The Myth and Fallacy of Social Skills (with Women)

[Spencer]

100,000 EUR of profits are 100,000 EUR of profits wherever they come from, so long they're legal and legit.

Are you joking? My PENSION is more than that, let alone the revenues from rents , dividends and debt notes.

Your multigenerational family business only generates 100k Euros. Your founding ancestor would be LIVID at the lack of growth and expansion. There’s no wonder you had to go find a crappy job in Asia.

Easy tiger, I said 100,000 to make a figure. Be damned if you didn't have to take the chance to remind us of your wonderful 6-figure pension

My "multigenerational family business" doesn't make only 100K EUR a year, of course. And there are reasons why our family always rejected the kind of franchising opportunities that promised "growth and expansion". No point even trying explain them to you, once it's clear that your business knowledge comes from a bunch of "get rich quick" books and seminars and isn't grounded in anything real. Crystal clear you have never run a business in your life, and for good reason.

Public duende if you had real job real wealth real life then last place you come is hapy abord to talk about it and same go all aborders

truth is all us here posting hapy abord all liteweight tinytim loser excepting bossman wiseton so better stop egomania public duene and public duende get out stop stalking stop troling stop lying or maybe contarian beat you down public duende after i expose you on 3 way you canot hide longer when we all see each other

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Crystal clear you have never run a business in your life, and for good reason.

You’re right. Virtually all the business in which I have a stake have people who run them for me. But you wouldn’t know anything about that as a lowly worker bee.

[hypermak]

Crystal clear you have never run a business in your life, and for good reason.

You’re right. Virtually all the business in which I have a stake have people who run them for me. But you wouldn’t know anything about that as a lowly worker bee.

Exactly. So you're in no better position than me or anyone else in here to give business advice, let alone treat people like losers because you happen to disagree with them.

LOL, see the extent of your ignorance (and arrogance)...so only people who are pure investors, with no control or decision in a business, are smart. Everybody else is a "lowly worker bee", like my family who put 100% of the effort to get 100% of the profits. You really live in a fantasy world dude. It might work in here (but it doesn't!) but you don't have a chance in the real world.

[Spencer]

Crystal clear you have never run a business in your life, and for good reason.

You’re right. Virtually all the business in which I have a stake have people who run them for me. But you wouldn’t know anything about that as a lowly worker bee.

Exactly. So you're in no better position than me or anyone else in here to give business advice, let alone treat people like losers because you happen to disagree with them.

LOL, see the extent of your ignorance (and arrogance)...so only people who are pure investors, with no control or decision in a business, are smart. Everybody else is a "lowly worker bee", like my family who put 100% of the effort to get 100% of the profits. You really live in a fantasy world dude. It might work in here (but it doesn't!) but you don't have a chance in the real world.

We not know duende family but your job is spend all time on happy abord forum as if wiseton pay you but we know he not pay you even single dollar

investor class is hi class dumwit think fundman and richman and traderman even

we all know wiseton never ever lie so time he talk both you and me for verify truthing for if you real truther like i am you will be ok for we all know love and trust wiseton to talk each of us even see us on the skypee or zoon screen then he verify truth 100%

so proof in puding so put up or shutup

and duende if ever again you make ugly meme i gona expose you to all blackman i knowing even and maybe if see you there manila sho great angering to you meanman racialist hater of blackman

[hypermak]

so proof in puding so put up or shutup

and duende if ever again you make ugly meme i gona expose you to all blackman i knowing even and maybe if see you there manila sho great angering to you meanman racialist hater of blackman

PAG or whatever your name is, there is no chance in hell I will show my face to you, so you can use more of your idle time to troll on my identity. Be contented with knowing that I have nothing against blacks, whites, yellows, browns or reds. I didn't even have a thing against you until you started to insult me (indeed, "Publicduende") for no reason.

I guess I can I say that you're an a&&hole and a troll without having to offend anyone else

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Crystal clear you have never run a business in your life, and for good reason.

You’re right. Virtually all the business in which I have a stake have people who run them for me. But you wouldn’t know anything about that as a lowly worker bee.

Exactly. So you're in no better position than me or anyone else in here to give business advice, let alone treat people like losers because you happen to disagree with them.

LOL, see the extent of your ignorance (and arrogance)...so only people who are pure investors, with no control or decision in a business, are smart. Everybody else is a "lowly worker bee", like my family who put 100% of the effort to get 100% of the profits. You really live in a fantasy world dude. It might work in here (but it doesn't!) but you don't have a chance in the real world.

It really takes a special kind of STUPID to prefer being a mere player on the football team rather than an OWNER of the team. But this is part of the backward thinking of those who have low-tier goals and outlooks in life.

If you ever wondered why you’re in such a horrible, grinding, profession instead of leading a powerful life of economic plenty and leisure, it’s because your thinking is ridiculous. But I guess if I had nothing bigger to look forward to in life, I might delude myself that way too. The pinnacle of your life is eventually going back to your little coffee shop (if it even really exists) and becoming the worker boss one day to count the pennies of profit.

There’s a reason why you left that job. You hated it and it sucked, so don’t try to come off as some small business guru when you couldn’t even survive in that world of all work and no play.

[hypermak]

It really takes a special kind of STUPID to prefer being a mere player on the football team rather than an OWNER of the team. But this is part of the backward thinking of those who have low-tier goals and outlooks in life.

LOL are you serious now? This, said by someone who spent 25 years, maybe 30, being a tiny, hopeless and aimless cog in the US government machine. What kind of team were you playing for, at my age? Did you really have a "powerful life", or you were sitting there stamping papers and encoding data into a PC screen, daydreaming on when you would be free to do "your thing"?

I told you many times before: you worked 25/30 years on that horrible job for the reward of a surefire pension for the following 15/20, testosterone damage permitting. Your choice. But it's extremely stupid and hypocritical to now pose as a wealthy, successful and youthful "businessman" just becase you discovered the "pleasures of life" well in your 50s.

There is clearly a time for everything. This is my time to work hard for my passion, to follow my choices, which are 1) get some international experience, 2) get on my last stage before I am an Exec and 3) have the kind of fun any 32-yo gets (and should get) in a country like the Philippines. Yes, I left my family businesses a few years ago after getting my parents' blessing, which might be unusual for people like you who only ever went in "for the money" but not for the rest of us.

When I will be back to my family businesses I will be an Exec with 10+ of international exposure and enough experience, connections and capital to start my own restaurant of restaurants, as every culinary pro worth their salt do. I will have the full support of my family, people I could live and die for and trust blindly.

Yes, having a stake in a business is a viable option, we have the majority stake of a winery in Romania, in the Iasi region, and it's doing great, but my cousin and his Romanian wife and far from "passive investors": they are there at least one week a month and they went through some significant ups and downs before things took off for good.

And here's another profound delusion of yours: that you can be an "owner" while having near-zero skills in the industry, without putting at least some of your own sweat and blood to see the business develop, grow and give you that passive income you keep talking about. The more you bang the drum about all these businesses that give you revenues, dividends, the more I am convinced that you are either talking about those idiotic MLM/pyramid schemes that have no other social utility than enrich the guys at the top, or you're plain making sh*t up

If you ever wondered why you’re in such a horrible, grinding, profession instead of leading a powerful life of economic plenty and leisure, it’s because your thinking is ridiculous. But I guess if I had nothing bigger to look forward to in life, I might delude myself that way too. The pinnacle of your life is eventually going back to your little coffee shop (if it even really exists) and becoming the worker boss one day to count the pennies of profit.

There’s a reason why you left that job. You hated it and it sucked, so don’t try to come off as some small business guru when you couldn’t even survive in that world of all work and no play.

Either of us must live in a parallel reality. I never realised that I am in such a horrible, grinding profession. Yes, it's not an easy profession for someone who, or whose family, hasn't been in the trade. Waking up at 4 or 5 in the morning to help my dad with the baking, have a shower and go to school, and this everyday for 7 or 8 years, including weekends, is no joke. No joke when your friends hit the disco on a Friday night and you can't go because you need to wake up early on the busiest days of the week. But you know the old saying, what doesn't kill you make you stronger, and that's the kind of backbone that made the first years as a commis and a station chef, bearable, possible.

So, you can take your powerful life of economic plenty and leisure and shove it up where there's no sunlight You are simply a mediocre paper pusher with no skills and no class. For as much as you talk about ambition, success and wealth, you chose a path of least resistance kind of job and you feel on top of the world because you went to a seminar by Kyosaki or one of the usual phoney gurus and became an instant business expert?

The "little coffee shop" is 3 restaurants, 3 bakeries/patisseries and a brand that everybody in my town and the neighbouring ones has loved and trusted since the 60s. This is all stuff money cannot buy. The feeling that you must be doing something good because people show you genuine respect.

Something you just can't even begin to understand, let alone appreciate.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

The "little coffee shop" is 3 restaurants, 3 bakeries/patisseries and a brand that everybody in my town and the neighbouring ones has loved and trusted since the 60s. This is all stuff money cannot buy. The feeling that you must be doing something good because people show you genuine respect.

Something you just can't even begin to understand, let alone appreciate.

Oh so now it is THREE? Now I am almost 100% certain you're lying.

And on the minuscule chance that you are telling the truth, don't be so proud of a business that poisons people with sugary foods, fattening pastas and harmful caffeinated products that lead people to an early death. Do you sell cigarettes too? You might as well! But I am sure the harm your family does to community health is of no import since you can earn your little pennies from selling that crap.

So there is nothing to respect there. But you know that already and that is why you LEFT.

[hypermak]

Oh so now it is THREE? Now I am almost 100% certain you're lying.

Unless they have sold one without telling me, yes

Lying...look who's talking...

And on the minuscule chance that you are telling the truth, don't be so proud of a business that poisons people with sugary foods, fattening pastas and harmful caffeinated products that lead people to an early death. Do you sell cigarettes too? You might as well! But I am sure the harm your family does to community health is of no import since you can earn your little pennies from selling that crap.

So there is nothing to respect there. But you know that already and that is why you LEFT.

Again, pot and kettle, right? No mention of the colour or I'll have you and Spencer pulling out the race card again.

We have always baked and sold fresh quality stuff that's infinitely healthier than industrial confectionery, especially the horrific stuff you have over there in the US.

LOL and really, a self-proclaimed testosterone junkie who is exposing himself to a very early death so he can he keep his erection 10 minutes longer and thump his chest with the Kyiv call girls You're the LAST person who can talk about a healthy lifestyle and dietary regime.

Man, this is getting really surreal... You really have nowhere else to go in this argument. Just do all of us a favour and STFU.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Oh so now it is THREE? Now I am almost 100% certain you're lying.

Unless they have sold one without telling me, yes

Lying...look who's talking...

And on the minuscule chance that you are telling the truth, don't be so proud of a business that poisons people with sugary foods, fattening pastas and harmful caffeinated products that lead people to an early death. Do you sell cigarettes too? You might as well! But I am sure the harm your family does to community health is of no import since you can earn your little pennies from selling that crap.

So there is nothing to respect there. But you know that already and that is why you LEFT.

Again, pot and kettle, right? No mention of the colour or I'll have you and Spencer pulling out the race card again.

We have always baked and sold fresh quality stuff that's infinitely healthier than industrial confectionery, especially the horrific stuff you have over there in the US.

LOL and really, a self-proclaimed testosterone junkie who is exposing himself to a very early death so he can he keep his erection 10 minutes longer and thump his chest with the Kyiv call girls You're the LAST person who can talk about a healthy lifestyle and dietary regime.

Man, this is getting really surreal... You really have nowhere else to go in this argument. Just do all of us a favour and STFU.

I can tell from your effeminate reactions when I prick that delusional bubble particularly well.

Do us all a favor and get back to work preparing people's meals like a dutiful little servant.

[hypermak]

I can tell from your effeminate reactions when I prick that delusional bubble particularly well.

Effeminate because I don't shoot myself with testosterone? You probably have bigger boobs than my Filipina girlfriend, and I am the effeminate one! Would a genuine "vaffanculo" be masculine enoug for your tastes?

Do us all a favor and get back to work preparing people's meals like a dutiful little servant.

That's what I do best, yes. Can you remind me your role or utility in society, besides busting my balls for the viewing pleasure or about 10 anonymous people?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Do us all a favor and get back to work preparing people's meals like a dutiful little servant.

That's what I do best, yes. Can you remind me your role or utility in society, besides busting my balls for the viewing pleasure or about 10 anonymous people?

That's a good little boy! I see you're beginning to accept your rightful place. The sooner you internalize that you belong at the bottom of the totem pole of status, the sooner you'll earn yourself some measure of joy in life. You still have a long way to go, but accepting what you are (and what you are not) is a positive first step!

[hypermak]

That's a good little boy! I see you're beginning to accept your rightful place. The sooner you internalize that you belong at the bottom of the totem pole of status, the sooner you'll earn yourself some measure of joy in life. You still have a long way to go, but accepting what you are (and what you are not) is a positive first step!

Gaslighting is so lame, dude, have you got something a bit fresher to offer?

You never answer my questions directly, it's always a monologue between two parts of your deluded, senile ego.

I was being serious: what has your role in society ever been, besides pleasing yourself? You know that, once that perspective settles in your mind, even the humblest kitchen assistant is more useful than you'll ever be in your life?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

That's a good little boy! I see you're beginning to accept your rightful place. The sooner you internalize that you belong at the bottom of the totem pole of status, the sooner you'll earn yourself some measure of joy in life. You still have a long way to go, but accepting what you are (and what you are not) is a positive first step!

You never answer my questions directly, it's always a monologue between two parts of your deluded, senile ego.

I was being serious: what has your role in society ever been, besides pleasing yourself? You know that, once that perspective settles in your mind, even the humblest kitchen assistant is more useful than you'll ever be in your life?

You ask that as if there has only been a single one. That in and of itself says a lot about you.

I’ve posted many things in this forum about my background, my activities, my professional life, and my altruistic life. If you’re that interested, you are free to review the record here, but responding directly to that question might tend to give you the wrong impression that I actually care what you think about all of it. I don’t. In fact, YOU are the one who’s all twisted in a knot because I look down on you and what you represent. That is not because of what you do, but because you have an inflated and narcissistic sense of yourself. Hopefully, I have sufficiently whittled your ego down to size. If not, I’d be glad to be even more brutally truthful with you, but I can assure you that you’d surely emotionally regret it (as much as you need it) little fragile one.

[Spencer]

so proof in puding so put up or shutup

and duende if ever again you make ugly meme i gona expose you to all blackman i knowing even and maybe if see you there manila sho great angering to you meanman racialist hater of blackman

PAG or whatever your name is, there is no chance in hell I will show my face to you, so you can use more of your idle time to troll on my identity. Be contented with knowing that I have nothing against blacks, whites, yellows, browns or reds. I didn't even have a thing against you until you started to insult me (indeed, "Publicduende") for no reason.

I guess I can I say that you're an a&&hole and a troll without having to offend anyone else

No need sho your face at me....just look now pm i sent wiseton...if trust duende of course you trust wiseton for everybody know he never ever lie

stop try weasel out liarman publicduende proving in pudding

wiseton can talk you private then tell truth to all on forum for truthing and stop your sucpupetry and also exonerations of me

contarian you writ abilty strong but if you actualment belief hyperduende is 30 year chef you need develop more sharp honed intution which suposed come with get oldering and wisering and detection analysis skills for you make mountain mollhills so easy peasy throw you off w make up redherring

philpine poor place not pay expat money to trainment young chef not happen there and never happen so smell coffee beans so if you really thinking other call the big hotels asking the staff really they not have such programings like in european or singapore for remember contrarian so so many filipino study the hospitality and need hotel jobing offer and will work peanut money no need pay big money for dumwit italyclown who live happy abord forum really simple simon common senses for good heavens sakes

Dear wiseton

in order find truth please use pm to hyper for set up private skype or zoom or whatup call with the poster hypermak....all i ask is you verification voice and face same as publicduende that you see before and if not same man then deep verification knowings by many questions on postings for make sure it not some other man public duende setup for call

if arrange this privacy call of only you and hyperduende and afterwards give true answer publicly on forum i will offer you following benficials

first....pay $150 to your helpings with zelle or paypal or crypto wallet or west union in 2 times....when you setup then i pay 50 and after finish and get your public result of is it the duende or is it not a duende i pay another 100

second...if you give me skype name and i call you with video so you see me and hear acent and ask questions on my postings for know if i am same man write the postings

please do this favor for truthing sake i happy to pay and below i give explanationings

we need to find truth for both spencer (am i stanfordguy) and hyper (am he public duende) in simple simon way for get rid sucpuppets for we know he duende sucpupet and they think i stanfordguy sucpupet so not fair other misidenification me so this 2 birdies 1 stone truthing action for you do and then know and then reveal to all so no more liar no more bs

the public public duende come back and lie say he is young chef and make so ugly racialist memes and meanman commentings for he wish to be young wish to be expat pay chefman but probably no job and we know he have busnes go bankrupcy and wiseton we see he live forum now so you think the girl dumping him for she see real duende after time you think it like that she left what you thinking

he already real oldman but act child day after day argue with contarian about dumwit egomania nonsensicals and just spreading negativities and evils and sometimes to distract he writing a normal posting or pretend wanna help and then still he post silly young filipino girl photos exact like public duende before like a silly kid when he to to old for such sillys

he polution and contaminator happy abord forum by create bickering environment and he even so so dare make sound your eurupe dream silly imposibles

he never apologies you for before for evil things he make

he troll and liar also hurting feeling other and say meanman thing to america blackman when he not even americaman

since he swear to be not duende when we know he is duende for you know i know jackson know then we ask him talk you same he say he talk to public duende except just need video and voicings

everyone all and everybody know and understand 100% wiseton that you never ever lie you full on honesty tell like it is and more crediblness than anybody else and you complete worthiness of our trustings so if this poster trust badman public duende there no reason he not trust you wiseton

for me i trust you and so long hyperduende call you so will i and before any call if he will do and agree i send you 50 dollar usa ok wiseton

please o please we get to bottom so public duende get calmdown not obsessing every day morning afternoon evening over the america blackman contrarian expat

is ok wiseton and one day can we make frienships if this truthing i propose works no matter correct or not correct ok