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We hear that casually dating older women can be a nice way to help young men to hone skills and confidence so they can come back and then handle younger women. What are your thoughts on LTR/marriage with an older woman?
I've got a dilemma here: I'm a late-blooming guy in my early 30s and I just started dating last year. I have my first girlfriend now for several months and things have started to get more serious. She's more than 5 years older than me and in her late 30s. I really have enjoyed dating her and she is quite awesome. However, I am hesitant about the idea of going LTR/marrying her, because of the age difference and the fact that it's only my first gf. What I'm asking is, can you really leap-frog the whole 20s dating scene that I missed out on??? I've also heard that men with wives more than 5 years their senior are three times as likely to divorce. Plus, although I really enjoy my time with her, I still find my eyes wandering alot and I'm tempted to explore/date more women now that I finally have got a handle on DSR. I feel as though there's a lot of anger/angst/passion buried deep within me from missing out on the 20s dating scene. Is this something that I wouldn't feel if I did go out and date more women before getting married or is this a temptation that we men will always have in us? Any thoughts/recommendations??
Samurai's definition is correct. I believe although you are in your early 30s, your best bet to date other women. I believe there is a illness most American men have called one-itis. Usually men in the US or in the western world usually have less than 5 women are going to be the first women who gives them the time of day.
I think you might want to see where it goes but basically if you want to have children, I think that you might want to find a younger women. Also, I think if you are wandering your eyes to other women, I think that you need to think if you want to be in a long-term relationship.
I think you should try to see if you are able to date younger women and if you want to have a child and are totally enamored with her in a long-term relationship, your best bet is to probably move on.