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I saw guys rejected and being used in town tonight!

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Do girls date guys for free meals and presents?

Poll ended at November 7th, 2012, 1:48 am

No, girls are looking for Mr Right!
2
20%
Yes, girls are gold-diggers and need to be ignored!
8
80%
 
Total votes: 10

terminator
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Post by terminator »

jamesbond wrote:
AmericanInMexico wrote:In the United States, that is the only way to meet women; first you have to have a friend introduce you to her (since American women are not open to being met any other way).

It isn't like that here in Mexico where you can meet ten women a night very easily (since women here are open to meeting new people).
This is so true! In America, the only way to meet women is through your friends. Women in the US are not open to meeting guys in random places like bookstores and grocery stores. You need to be introduced to a woman by a mutal friend the two of you know.

I like what you say about Mexico, it sounds like you can easily meet women there. Women in Mexico sound like they are very open to meeting guys in public places like bookstores, grocery stores, etc.

I have noticed that mexican women here in the US tend to be very friendly and open. I can only imagine how friendly and open they are in Mexico. :D
The main reason why AW are so stuck up is TV shows - all the crime shows about a man killing a woman, all the talk shows about how women don't need a man, all the stars divorcing their husbands and taking him to the cleaners...If we banned TV now, nothing would change as the damage has been done.

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terminator wrote:
publicduende wrote:I think you're connecting random dots and getting a skewed picture. Some college girls on a budget order a frugal meal. Boy tries to impress girl by buying her a decent dinner. Guys on a car catcalling girls were probably just looking for an easy laugh. Daily city street sights on a weekend night.

Yes, it might be true that some (attractive) girls use dinner dates as free meal tickets, but how many? Not sure what happens in the US, but in the UK it's kind of lame to meet a woman you barely know straight in a restaurant. The ice-breaking time is (almost) always in a pub or bar, where a couple of drinks cost less and either party has time to see whether they want to invest the following couple of hours (and hundred quid) on a dinner. As a funny if not overly pragmatic friend of mine once said, when you know you might be in for a tis-for-tat date and "cynical chick" alarm is set off, it's time to lay the cards on the table and be clear on the expected outcome of a night out, especially if expensive. I replied I knew where he was coming from, yet I wouldn't even begin to date a woman knowing that her sexual favours are just part of a transaction against your wallet wide open for the night. To me, a date is either an attempt to some sort of physical, or intellectual (or both) connection, or I'd rather spend my money on an escort.
It's really not possible that I'm connecting random dots because I've noticed this time and time again - e.g. why do AW act like they "don't need a man" 100% of the time? It's because most girls only want to use average guys and feel they are "worth" someone like David Beckham. Also, every time I see guys show interest in any girl, she simply rejects him. Girls are real tight-wads when they pay, e.g. my mother would tell me off if I made a snack when I was a teenager,.
What I was trying to say is yes, lots of young women may like to take men for a ride when it comes to getting a free meal, cinema ticket, etc. without attaching anything special to that date. It's also true that such behaviours are quite easy to spot, and I think it takes quite a naive, desperate, or just totally infatuated young man to see what you're talking about in full bloom.

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AmericanInMexico wrote:
terminator wrote:
publicduende wrote:I think you're connecting random dots and getting a skewed picture. Some college girls on a budget order a frugal meal. Boy tries to impress girl by buying her a decent dinner. Guys on a car catcalling girls were probably just looking for an easy laugh. Daily city street sights on a weekend night.

Yes, it might be true that some (attractive) girls use dinner dates as free meal tickets, but how many? Not sure what happens in the US, but in the UK it's kind of lame to meet a woman you barely know straight in a restaurant. The ice-breaking time is (almost) always in a pub or bar, where a couple of drinks cost less and either party has time to see whether they want to invest the following couple of hours (and hundred quid) on a dinner. As a funny if not overly pragmatic friend of mine once said, when you know you might be in for a tis-for-tat date and "cynical chick" alarm is set off, it's time to lay the cards on the table and be clear on the expected outcome of a night out, especially if expensive. I replied I knew where he was coming from, yet I wouldn't even begin to date a woman knowing that her sexual favours are just part of a transaction against your wallet wide open for the night. To me, a date is either an attempt to some sort of physical, or intellectual (or both) connection, or I'd rather spend my money on an escort.
It's really not possible that I'm connecting random dots because I've noticed this time and time again - e.g. why do AW act like they "don't need a man" 100% of the time? It's because most girls only want to use average guys and feel they are "worth" someone like David Beckham. Also, every time I see guys show interest in any girl, she simply rejects him. Girls are real tight-wads when they pay, e.g. my mother would tell me off if I made a snack when I was a teenager,.
That's part of why I don't understand why many American women even have jobs if it's the man's responsibility to buy her whatever she wants without protesting. American women are insane; despite being poorer, Mexican women have bought me far more than American women ever did and I say that at risk of sounding like a gold digger myself.

On the contrary, I appreciate every now and then being surprised with something simple like a chocolate bar, something that lets me know she actually cares about me. American women I've dated were incapable of even buying me something small every now and then; it was always "you're the man so be a gentleman and buy me whatever I ask for". My Mexican fiancee, on the other hand, surprised me just a few weeks ago with a CD from one of my favorite bands, and I know that was a big deal for her since on her wages a CD is almost an entire day's pay. The thought of an American woman buying men anything no matter how small is almost laughable since it rarely happens.
Yes, AW should give up their careers, since they are spoiled rotten and think they are too good to work. Iagree about foreign women being more generous with their money, love and attitude. There's no hope for AW - they've turned into monsters and there's no way to make them decent again - even if the economy collapsed like Zimbabwe, AW would rather die than marry a man "less than" Brad Pitt in order to get food and a roof over her big head.

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terminator wrote: Yes, AW should give up their careers, since they are spoiled rotten and think they are too good to work. Iagree about foreign women being more generous with their money, love and attitude. There's no hope for AW - they've turned into monsters and there's no way to make them decent again - even if the economy collapsed like Zimbabwe, AW would rather die than marry a man "less than" Brad Pitt in order to get food and a roof over her big head.
That attitude would only last until it became clear that the EBT card system wasn't coming back online and the grocery shelves were not going to be restocked any time soon (or only taking cash, which I sometimes see even now).

There's a reason DHS keeps running drills and making posts about "zombies".
http://duckduckgo.com/?q=dhs+zombie
не поглеждай назад. 8)

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Post by Jester »

jamesbond wrote:
AmericanInMexico wrote:In the United States, that is the only way to meet women; first you have to have a friend introduce you to her (since American women are not open to being met any other way).

It isn't like that here in Mexico where you can meet ten women a night very easily (since women here are open to meeting new people).
This is so true! In America, the only way to meet women is through your friends. Women in the US are not open to meeting guys in random places like bookstores and grocery stores. You need to be introduced to a woman by a mutal friend the two of you know.

I like what you say about Mexico, it sounds like you can easily meet women there. Women in Mexico sound like they are very open to meeting guys in public places like bookstores, grocery stores, etc.

I have noticed that mexican women here in the US tend to be very friendly and open. I can only imagine how friendly and open they are in Mexico.
:D
I have a question about this, but it is getting off the OP's topic, so I started a new thread here:

viewtopic.php?p=102716#102716

Hope anyone with a knowledge of Mexico will weigh in there.

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Re: I saw guys rejected and being used in town tonight!

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This picture explains American women's idea of "dating." :lol:

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Re: I saw guys rejected and being used in town tonight!

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terminator wrote:
On my way home I saw a car load of guys whistling at girls on the street and the girls gave them the finger!
In Chicago, especially Downtown Chicago, that kind of thing would easily trigger a shooting. I can easily imagine something like that happening even on north Michigan Avenue or near Oak Street Beach, and then the car load of guys getting blasted by gun fire.

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jamesbond wrote:
AmericanInMexico wrote:In the United States, that is the only way to meet women; first you have to have a friend introduce you to her (since American women are not open to being met any other way).
And in Illinois, especially DuPage and DeKalb County, Illinois, you can not meet women at all! Not even through friends. All you can do is walk in big, wide circles around women in all of Northern Illinois.

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