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Post by droid » March 21st, 2014, 4:52 am

zboy1 wrote:As someone that is currently living in China, I can tell you that cold approaching won't work very well in China. Of course, you will have some guys be successful at it, but Chinese girls, for the most part, feel very uncomfortable by men approaching them that way. (Trust me, I've tried and have seen many foreign men fail at it as well...)
Maybe, but they don't have bitch-shields for the most part, so asking a few questions or something won't bite you in the butt.
I don't think the "cold-approach" term/concept even really applies, because they do make eye contact and respond to greetings, etc. Maybe approaching like an American PUA in this sense is what makes them uncomfortable?

I observed an honest smile and polite greeting had decent responses. Of course I'm not talking about getting laid in the second date like the OP etc... I still can't really talk about that.

The list of mind-games, requirements, and necessary scripted-behavior described by the OP is what's making me turn my back on South American women too, in favor of the Chinese. They're so many, it's a different "numbers game", you're bound to have a percentage that are into you. :twisted:
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?

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