers are thrown into a chat-room, and, everyone tries to fend for themselves. Needless to say; it's an unproductive way of meeting your soul-mate.

5- The Media hugely influences the dating scene. They create suspicion between the genders. Thus forcing men to consider alternatives.

6- After receiving a daily dose of Feminized crap; most men feel betrayed by women.
Here's The Solution: simply remove it from mainstream media.

7- Some men try to avoid Stuck-up women. Or, high maintenance expenses.

8- The media has really harmed relationships between men & women. Aside from flat-out extremism, there are additional factors. The dogma of "sexual harassment' is a classic example. The Media uses this dogma in order to deliberately divide the genders.

9- regrettably, some men are trying to marry a young woman. He's merely seeking a woman who's half his age.

Okay, those are a few major reasons why men marry foreign women.
NOW, let me explain why it's not such a wonderful idea.

First, If you're searching through thousands of profiles; be warned that most foreign ladies have temperamental personalities. Partially because the internet attracts those with flawed behavior.. And, you won't be able to recognize her flaws, when chatting through internet.

2nd: White women are notorious for her vanity. But, few realize that foreign girls are also conceited. (YIKES). And, when European men visit foreign lands, he's shocked to learn this.

3rd: Regarding 'money & finances'; Women overseas are more demanding than European women. This seems impossible to believe; yet very true nonetheless. You wouldn't think that a poor woman would expect a lot from men. But, in truth, their attitudes are totally unrealistic.
Here's a typical example: An Australian man begins corresponding with a Filipino woman. Within two weeks, he begins sending money to her. And, this continues every week thereafter. At the time, his girlfriend was only earning 8 Australian Dollars per week. But, she expected him to give nothing less than 80 AUS Dollar's on a weekly basis. Even then, she believed that the amount was too small. Honestly, this is a typical case. {It's the rule, and not the exception}. The Foreign women will destroy your entire life's savings. And, you'll regret ever trying to meet your soul-mate overseas.
You'd think that a poor woman would be humble. But, in fact, they have no concept of responsibility, whatsoever.

3b- Worse yet, the foreign women are very ungrateful. Even though, her European boyfriend can barely afford to make his own monthly payments. In most cases, he's forced to cut back on personal expenses, in order to support her. Plain and simple: He gives too much money, but the woman doesn't appreciate this generosity.

4- Foreign girls are socially constructed to regard sex as her #1 weapon. SO, for this reason alone, you'd be a lot better off marrying a European women.

5- Foreign girls are raised to establish close friendships with one another. Adolescents will hold hands, wherever they go. And, when she grows into adulthood; the attitude carries onward. It's rare for a foreign women to go anywhere, without being accompanied by friends.
For example: Let's suppose, she lives 1/4 mile from the beach. Despite this proximity, she will never walk alone to the shore. This has Nothing to do with fear of safety. But instead, she's been socialized to control social interaction. Not surprisingly, this becomes harmful to the woman later on. But, the initial goal was to the sake of feminine bondage.
So, with all said; there's a similarity between foreign women and European.

6- Women abroad will share every secret with friends and family. This includes relationships & sex life. Also, if you share any secrets; this information will be freely exchanged.

7- A warning to any man who's dating a Foreign woman: If you have any disagreement with her; her friends will also get involved into the debate. Does this sound familiar?

8- Here's an issue we'd prefer not to discuss. Women abroad have physical shortcomings. You could meet someone next door who's vastly more beautiful. You might be better off dating the least attractive woman from within your country, rather than choosing the best-looking woman abroad. It's plain & simple. European women are the best choice. Factors such as hair, eyes, skull, and height, all sway toward her favor. Amazingly, European women also offer the most diverse array of physical types.

9- This might be somewhat controversial, but European women have the nicest figures. She is the shapeliest, loveliest, and most sexually appealing. (We will not go into specific details).

10- Most importantly; You're totally incompatible with a foreign women. You have nothing in common whatsoever with women abroad. They have unusual customs, different beliefs, and a completely different way of life. This is not meant to degrade her native ideals. But, European men are NOT compatible with women abroad.

11- Many foreign ladies are too old-fashioned. And, you cannot possibly relate to them. Although, we've been taught that previous generations showed more respect for men; This is Not true. Back then, women were easily offended. This is still true in foreign countries. Foreigners regard Sports Illustrated as pornographic. Combine this with untold similar beliefs. You will simply hate living with a Victorian woman.

12- In many countries, their women are raised to be [modest] and body-conscience. Would you really wanna marry this type of woman? Certainly not.

13- Most foreign women place top priority on their immediate families, not their husband. Her biggest goal is to assure safety and quality living for parents, sisters, cousins and distant relatives. You didn't know that, did you? The agencies falsely lead you to believe that her husband is top priority.

13b- When it comes to matters within her family; the foreign woman will Always choose helping immediate family members before husband. (But, no one ever told you this).

14- The cost and effort necessary to meet women abroad is enormous. There are many factors, such as corresponding, cellular expenses, cost of agencies, traveling, and text messaging. Also, the paperwork alone could take hundreds of hours, along with months of waiting and fees. So, meeting a foreign girl is more expensive than ever imagined. (and, this effort yields a 2nd Rate spoiled brat)

15- Most of the ladies are too damned exotic. Marrying her would cause permanent stress & embarrassment in your life. This might sound harsh. But you should be aware of these pitfalls.

16- Surprisingly, most Foreign ladies are disrespectful. (although, not in the same way as Domestic Women). For example:
--They'll telephone you at their own convenience, not yours.
-- She'll ask for money without prior notice. Thus, forcing you to make an immediate trip to Western Union.
--She'll involve you in all her family problems.
--Foreign Women try making you feel guilty just because you have more than them.
--They're wasteful with resources. She also refuses to validate his financial burdens.
Bottom Line: Foreign women do not solve to your problems.

17- Virtually all Foreign women withhold vital information on their profiles. There are too many examples to list. But, please be assured; her actual appearance will not even remotely resemble the photograph. Please be aware of this. She will look totally different than the picture submitted to the agency. It's insane. ...and, downright nervy. She'll also lie about her weight, height, whether or not she already has child, living status, residence, family problems, personality disorders. You're truly on your own, when meeting these women.

18- Some guys meet foreign women, merely because he enjoys traveling. But, most trips are dangerous. You're freedoms are restricted immensely. And, you're NOT allowed to wander freely.
Also, you cannot settle in most these countries without a lengthy legal process. So, these foreign lands don't offer the same freedoms as Western Civilization.

19- (THE CLINCHER) You're probably not aware; but: -Woman's Groups are active throughout the world. Their presence is felt within most countries. SO, chances are; your foreign girlfriend has been exposed to feminist dogma. And, we're not merely referring to basic political agenda. These foreign women are quite similar with Feminazi's (including the worst names).
.....So, there you have it !!
If you're seeking a woman who's been untarnished by Activism; you're not gonna find her. (The only women who are unfamiliar with Feminism simply don't have access to computers/ or Internet-cafe's).
(footnote: don't confuse Feminism with equality. These Women's Groups are Hate Mongers. And, we've seen them everywhere; from Columbia to The Philippines. Feminazi's merely encourage Women to stick together as a group. And, Foreign women are already aware of their presence. -Sorry to break the News.)

So, now you're aware of the inevitable pitfalls.
This Article will save you years of headaches, and $60,000 dollars out-of -pocket.
So, you wanna marry a foreign girl ? Don't do it ! Don't do it ! You'll be sorry.
There's no alternative.
If you're really seeking a different woman, then consider meeting a Christian Girl.
Yes, go meet a religious woman within your own country.
(however, be warned: Whenever meeting a reserved lady, there are many disadvantages).
Or, marry any woman inside your nation. Because, there are no alternatives.


Anonymous said...
Extremist! Woman Hater, you are probably a victim of one person then try to ruin foreign women in general. Felt bad for your own experience. You've probably had a problem yourself and I suggested you better see a psycho professional. You are so disturbed. I hope you get well soon. Maybe you've got a down quality as a person inside and out. Is your heart still beating? Very bad!

April 8, 2011 10:39 AM

Anonymous said...
Are you a woman? European? Very obvious.

April 8, 2011 10:48 AM

Anonymous said...
Man with a very bad experienced voicing out for all. Check out who's talking.

April 8, 2011 10:51 AM

Anonymous said...
I am a filipino woman and married to an american guy and not once did I ask money from him or demand unreasonably.if you had bad experience with one,dont generalized.i work hard and earn my own way.shame on you! there are goood people and bad people,just your luck you werent smart enough to differentiate and pick a better choice.

June 9, 2011 6:03 AM

Anonymous said... ... nds-penis/

Here is another reason to be leary, the fact that they will cut off your penis if they think you are unfaithful.

August 25, 2011 12:28 AM

stillcode said...
Sounds like the pitfalls that you are listing are the same pitfalls that apply to internet dating regardless of whether it's domestic or international.

My advice is DON'T do internet dating. Take action, move to another country, learn another language, meet the local men/women there and fall in love the traditional way.

November 28, 2011 7:39 PM

Anonymous said...
this article is idiotic shut your cocksucker ok

February 12, 2012 4:26 AM

Anonymous said...
This Article is a joke. Men like Non European/American women because they know what it is to act like women. Period. They aren't concerned with looking or being "tough" or any of that. They are feminine. Not to mention, most of them aren't fat. Its that simple

February 12, 2012 6:02 PM

how to get a girl said...
There are a lot of great women out there just waiting to meet the man of their dreams but finding these available women can take a little creativity.

February 15, 2012 5:54 PM

Anonymous said...
Interesting hate post. Let's see, I have been corresponding with a lovely lady from Kiev for 4 months now. She contacted me first, and has never asked or hinted about needing money. Not only dose she speak fluent English, she understands me completely, and we share many similar interests. She is highly educated and has a good job which allows her to travel abroad. I share a very deep connection with her, more than with any American girlfriend I have ever dated. The main goal we both have is to be happily in love with each other, everything else is just fodder. There are good women and bad women everywhere, just as there are good and bad men all over. I have given American women a chance (I'm 43)and all I get is rejection, and false promises. I plan on visiting her this summer, and if all goes well, hopefully we will be married sometime after. Like all relationships, it takes time, but if you find someone you connect with, then the wait is worth it.

February 24, 2012 10:33 AM

Anonymous said...
Genius post. People who can't see this, particularly women, live in some fairyland. They are the exact kind of people with bitter critical mouths (like the first 3 commenters here) we want to escape by going overseas. The points against overseas women have been alluded to elsewhere, they certainly have a lot of truth to them. Your crux point that women who aren't Feminazis don't have internet access could be right - so I'm planning on just going to the Philippines and searching, rather than talking on the net to maybe the wrong kind of woman. Look, Christian women in Western countries are still feminised and seek abusing guys. I've gone to church from ages 5-35 in Australia; they don't appear at all to be the answer. I hope a Filipino from a rural area but with a bit of cultural knowledge could be the answer? Western women aren't the answer and giving up is yuk, too. If someone asks "What's wrong with Western women?" they couldn't see a mountain 5 feet ahead of them, even if u point to it and dance all over it.

March 21, 2012 11:48 PM

Winston Wu said...
Nope you are totally wrong. See the 15 key benefits and advantages of Foreign women here:

And Steve's scholarly Research Report:

The case for Foreign women is now irrefutable.

Founder of

March 29, 2012 4:50 AM

So, I see now Winston has checked the link out and disagrees with it strongly. I find his level of disagreement surprising since he's found things weren't perfect overseas. But I'm glad he disagrees so much, gives more hope. Glad to see u checked it out, Winston, I was interested in what your opinion would be. The poster still sounds insightful to me and worthy of appraisal anyway...
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