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Judging by her photo's online she was attractive and she was cute. She was in her thirties and had arrived here from the Philippines over a decade ago. All good up to now.
She was very independent and had a good job. She was a shopaholic. Her words not mine.
She liked Louis Vuitton, Prada & Gucci etc etc etc. She told me if I bought her a gift and she didn't like it, she would return it to me. No gift buying from me then.
She always got what she wanted so she said. I wonder if that included me?
She admitted she was a brat. I must say I do like an honest woman.
She said she was the faithful and loyal type of girl. Not a problem.
She mentioned on her profile that her ideal man would be generous and would pamper her. Suits me fine, I don't want to be ideal!
She wants to go to Dubai and travel around Europe on her own but she didn't seem to like the idea of me going to the Philippines on my own when I mentioned it. Compromise may have been a solution but she adamantly stated earlier that she doesn't compromise.
I weighed up the pros and cons taking into account the excellent rapport we had over the phone. There was a spark but there was also the possibility of an explosion. I didn't have high expectations but what did I have to lose? Fuel to get to the town where she lives which was only an hours drive away and to forfeit a Saturday evening!
The date was set just over a week after first contact.
She was early. I was early. Her photo's matched her appearance. My photo's matched my appearance. She had attitude. I didn't.
We had a drink. Hers was tequila. We went for a meal. She sat diagonally across from me instead of opposite me. At first!
She took a photo of me when I was eating. Uploaded to Facebook before I'd finished my mouthful. Most probably. I had attitude. She didn't.
Her ex of seven years phoned her up during the meal. He may have had attitude.
We left the restaurant. She held my hand. Nobody had attitude.
The morning after and the good rapport on the phone prior to the date continued. Until we argued. She had attitude. I had attitude.
I haven't spoken to her for three days. She may have attitude. I don't.
It's been an interesting couple of weeks but I don't think we're compatible somehow.
She was early? Yup she's westernized
options in the US: maybe have a shot at a angry bluehaired landwhale and then, prison
options abroad: limitless
I went on dates with two filipina women who had been in America for 7-10 years, and one of them was like this woman the other was like being on a date with a dead woman. This story that you tell here would have me doing my best to hang up, and get the hell away from this westernized filipina. I am glad I flew to Cebu to meet my now gf, and I fly back at the end of March to see her again. I can tell you that there is no way to compare a good filipina that still lives in the Philippines and still is living at home with her Dad and Mom at 35 years old, and lives with her sisters and brother. I have tossed over in my mind for a year now the huge huge difference in a good filipina that still lives at home in the province, and compared that to the crappy women I dated in America. All I can tell you is get on a plane and fly to the Philippines, and you will be blown away by the difference you find in filipina women that still live at home and then you can compare this in your mind to the chitty American women or other women that you have struggled to date to no avail. You have to see it to believe it. My filipina gf tells me that she loves me above everything...and she is sincere when she is saying this. I have never experienced from an American woman the depth of love that I get from my filipina girlfriend...a good filipina loves you with every fiber of her being...you have to go to the Philippines to experience this.