Why Dating Is Ruined In 2022

[Taco]

[Pixel--Dude]

Hey @Taco I will watch this video tomorrow when I'm not at work. But I have some thoughts on the dating scene which I'd like to share.

I think it is ruined as well! Even if we put aside the obvious issues between men and women which are so prevalent in today's society, mainly brought about by toxic ideological thinking such as feminism and even puritanism, the dating scene has become such a husk of anything authentic that it isn't even worth bothering with anymore.

I decided after a bad break up with my Polish lady friend that I would dust myself off and get back on the horse, so to speak. So I joined a few dating sites for the first time and quickly realised how f***ing pointless the whole thing actually was. Women with unrealistic standards, constant swiping left or right like I was at a meat market and of course there are the bots who send single men likes and messages which you cannot see unless you pay for a premium dating service

I'm sure you agree with me @Tsar?

Not a fan of pub culture or nightclubs which play music so unnecessarily loud that you can't even hear each other talk. Then when and if you do get talking to a single lady she expects you to buy her free drinks for the privilege of just saying hello to her. There's no romance in any of that shit.

What do you think to finding girls in nightclubs @Outcast9428? Do you hate it as much as I do?

@Lucas88 remember when we went to a nightclub years ago and that girl took a shine to you? She expected you to dance with her, which you did. Then she expected free drinks from you (did you buy her any?) And then her f***ing boyfriend turned up and she left our table with her friends! Remember? Finding love in a pub or a nightclub is a waste of time!

The best way to find a decent partner, is to take up hobbies that involve going out and doing stuff without alcohol or drugs involved and also isn't so impersonal like online dating. Befriending a nice girl and letting the relationship develop naturally at its own pace, kind of like you did with your neighbour @Outcast9428

[Guts]

I think women are picky, more picky these days than before,

Yeah, that’s pretty obvious.

but if you have a decent looking face, you know your angles, you dress well and pose well and are around or above six feet in height, chances are you'll do reasonably well.

Okay, so that eliminates about 95% of us.

It certainly cuts a lot of the bullshit of "real life" meeting and getting to know one another, and helps you get to the "lets smash" phase of things a lot sooner. It's a meat market, too, the exchanging of nudes will give both you and the lady a pretty good idea of what you're working with beforehand. None of these are, necessarily, bad things, provided you play your cards right.

Online dating sucks. I’ve wasted a lot of time and money meeting women that turned out to be not very interested. I never really got anywhere until I met my wife after 5 and half years of disappointment after disappointment.
Nothing beats real life, local dating as it removes a lot of the guesswork, awkwardness and travel expenses. Everything each party has to offer is right there, out in the open. It’s not that difficult to deceive people and omit pertinent information in a dating profile. If guess if you’re in the top 10-20% of men it can work for you but for the rest of us ymmv.

[Yohan]

Why dating Is ruined In 2022?

In Western Europe dating was ruined many years earlier. One reason for sure was political, the iron curtain, which made dating almost impossible over the border between Western and Eastern Europe. Rampant feminism is also to blame.

Internet dating has advantages and disadvantages. When I was young it did not exist and you could only date by letters and phone calls. Air travel to abroad to far away destinations was very costly, there was no good banking ATM service and money change system existing, only travellers cheques.

Dating European women was hopeless, many had multiple boyfriends starting as young as 13. I never had any personal relationship with a woman from Europe. I do not know even one Western woman who does not have multiple boyfriends, there is a huge competition going on, young men looking for a girlfriend/wife outnumber young women at least 6:1 or more in every dating site I know.

After years being alone, I was starting to look for a female partner overseas, away from Europe. I was surprised - what was not possible for me with local women from my own country was not even so difficult with foreign women. I left Europe for Asia more than 40 years ago - forever - and finally settled down in Japan.

I recommend international/interracial dating/marriage for every single man - of course it's not for everybody, some men cannot relocate for some reason, others do not want to live in a foreign country, using a language which is not his native language, would prefer a wife of his own race etc.

I can say, women from USA are the worst I have seen in my life but women in all Europe are not so much better, believe me. Highly materialistic, plenty of boyfriends and no shame regarding overdemanding, many into disco life and alcohol and best protected by feminist laws against any kind of wrongdoings.

Generally said, if you depend on women from the States, Canada, wide parts of Europe - and cannot relocate to other countries for whatever reason, it is surely better you stay single as a man. Sad, but true.

[MrMan]

I found the presence of the awkward white woman presenting the video so grating I had to stop the video after less than twenty seconds of watching it. No way I could manage to sit through ten whole entire minutes of her no doubt neurologically impaired persona.

I clicked on the video and jumped forward a bit where she starts talking about Chad and Tyrone. I'd read those names on here, then saw and SNL video, which had a 'Chad' character. I thought that might be the source. She treats Chad and Tyrone as the same kind of guy. I'm guessing Tyrone is the black version of a Chad. Is there any difference?

She says Chad is 6 foot, 6 inches, 6 figures. 6 inches isn't that high of a bar. You'd think she'd say 7 or 8 or whatever, but then the numbers wouldn't be the same. 7 doesn't work because almost no man is 7 feet tall, though I think a lot of women would prefer 7 figures to 6.

[Outcast9428]

Hey @Taco I will watch this video tomorrow when I'm not at work. But I have some thoughts on the dating scene which I'd like to share.

I think it is ruined as well! Even if we put aside the obvious issues between men and women which are so prevalent in today's society, mainly brought about by toxic ideological thinking such as feminism and even puritanism, the dating scene has become such a husk of anything authentic that it isn't even worth bothering with anymore.

I decided after a bad break up with my Polish lady friend that I would dust myself off and get back on the horse, so to speak. So I joined a few dating sites for the first time and quickly realised how f***ing pointless the whole thing actually was. Women with unrealistic standards, constant swiping left or right like I was at a meat market and of course there are the bots who send single men likes and messages which you cannot see unless you pay for a premium dating service

I'm sure you agree with me @Tsar?

Not a fan of pub culture or nightclubs which play music so unnecessarily loud that you can't even hear each other talk. Then when and if you do get talking to a single lady she expects you to buy her free drinks for the privilege of just saying hello to her. There's no romance in any of that shit.

What do you think to finding girls in nightclubs @Outcast9428? Do you hate it as much as I do?

@Lucas88 remember when we went to a nightclub years ago and that girl took a shine to you? She expected you to dance with her, which you did. Then she expected free drinks from you (did you buy her any?) And then her f***ing boyfriend turned up and she left our table with her friends! Remember? Finding love in a pub or a nightclub is a waste of time!

The best way to find a decent partner, is to take up hobbies that involve going out and doing stuff without alcohol or drugs involved and also isn't so impersonal like online dating. Befriending a nice girl and letting the relationship develop naturally at its own pace, kind of like you did with your neighbour @Outcast9428

Yeah I tried finding girls at parties and nightclubs in college and I only found 1 girl who I dated for about a month in the 4 years I was doing that. Trying to find dates in nightclubs is an incredible waste of effort. It can happen eventually if you go enough times but it isn’t very effective.

I also think online dating is even more of a waste of time then pub/nightclub culture is. In my experience being introduced through friends and family is the most effective method of meeting girls. Perhaps a professional matchmaker if one can afford it.

[kangarunner]

Thanks for posting this. It's good to see that video has 160K+ views. With more and more channels exposing american women for the trash that they are, it won't be long until they finally accept defeat.

[WanderingProtagonist]

Why dating Is ruined In 2022?

In Western Europe dating was ruined many years earlier. One reason for sure was political, the iron curtain, which made dating almost impossible over the border between Western and Eastern Europe. Rampant feminism is also to blame.

Internet dating has advantages and disadvantages. When I was young it did not exist and you could only date by letters and phone calls. Air travel to abroad to far away destinations was very costly, there was no good banking ATM service and money change system existing, only travellers cheques.

Dating European women was hopeless, many had multiple boyfriends starting as young as 13. I never had any personal relationship with a woman from Europe. I do not know even one Western woman who does not have multiple boyfriends, there is a huge competition going on, young men looking for a girlfriend/wife outnumber young women at least 6:1 or more in every dating site I know.

After years being alone, I was starting to look for a female partner overseas, away from Europe. I was surprised - what was not possible for me with local women from my own country was not even so difficult with foreign women. I left Europe for Asia more than 40 years ago - forever - and finally settled down in Japan.

I recommend international/interracial dating/marriage for every single man - of course it's not for everybody, some men cannot relocate for some reason, others do not want to live in a foreign country, using a language which is not his native language, would prefer a wife of his own race etc.

I can say, women from USA are the worst I have seen in my life but women in all Europe are not so much better, believe me. Highly materialistic, plenty of boyfriends and no shame regarding overdemanding, many into disco life and alcohol and best protected by feminist laws against any kind of wrongdoings.

Generally said, if you depend on women from the States, Canada, wide parts of Europe - and cannot relocate to other countries for whatever reason, it is surely better you stay single as a man. Sad, but true.

Asia would change to if you're encouraging the interracial stuff. If a bunch of white males flocked to Japan the first thing they would do is figure out a way to turn the women into self hating morons like they did their own. Plenty of men have women in the West, but they are cuckolding faggots compared to what men were like years ago. Men today in the Western world prefer to let their women do what they want with who ever they want. Same thing in Europe, cuckolding is popular among these men for a reason and is no better than being single, it's actually worse. Men are dateless in the West because of the poor actions of other men in the West. Whether it's men in politics, or just the average everyday man that normalized self defeat.

Interracial dating or at least too much of that will change the landscape of a country and make it unrecognizable, if this is what people want. Why leave your white nations that are already being transformed by people who don't really belong there? In few years tops, America will be less white, some places in Europe will suffer the same fate.
I wouldn't even want to live in a foreign country if a bunch of other men from weaker failed countries started pouring into those other countries with the sole purpose to mate, breed, and change the society to reflect something that it isn't all because they wrecked their own nations by treating women like their equals or above them. The only thing that will lead to is them bringing their shitty failed Westernize traits into those countries like telling the women they can be strong like men, and encouraging them to dominate them which is what white males did in their own nations and turned the women all into militant feminist that hate their own men, hate and resent their own race, see white men as weak and would rather replace them with rapefugees who don't go around cucking to other men but have come to foreign nations to invade and dominate.

White women in these Western nations didn't end up the way they did on their own, the same applies to black women too. White men are mostly to blame for everything that went wrong in the West and Europe as a whole. They ruined their own countries, gave all their women power, and now they have this inferiority complex thing going on.

[WanderingProtagonist]

Thanks for posting this. It's good to see that video has 160K+ views. With more and more channels exposing american women for the trash that they are, it won't be long until they finally accept defeat.

This doesn't mean anything, men will still continue to date them regardless of what someone says in a video. People forget how big America is. That's like exposing leftism for how awful it is as a political belief but that's not going to stop leftism from attracting people to it. American women have been exposed as trash for years, people were exposing them as shit even when I was still in Jr Highschool back in the early 2000s when the web was still quite new. I remember when Wintson first made Happier Abroad and started talking about how bad America was and the women. Here we are today, people still bash Western women and they still find plenty of males in the country that seek them out.

I also think fewer women even care if men desire them, that's the whole reason why they refuse to change. If women really cared or felt threaten by any of this they would do something about it, but they aren't. Why? Because they aren't threaten enough. They will always get attention from cucks that want to watch them f**k other males that they can feel inferior to, simps that will gladly pay their damn bills, and men who just want to sleep around but never commit. Until more women start to actually care about having a love life and I don't mean waiting around until their p***y hair turn gray. Then nothing dating wise is going to change in the West. As long as women can generate attention from somewhere, they could care less if we never date or talk to them at all. Not trying to be black pilled, just speaking the truth about the situation.

[kangarunner]

Article: "By 2030 Nearly Half of Adult American Women Will Be Single"

Link: https://medium.com/acid-sugar/by-2030-n ... 1239fe5f6f

CNN Article: "There are more single working women than ever, and that’s changing the US economy"

Link: https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/29/economy/ ... en-economy

By 2030, 45% of working women aged 25 to 44 in the United States will be single. That will be the largest share in history, according to research by Morgan Stanley (MS), using data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Have fun living the rest of your lives masturbating alone and caring for your 6 cats in your apartment....you worthless shit fembots.

[Mercury]

Online dating sucks. I’ve wasted a lot of time and money meeting women that turned out to be not very interested. I never really got anywhere until I met my wife after 5 and half years of disappointment after disappointment.
Nothing beats real life, local dating as it removes a lot of the guesswork, awkwardness and travel expenses. Everything each party has to offer is right there, out in the open. It’s not that difficult to deceive people and omit pertinent information in a dating profile. If guess if you’re in the top 10-20% of men it can work for you but for the rest of us ymmv.

For men, online dating is a waste of money. When you're dealing with over 3,000 single men to every 1 single woman on those dating sites, you're sure to lose as surely as a pedestrian on the ground trying to race a space shuttle in orbit above. You might message an attractive woman on Match or Tinder, and unbeknownsd to you, there are about 375,000 other men messaging her as well, some of whom even live in the Beverly Hills or Calabasas area of Los Angeles, California. And chances are, she will pick the big guy that lives in the Beverly Park or Hidden Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles. It is also likely she will pick some violent MS-13 member that lives in the South Central/Compton area (extremely bad neighborhoods) of Los Angeles.

[Yohan]

For men, online dating is a waste of money. When you're dealing with over 3,000 single men to every 1 single woman on those dating sites, you're sure to lose as surely as a pedestrian on the ground trying to race a space shuttle in orbit above. You might message an attractive woman on Match or Tinder, and unbeknownsd to you, there are about 375,000 other men messaging her as well....

The typical exaggerated comment from Mercury.

It is not wrong what he says, internet online dating is indeed a waste of time and money for men, especially those who are looking for a Western woman.
A large number of these female profiles turns out to contain seriously misleading information while some of them are fake profiles of women who do not even exist. They were created by the website owner to boost the income, to attract more men to sign up and pay.

The situation is not so much better here in Japan, South Korea and Taiwan either.

There is a gender imbalance, also in Japan, not so high like in China or India, about 100 young women vs. 105 young men.
Most social research data show that about 35 % of all younger women between 20 and 35 do not want to look for a long-term relationship with a man but only 25 % of men think like that.
This means
105 men less 25 % = 79
100 women less 35 % = 65
14 men = approx. 15 % of Japanese young men between 20 and 35 y/o have no chance to find a woman for a long term relationship, as there is none existing, and Japan, South Korea and Taiwan are indeed importers of foreign women for marriage with a Japanese man. Situation is a bit better in the large cities, but worse in places with not so much population, and it is hopeless on islands and in rural areas. You will see only elderly people and some young men. Many elementary small schools are closing down now in rural regions in all Japan, no children.

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Of course Mercury's comments of 3000 single men vs. one woman and 375000 email offers from men to one single female are ridiculous.

More realistic spoken however, the issue does exist, the dating scene is totally broken and it does not look good for young men looking for a female friend.

A Chinese woman from Shanghai, 30 y/o, told me when looking for marriage in Japan she got around 200 serious offers from Japanese men. About Japanese women, even those with moderate looks, if interested in marriage, will likely receive more replies if she is willing to publish her profile somewhere on the Japanese dating internet sites.

Women (even those with low education and who own nothing) have really a choice, but men have not.

A Filipina I knew personally - just plain average, not really what I consider as beautiful, who really had nothing (just a factory worker in a Japanese company in Cebu) and who was looking for meeting men - preferably from Western Europe - got about 50 replies and left Philippines for Germany.

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However what kind of men women choose is often highly questionable too. Honest men with a regular job have little hope indeed.

Best chances are for men to find plenty of women if

1 - they are really rich and offer women a party life-style
2 - they are talking BS, BS and BS, and feel no shame about it - typical con-man or braggart
3 - men with a criminal record, who offer women an 'exciting' way of life-style, drugs, violence...

Somewhat sad....but true...especially for Western women.

[Yohan]

nd chances are, she will pick the big guy that lives in the Beverly Park or Hidden Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles. It is also likely she will pick some violent MS-13 member that lives in the South Central/Compton area (extremely bad neighborhoods) of Los Angeles.

I don't know dude, I'm neither a multi-millionaire bigshot, nor a violent gangbanger and I find that, frequently enough, they "pick me". Why always make it into these extremes where you either have to be super rich or super morally bankrupt or else you won't geta girl? ....

I wrote many comments, where I said, Mercury makes some good points, but what he says is hopelessly exaggerated, by far over the top, far away from the reality of life.

He is not so wrong however if he says to be a rich guy (rich from where?), or at least a braggart (shows up with a big car but it does not belong to him and is full of debts) or a bad boy (girls wait for him at the jail gate on the day of his release), your chance to find girls running after you are fairly high - much higher than for any honest ordinary man doing a regular job.

To improve the dating scene, women have to change their criteria how to choose their men.

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I also feel your comment are a bit strange - as you said in another thread, you are a father of nine, and still women pick you up? What could it be which makes you so attractive that women pick up you and disregard totally other men?

I cannot help to say that I agree what @Outcast9428 and @Pixel--Dude write in their comments in this threat, exactly my experiences when I was still young.

by outcast9428 and pixel-dude

I joined a few dating sites for the first time and quickly realised how f***ing pointless the whole thing actually was. Women with unrealistic standards
....
Not a fan of pub culture or nightclubs which play music so unnecessarily loud that you can't even hear each other talk. Then when and if you do get talking to a single lady she expects you to buy her free drinks for the privilege of just saying hello to her.... then her f***ing boyfriend turned up and she left our table with her friends!
....
....online dating is even more of a waste of time then pub/nightclub culture is. In my experience being introduced through friends and family is the most effective method of meeting girls. Perhaps a professional matchmaker if one can afford it.
....
The best way to find a decent partner, is to take up hobbies that involve going out and doing stuff without alcohol or drugs involved

All true, but I am sceptical about the last sentence: Question is, where can you find a decent partner, going out with you - without alcohol or drugs?involved - Where? Dating for example at your workplace or in schools is totally out of question, just too risky, and all girls there are anyway taken or have multiple boyfriends already.

Anyway, whatever, if you cannot find a reasonable female it is better you stay alone instead of wasting your money for online dating and nightclubs...

[Pixel--Dude]

nd chances are, she will pick the big guy that lives in the Beverly Park or Hidden Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles. It is also likely she will pick some violent MS-13 member that lives in the South Central/Compton area (extremely bad neighborhoods) of Los Angeles.

I don't know dude, I'm neither a multi-millionaire bigshot, nor a violent gangbanger and I find that, frequently enough, they "pick me". Why always make it into these extremes where you either have to be super rich or super morally bankrupt or else you won't geta girl? ....

I wrote many comments, where I said, Mercury makes some good points, but what he says is hopelessly exaggerated, by far over the top, far away from the reality of life.

He is not so wrong however if he says to be a rich guy (rich from where?), or at least a braggart (shows up with a big car but it does not belong to him and is full of debts) or a bad boy (girls wait for him at the jail gate on the day of his release), your chance to find girls running after you are fairly high - much higher than for any honest ordinary man doing a regular job.

To improve the dating scene, women have to change their criteria how to choose their men.

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I also feel your comment are a bit strange - as you said in another thread, you are a father of nine, and still women pick you up? What could it be which makes you so attractive that women pick up you and disregard totally other men?

I cannot help to say that I agree what @Outcast9428 and @Pixel--Dude write in their comments in this threat, exactly my experiences when I was still young.

by outcast9428 and pixel-dude

I joined a few dating sites for the first time and quickly realised how f***ing pointless the whole thing actually was. Women with unrealistic standards
....
Not a fan of pub culture or nightclubs which play music so unnecessarily loud that you can't even hear each other talk. Then when and if you do get talking to a single lady she expects you to buy her free drinks for the privilege of just saying hello to her.... then her f***ing boyfriend turned up and she left our table with her friends!
....
....online dating is even more of a waste of time then pub/nightclub culture is. In my experience being introduced through friends and family is the most effective method of meeting girls. Perhaps a professional matchmaker if one can afford it.
....
The best way to find a decent partner, is to take up hobbies that involve going out and doing stuff without alcohol or drugs involved

All true, but I am sceptical about the last sentence: Question is, where can you find a decent partner, going out with you - without alcohol or drugs?involved? Where? Dating for example at your workplace or in schools is totally out of question, just oo risky, and all girls there are anyway taken or have multiple boyfriends already.

Anyway, whatever, if you cannot find a reasonable female it is better you stay alone instead of wasting your money for online dating and nightclubs...

Hey, @Yohan. Yes, what @Mercury says about women valuing men based on income is correct. Obviously this isn't true of all women, but the ones who tend to use online dating networks are typically the kind of girls who require potential mates to be over six foot and have so much disposable income per year

Really sets a precedent doesn't it? Going into a relationship knowing your partner only values how much extra money you got spare rather than your looks or your personality or your values. Etc. I won't use online dating. I've removed all my profiles and I am thankful I never fell for the trap of their bots sending me likes to trick me into paying for a premium service

As for the sentence you asked about, there are a few hobbies or activities one could take up and meet some interesting new women. For example I did some voluntary work tree planting in my local parks and what not and the girl who organised the whole thing was a girl called Lucy who was really pretty and had such good energy. Regretfully, my wounds hadn't healed fully from the relationship I'd just come out of so I didn't bother asking her out or anything like that. But I enjoyed speaking to her. She reminded me of a girl from a western with jeans and cowgirl boots and a hat hanging at her back. Bet she was a fan of Clint Eastwood

But anyway, my point is that voluntary work is a good place to meet a girl. And if she's doing stuff to help the environment etc you can be fairly certain she has some good values like giving a shit about nature and most likely wildlife as well. Other than that there are places you can go and play board games, swimming, other activities where you can get talking to someone. It's more authentic than the so-called "dating scene" or pub pick up culture.

Also, @Outcast9428 mentioned meeting women through family and friends who could set you up. Which isn't a bad idea also. That's how my cousin and my friend got together and they've now got a happy family life together with a young son.

But for those who like to take initiative I think taking up a new hobby or voluntary work is a good way to make new female friends which can then develop naturally into a romantic relationship. I think confidence is the key. And an ability to accept rejection as well. People need to remember that just because they get rejected it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

[WanderingProtagonist]

nd chances are, she will pick the big guy that lives in the Beverly Park or Hidden Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles. It is also likely she will pick some violent MS-13 member that lives in the South Central/Compton area (extremely bad neighborhoods) of Los Angeles.

I don't know dude, I'm neither a multi-millionaire bigshot, nor a violent gangbanger and I find that, frequently enough, they "pick me". Why always make it into these extremes where you either have to be super rich or super morally bankrupt or else you won't geta girl? ....

I wrote many comments, where I said, Mercury makes some good points, but what he says is hopelessly exaggerated, by far over the top, far away from the reality of life.

He is not so wrong however if he says to be a rich guy (rich from where?), or at least a braggart (shows up with a big car but it does not belong to him and is full of debts) or a bad boy (girls wait for him at the jail gate on the day of his release), your chance to find girls running after you are fairly high - much higher than for any honest ordinary man doing a regular job.

To improve the dating scene, women have to change their criteria how to choose their men.

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I also feel your comment are a bit strange - as you said in another thread, you are a father of nine, and still women pick you up? What could it be which makes you so attractive that women pick up you and disregard totally other men?

I cannot help to say that I agree what @Outcast9428 and @Pixel--Dude write in their comments in this threat, exactly my experiences when I was still young.

by outcast9428 and pixel-dude

I joined a few dating sites for the first time and quickly realised how f***ing pointless the whole thing actually was. Women with unrealistic standards
....
Not a fan of pub culture or nightclubs which play music so unnecessarily loud that you can't even hear each other talk. Then when and if you do get talking to a single lady she expects you to buy her free drinks for the privilege of just saying hello to her.... then her f***ing boyfriend turned up and she left our table with her friends!
....
....online dating is even more of a waste of time then pub/nightclub culture is. In my experience being introduced through friends and family is the most effective method of meeting girls. Perhaps a professional matchmaker if one can afford it.
....
The best way to find a decent partner, is to take up hobbies that involve going out and doing stuff without alcohol or drugs involved

All true, but I am sceptical about the last sentence: Question is, where can you find a decent partner, going out with you - without alcohol or drugs?involved? Where? Dating for example at your workplace or in schools is totally out of question, just oo risky, and all girls there are anyway taken or have multiple boyfriends already.

Anyway, whatever, if you cannot find a reasonable female it is better you stay alone instead of wasting your money for online dating and nightclubs...

Hey, @Yohan. Yes, what @Mercury says about women valuing men based on income is correct. Obviously this isn't true of all women, but the ones who tend to use online dating networks are typically the kind of girls who require potential mates to be over six foot and have so much disposable income per year

Really sets a precedent doesn't it? Going into a relationship knowing your partner only values how much extra money you got spare rather than your looks or your personality or your values. Etc. I won't use online dating. I've removed all my profiles and I am thankful I never fell for the trap of their bots sending me likes to trick me into paying for a premium service

As for the sentence you asked about, there are a few hobbies or activities one could take up and meet some interesting new women. For example I did some voluntary work tree planting in my local parks and what not and the girl who organised the whole thing was a girl called Lucy who was really pretty and had such good energy. Regretfully, my wounds hadn't healed fully from the relationship I'd just come out of so I didn't bother asking her out or anything like that. But I enjoyed speaking to her. She reminded me of a girl from a western with jeans and cowgirl boots and a hat hanging at her back. Bet she was a fan of Clint Eastwood

But anyway, my point is that voluntary work is a good place to meet a girl. And if she's doing stuff to help the environment etc you can be fairly certain she has some good values like giving a shit about nature and most likely wildlife as well. Other than that there are places you can go and play board games, swimming, other activities where you can get talking to someone. It's more authentic than the so-called "dating scene" or pub pick up culture.

Also, @Outcast9428 mentioned meeting women through family and friends who could set you up. Which isn't a bad idea also. That's how my cousin and my friend got together and they've now got a happy family life together with a young son.

But for those who like to take initiative I think taking up a new hobby or voluntary work is a good way to make new female friends which can then develop naturally into a romantic relationship. I think confidence is the key. And an ability to accept rejection as well. People need to remember that just because they get rejected it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

I feel like I wasted my 20s trying to meet women throughout CA, I never did go to clubs and I tried the dating online back in the early 2000s..But ever since everything started to deteriorate it's gotten harder for me to meet women at all, the motivation doesn't feel there anymore. Plus getting rejected by average females always sucked. I can understand why the attractive ones do it, and it's because of their garbage egos. But average ordinary girls doing this is even worse because many men in the West are desperate as hell for female attention and company but ordinary women will take complete advantage of this and reject every guy coming on to them.

The only time a girl did give me the time of day was a few overweight ones. Like the one I met in College, and then there was a gothic one that sent me an interest on this Gothic dating site I used a few times back in my 20s but none of them were attractive. I use to try a lot of platforms like meetup.com or tribe.net I had no luck with those either. I don't know, I just hate the games you have to play with women these days...Like that whole "don't call until after 3 weeks" and shit like this just makes pursuing women useless. I miss the jr high days when the girl had no problem calling me every day, I can kind of see why some guys wish they could legally go after under age girls, but I doubt the ones today are anything like the ones from back when I was a teenager.

It just seemed like girls were always showing interest in me in my Jr High school years, but I was such a shy person that I always ignored them. By the time I got into high school, shit really changed and girls became harder to date.
I do remember meeting this one white woman off a site once and she went to my college. For some reason she showed me a picture and was living with two other men who she referred to as "her boys." She had one child, and when I finally did meet her in person I just looked at this plain ass average looking white woman thinking to myself "God, why do I even bother anymore?" She was also a smoker, somewhat had bad teeth but not extremely bad or decaying. But for a 28 year old she looked sort of 40 already. She had no interest in me either, but I can tell judging from the photo she showed with the two cuckolding looking males on her right and left side with her in the middle that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the both of them. Plus she lived with them which was a big hell no for me aside from the fact she was also a smoker and was aging rather quickly.