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Why Foreign Women are a Win-Win Solution for American Men
If you've ever felt that women and girls in America were way too picky, and wondered why, well you're not alone. You may not be able to change their picky ways, but the good news is that there is a solution:
You can easily find women who have reasonable standards toward men, and a more appreciative positive attitude toward you. All you have to do is go overseas to saner countries with feminine foreign women who will appreciate you, validate you and like you for you.
Let me explain why foreign women are a natural, healthy win-win solution for American men.
You see, most single foreign women will tell you that what they want is "a good man who can be a good husband and good father to her children." That's their attitude, and that's been the attitude of real women for thousands of years of human history. Thus that's what's normal and natural. Women have always been nurturers who provide care, while men have always been providers and builders who provide security.
But in America, the women are conditioned to think that they are entitled to the best of the best. Thus most American women only want the top 10 percent of men in terms of looks and status (alpha males). They will accept no less. In their minds, they are "liberated" and do not even need men (contrary to nature and femininity). Therefore, if they are going to have a man, he needs to be of the top 10 percent, otherwise he won't be worth it. That's their self-absorbed inconsiderate mentality.
The problem is that the American woman's mentality is VERY BAD for society. Look up history and you will that no society in history has ever prospered from all women wanting the top 10 percent of men. You see, if all women only want the top 10 percent of men, that leaves A LOT of men unwanted and rejected. Most men are never going to be in the top 10 percent, especially in terms of looks and status. Hence a great deal of men will be left lonely, dissatisfied, and unhappy. They will not be able to fulfill their needs for love, romance, intimacy and sex.
As a result, they will turn to violence, drugs, alcohol, suicide, insanity or even commit mass school shootings (like Elliot Rodgers did). Thus it's definitely destructive and bad for society for all women to be overly picky and only want the top 10 percent of men.
But of course, such entitled women in America will not care, because in their view, it is "not their problem". They will simply tell the unwanted men that, "they should work on improving themselves so that they will be in the top 10 percent of men that women want". However, most men will never be in the top 10 percent, so this is useless advice, and just a stupid way for women to pass the blame onto the men rather than themselves.
What's more, most of these overly picky American women that only want the top 10 percent of men, are not within the top 10 percent of women themselves. Needless to say, it's mathematically impossible for most people to be in the top 10 percent. So in effect, these super picky women have "priced themselves out of the market". Nevertheless, they are deluded still and believe that they deserve the top 10 percent of men, even if they are nowhere near the top 10 percent themselves. They are clearly delusional. That's the result of the narcissistic American entitlement complex for you.
In great contrast, the attitude of the typical foreign woman -- of just wanting "a good man who can be a good husband and father" -- is VERY GOOD for society. You see, if all women have that attitude, then: First, it will motivate men to become GOOD, so that they can become the good husbands and fathers that women want. Thus men will strive to be men of good moral character (rather than "bad boys" like what American women want). Second, it will motivate those women to be GOOD themselves, so that they can attract the good men they want.
As a result, all men of good decent character will be able to find a good woman, and vice versa. Thus there will be NO loneliness in society. It's a WIN-WIN scenario! Or at least it's a much BETTER scenario, one which is far more conducive to a happier, healthier, and more natural society.
The good news is that such an ideal scenario is exactly how it is in many foreign countries. Think about it. Why else do you think that in other countries, there are no guys doing mass school shootings because they can't get any women, like Elliot Rodgers did in America? That doesn't happen abroad. What does that tell you? Think about it.
Now here's the kicker:
Most single American men, if you ask them, will also tell you that what they want is "a good woman who will be a good wife and mother to my children".
BINGO!!! What this means is that most foreign women and most American men want the SAME THING! They both want a good partner who will be a good spouse and parent to their children! Thus for American men to seek out foreign women is a WIN-WIN scenario for both, as well as a symbiotic relationship, since they both want the same thing.
1. Most Foreign women want a good man who can be a good husband and father to their children.
2. Most American men want a good woman who can be a good wife and mother to their children.
3. Most American women are super picky, entitled and only want the top 10 percent of men, which differentiates them from the two groups above. In effect, they've "priced themselves out of the market".
You see, most American men are NOT looking for the top 10 percent of women. They do not have such unrealistic expectations and standards (like American women do). Most American men are down-to-earth. They just want a good woman who will be a good wife and mother. That's not unreasonable. It's what men have wanted for thousands of years, and is perfectly normal and natural.
Yet for some reason, that seems to be too much to ask for in America's toxic degenerate culture -- where everything is upside down, where bad is good and good is bad, where "liberated" women do not even need men, and where women only want the top 10 percent of men, etc.
So in this sense, American men and foreign women have compatible objectives. Thus they are suited for a symbiotic WIN-WIN relationship. They both want what's natural, normal and reasonable. It's the American women that have taken themselves out of this natural equation, unfortunately.
You see, the sick twisted social engineers in America have successfully convinced women to go against what's natural, healthy and normal (e.g. liberation from femininity and womanhood). But they have NOT succeeded in convincing most men to go against what's natural, healthy and normal. Most men in America are NOT gay and are not trying to "liberate" themselves from their masculinity or natural needs, fortunately.
So while American women have caved in and submitted to the wicked design of the elite, American men have not. We men are the ones left with a fighting chance.
The good news is that American men can still find natural feminine women, by going abroad to foreign cultures where women are still women, where women are proud to be feminine. That's the GOOD NEWS, so tell everyone about it! Spread the "Good News Gospel of Global Dating", which is a message of hope and a real solution for many single men in America.
Understand this: We men cannot go against the ruling elite of America. We do not have the power to change our society, culture, or media. So we must focus on what we CAN change and what we CAN control. Going abroad and voting with your feet, is one of them. After all, it's a lot easier to buy a plane ticket to go overseas, then it is to try to change your society of course. As the libertarian author Harry Browne wrote:
"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards."
- Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
That quote is so spot on and sensible. Nothing could be more true. The choice is yours. Will you stay on a sinking ship, or get off it?
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Last edited by Winston on September 27th, 2014, 1:43 pm, edited 4 times in total.
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I really admire that you posted this today about how American women act in today society especially were I live most of them have this way about them. Not only do they admire the bad boy image they bow down to it were i live I cannot stand it anymore to me its a disgrace to what their biological genes want to mate with what they are supposed to go after a good man, loyal man, and they don't want they instead go after slobs on the market either the bad boy type or the guy they can make their boy toy. I am neither one of these guys never will be thats why I don't fit in with 99% of what these women are looking for. Of course their are exceptions but a vast majority of women here plainly don't want real men may be because their bodies are turning more into males.
From a conspiracy standpoint maybe I would like to thrown in that they have more testosterone than estrogen in their bodies because how can you as a women not be attracted to a guy walking rite in front of you that is looking at you giving compliments to you, showing that he likes you, talking with you, showing you the essence of what a good man and the value of one is. No instead they love to play games with men treat men like crap, practice misandry every chance they get.
By the way you mentioned Elliot Rodgers this guy was clearly disturbed by the women in were he lived I can't blame him for what he did. Just today I was there at across the street from IV deli were he supposedly did the shooting and let me tell you when I was there the place was filled with man hating white women who I could tell wanted nothing to do with the average joe all they wanted with those 10% that unfortunately you are not going to find in a place filled with students at least. The funny part about it most of them were the really dressed like the sluts they were these women don't understand subtle beauty at all its all about trying to flash everything they have to offer
Excellent post and further motivation for me to search out flights to the PI for my cherry trip this January.I was having a discussion with my ex-wife about dating and trying to find a young/attractive woman over here.Her opinion was as follows...she said "Mark,the girls here have jobs,good incomes,cars,condos,nice clothes,shoes,purses and they take vacations and usually have solid family ties(rich parents etc).What do you have to offer them that they should spread their legs and bow down to you? You are an average looking guy,not young and not rich." Sorry to say that she has a point and that's why going abroad may be my best option.
I agree completely. However, It gets more complicated as we go deeper. The world is much much darker and controlled than we are led to believe. Its below hell.
The entire world is caged.
Lets say. American Men are 10 points in Perfection and Filipina Women are 10 points as well. There match would be wonderful.
Now, Lets suppose American men are awakened to the truth and found out about Filipina women to be their perfect match.
1. The entire 90% undesirable American men cannot just show up in The Philippines and marry all their perfect match,
the darkness has made sure the visa issues abroad for American men will hinder any long term growth for prosperity and vice versa. The number of American men marrying foreign women or their perfect match is very low, if it gains any momentum, sure the elites will be pissed seeing men finding true love and happiness and would do everything in their power to enact laws that would keep away true love for ever. The entire America is based on Ignorance for a reason
If a man finds his true love. He will never fight stupid wars for the elite.
Even now, FiancÃ©, K1 visas are hard. They just have to create a fake false flag event where in a newly wed American guy kills and burns her Filipina wife of two months and make these false flag stories every other month. The parents of Filipinas would be apprehensive in giving their daughters to American men easily.
In reverse. Its extremely hard for a Filipina women to move to America, more so for a good girl from province unless his father made millions from corruption. A good family in Philippines has much more difficulty in moving to America.
Imagine. Filipinas allowed to go to America just like that. American men being awakened and smart will find true love in an instant.
In short. The elites would never want it to become a trend. There whole existence depends upon American men not finding their true love.
They know the power of true love. What we are talking here is the total destruction of American Empire. Unloved Men are far more dangerous to society which is what they want.
Visa and Passports looks simple. But there was hell lot of devilish thinking behind it. Visa and Passport and 100 other government papers and diplomatic BS created by darkness keeps men and women not find each other.
2. Lack of jobs opportunities in Philippines will force them to come back home and expose her lovely partner to the toxicity of America and what would happen to their kids, if they are born in America? Its back to square one. It will be another Elliot Rodger in the making and the cycle will continue.
American men will not be able to find jobs in third world countries easily.
We are not talking about the drips of success here and there. We are looking at what will happen when majority of Americans wake up to the con and start looking for a wife abroad. Imagine 5% of Americans waking up and coming to Philippines, 5% going to Ukraine, 5% going to Columbia etc. There will be commotion, chaos and riots..No not among men and women..but among government agencies around the world, they are inherently parasitic in nature. They wouldn't want anything come close to perfection. They want chaos. Imagine the consciousness of happiness spreading like the 100 monkey effect. Even if 10% of men find true love, the conciousness will spread. They would not want that.
3. Sorry. I do not agree that "We men cannot go against the ruling elite of America. We do not have the power to change our society, culture, or media. So we must focus on what we CAN change and what we CAN control. Going abroad and voting with your feet, is one of them. After all, it's a lot easier to buy a plane ticket to go overseas, then it is to try to change your society of course."
We have to. As long as the darkness exists. It will make sure, we will never find our true love. It rests on our misery. Do we really think - The elites will just sit aside and will not do anything seeing 1000s of American men actually finding true love after millions of years on earth. Its impossible these parasitic vampire will not find ways to disrupt us from seeking love.
Yes. It allows few Americans to go abroad now and find love to maintain the chaos. I do not think the darkness will sit idle while his empire on earth slips away. I have seen this force. Its 1000 times more psychotic and powerful than even what the the craziest "Conspiracy Theorist" have you believe.
Its actually reverse. In order for most and then every American to find true love. This darkness needs to be defeated first. It will never allow it otherwise.
Few of our members here itself have found true love BUT NOT EVERY ONE OF US. Just wait till the threshold is crossed and how CIA, NSA and other dark agencies, take control of the happier abroad domain in the name of spreading pornography, toxicating the minds of American men to find cheap sex in third world countries in the name of finding love, arranging sex tours etc etc...and then few "experts" out of no where to come on CNN and accuse Winston of spreading extremist views on American society and asking men to abandon their family in America and find love abroad.
4. It's not only in America but all over the world I'm in India but I don't relate to women here. I relate more to Filipina women but as soon as I find my women. It attacks me ferociously and packs me back to India. This has happened to me six times now. I sync with Filipinas easily but this darkness would never want me to find love.
We have to fight this darkness first if ever we want to see entire American men finding true love.
The elites hate true love. The feeling that would calm men down and think rationally when he is in love would be too dangerous for the elites in America.
HA is in excellent position to terminate the evil as it has emphasis on philosophy as well as finding love. The two most important points the darkness fears the most. I hope Love and Philosophies move hand in hand to defeat the darkness which HA is doing perfectly
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"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
I'm married to a foreign woman, but I didn't just want a woman who would be a good mother to my children. I wanted a woman who is in the top 95% in terms of looks for her age group, in my opinion. I was very selective about what I wanted.
I don't think it is realistic to have two groups, American women and foreign women. The culture in every country is different and there are multiple cultures per country. Singaporean culture has some problems when it comes to their women being wives. So does western Europe. Those other countries men who go abroad to find women target also have their own cultural issues. China has its own marital issues. China may not have school shootings, but it does have school stabbings.
It is advantageous, though, to marry a woman from a country not heavily contaminated by feminism. It is important for a man marrying into these cultures to manage his relationship well. Let the woman know you will be in charge in the home and act like it all throughout the marriage. I honestly believe women are more comfortable with that, especially if their thinking isn't contaminated by feminism, and you are a decent, responsible, hard-working guy who has his act together and treats her well.
Great stuff Winston, it's so true of anglo women. I've even noticed this difference myself between english women and foreign women, of those who the conversation topic has turned too this that is.
I think a good word to use for typical anglo-women's relationship requirements is petty. I mean take a look at POF UK or USA, then look at any dating sites for FSU or Asian women, browse through profiles and this immediately becomes obvious. The thing you notice about most foreign women's requirements is that they don't seem delusional, entitled or petty, instead are often more realistic, down to earth and human.