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I just want to level the playing field here. I'm going to say a good chunk of Western Men are just as bad as their female counterparts. I just came home to find my dad writing a lengthy love letter to an ex gf of his... he left his email open and when I asked him about it he feigned ignorance... Now here's the rub, my father lives off my mother rent free, has done so for the last 5 or 6 years and has cheated with several women (He decided to retire and stop contributing). Now he is completely indifferent to us... and at times extremely resentful and down right mean. We figured it was because of his heart attack that he has been such a prick... I don't know what to believe now.
My mother is a hard working wage slave and has been with my father and paid for several operations in excess of $40,000, overseas which would have left him dead had she not been there for him. Yet he walks around the house like king tut, treats her and the rest of us like dirt and then does this... He had told me he'd stopped this 15 years ago when I caught him in the act. He told me to keep my mouth shut then but I told my mother. Anyhow my mother and he eventually worked things out (he charmed his way back in) and now he's back at it again.
Sorry but its not just women, its also western men... it seems to be whomever is the spouse being supported. My mother is at her wits end because of the way he's been treating her and the family... now I'm in a dilemma: Do I tell my mother so that she can get rid of him or keep it to myself.... I feel I owe my mom for being the responsible person she is. I feel ashamed for putting any faith or giving my father any pitty now. Then trying to get your kids to hide your dirty secrets from you... Lies, Cheating, Deception, Coercion, isn't this the behavior of a western woman??? WTF?
If you cheat on your wife while you are still married (and hide it) then you are no better than any of these western c**ts... sorry but there shouldn't be any double standards. Spousal cheaters are scum no matter how you look at it.
Sorry to hear of your situation. I do think that it's easy to generalize about all men or all women, but there are always diamonds in dust, i.e. good women amongst the bad, and bad men amongst the good. Perhaps if you got on your dad's case and tell him you won't put up with his crap. You know, the older generation of American women is generally a different/higher calibre than the young ones, so I don't doubt that your mom's a real woman of character. That's why I like hanging out with senior citizens, because they are "old school" and have good manners, brains, and solid character. Frankly Americans of my age or younger (men or women) bore the hell out of me. Perhaps you can help your mom find a circle of friends who will give her moral support.