Do you find the typical American personality to be annoying, fake, strange, and impossible to vibe with?

[Winston]

Have any of you noticed that the typical American personality that nearly all Americans adopt, is very annoying, fake, strange, and off-putting? It's like they are empty and soulless on the inside and just going through the motions only, but on the exterior they act fake and pretend to be positive and upbeat all the time. They also act tough and independent like they don't need anyone and have no true feelings or sensitivity. It's a very strange combination of traits and seems very creepy and unnatural. Do any of you get weirded out by this standard American personality too? It's very unpleasant to be around. I've never understood it. It's also impossible to vibe with or connect with since it's so fake and empty. I don't get how Americans connect with each other. They are totally lacking in warmth, sincerity, and closeness, like that Lithuanian immigrant said in the Robert Stark interview I posted. The standard American personality is like an empty soul that just goes through the motions. Kind of sickening. How do Americans act as if that's normal?!

How do foreigners and immigrants not see this? Why do they not talk about it more? Only misfits seem to notice it. I guess people are conformist by nature and will conform to anything, including fake American personalities, in order to fit in. It is odd though that more people don't talk about this. Instead, everyone wants to blame the government and politics on everything, and that's their focus. It's as if they assume people and cultures are all good and normal and ok, and that the only issues are economical, political, and those related to social equality. Very weird.

It's weird how Americans are so empty yet on the outside they act positive and upbeat all the time, even when there's nothing to be happy about, they act like you are supposed to be happy and upbeat all the time anyway. Very strange. Do any of you get that? It seems upside down. The thing is, I am all for happiness and positivity, but it has to be GENUINE and based on something REAL. But Americans always act happy and upbeat all the time even when there's no reason to. That's weird and creepy. But of course you aren't allowed to talk about it, because the focus is always on politics, economics, and equality, which are boring and useless topics that go nowhere and overly repetitive.

Even if you go on YouTube and watch videos of American women talking about how to make a grilled cheese sandwich, they act like it's the most exciting thing in the world. lol. Here is one example:



Notice how she's so excited about making a grilled cheese sandwich, that she even slaps the table several times because she can't contain her excitement and enthusiasm. lol. That's so American. Americans seem to love that. I can't understand why. lol. Do you? lol

Are Americans really that happy and upbeat 24/7 or are they just pretending? How do you act like that? I couldn't act like that even if I wanted to. Or rather, how do you be like that? How do you be something you are not? Americans don't think about this. They just conform and expect you to too.

[Chandler]

american have worst personality ever... it all about america fake... it impossible 2 fit in with american such as date or make friend... this not normal in other country.... people have fake nice personality then really mean nasty and empty hateful ppl... trust me winston its not ur fault u dont fit in with america but problem is now rest of world see america on internet and think thats how they act and now they try 2 act like american.

[kangarunner]

Have any of you noticed that the typical American personality that nearly all Americans adopt, is very annoying, fake, strange, and off-putting?

After living abroad for 6+ years, and being around people in other parts of the world, especially here in Colombia, who are nice, normal, and calm, I now look at the typical American to be have very superficial values which comes across to me as fake and vapid.

It's like they are empty and soulless on the inside and just going through the motions only, but on the exterior they act fake and pretend to be positive and upbeat all the time. They also act tough and independent like they don't need anyone and have no true feelings or sensitivity. It's a very strange combination of traits and seems very creepy and unnatural.

I think what you are describing is a byproduct of the "American way". Work, work, work. Shit on everyone else. Buy nice looking clothes, expensive car, more and more consumerism. It's all superficial. That's what America is.

Do any of you get weirded out by this standard American personality too?

I no longer associate with any of them anymore.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

lol Americans are so fake and phony. I only interact with them when it's business related. Don't expect to be friends with them because they got their clique of friends from childhood already since the first grade. It takes big amount of effort to break their ice wall. Unless you all are into American football and into mindless normie conformist cr@p..which I doubt any of you guys are.. you are sh*t out of luck making friends in America.

[dancilley]

Don't expect to be friends with them because they got their clique of friends from childhood already since the first grade. It takes big amount of effort to break their ice wall. Unless you all are into American football and into mindless normie conformist cr@p..which I doubt any of you guys are.. you are sh*t out of luck making friends in America.

I agree that it is hard to meet people because they seem to have their own established clique of friends from school, but at the same time, I don't believe that you can't make friends in America. I have not really tried to make friends in America, but I am going to start talking to people in person to create my own social circle (because I have never had one).

I just set up and broadcasted LIVE on YouTube myself walking in Downtown L.A. and I plan to stream myself meeting people, forming a social circle, attracting virgin girls, etc. My goal is to prove that talking to strangers, making friends, dating virgin females, etc. is way easier than most people think, as long as you go out every single day and never give up.

I am aware of the reality that there are so many toxic people, but I don't believe that EVERY person is closed to meeting new people and making friends. Something tells me that people would appreciate meeting new people, if you have a good, real, authentic personality.

[dancilley]

on the exterior they act fake and pretend to be positive and upbeat all the time.

What it is, is that the viewer of the video enjoys watching a video of a person being happy and joyful. Therefore, the actress acts happy and joyful, to get the most views. So, yes, it is fake, but people are attracted to healthy and happy people.

To truly be this healthy and happy as the actress is in the video, you have to be healthy, exercise regularly, and also avoid a lot of the stimulants that Americans consume such as illegal drugs, psychotropic medication, alcohol, marijuana, tobacco, junk food, refined sugar, oil, flavor enhancers, watching porn, watching videos, social media, etc.

Also, females act this way to act youthful, like they are a teenager. Teenagers are joyful like this naturally. But a lot of teenagers don't smoke, drink, do drugs, etc.

Therefore, you can feel happy and joyful like this naturally if you avoid stimulation. Most people are overstimulated, so they are like a zombie. They don't smile, don't giggle, don't laugh, etc. (unless they are high on a drug, etc.).

If you avoid using the internet, and all electronic screens, you will be motivated to go out every single day and exercise. If you avoid enough stimulation, you will be motivated to cook, and will feel very excited about the aroma of the food, the color of the food, the texture, etc.

I think this is a very important topic of discussion. We need to get females excited like this because a wife enjoying cooking is what men want. That's another reason this video is getting views. This female is older though; men want virgins to act like this. So, we basically need to get people off the internet so they can be in a healthier, happier mood. The internet has destroyed society.

[Outcast9428]

@Winston

I think what it comes down to is that Americans naturally lean a little bit towards introversion, but because the social norms of our society were partially created by previous generations who leaned towards extraversion, there's still a certain level of pressure, which is more dominant in some areas then others, to be extroverted. I hypothesize that American society has not leaned towards introversion for very long... Probably only in the past ten years or so. So the social norms of extraversion are still around, but were weakened significantly by a combination of the COVID pandemic which basically encouraged introversion and increasingly advanced technologies and predominance of social media which makes the internet more interesting then the world around us now. Because of this, you have a lot of introverted or ambiverted people in America who are trying to pass themselves off as extroverted. But whenever people try to be something they are not, you can tell, and they come off as a try hard.

I do notice, however, that this varies state by state. In the Northern Virginia area, or the general Washington DC area which includes Northern Virginia as well as Maryland... Extroversion is highly encouraged. In Florida, people are extremely extroverted. I have not encountered any state in America where random people will come up and talk to you as often as they do in Florida... For better or for worse. Everywhere you go in Florida you will find people out and about. The state seems to constantly be busy, at all hours of the day, every day.

Virginia, North Carolina, and West Virginia, on the other hand, are more introverted. Its almost like Japan here actually. There's kind of an implicit rule that bothering strangers is rude. There's more pressure to not make a scene when you're out in public then I've seen in other states. If you do make a scene, however, people will pretend they don't notice you doing it because there seems to be a feeling here that directing attention at people, even if they are making a scene and obviously asking for it, is impolite. People here don't go out as much as people in other states do and they seem to enjoy being at home more.

On one hand, this does make it harder to make friends and integrate into the community here... On the other hand, however, people in Virginia oddly are more accepting and less conformist compared to my experiences with other states. People here don't really seem to negatively judge people who are shy and reserved... Or if they do, its only a minor judgment as opposed to the harsh judgments I experienced in other states. Virginia is also more wholesome then other states, I never see disturbing things when I'm out in public here whereas you do in other states.

[Outcast9428]

@Winston

I think what it comes down to is that Americans naturally lean a little bit towards introversion, but because the social norms of our society were partially created by previous generations who leaned towards extraversion, there's still a certain level of pressure, which is more dominant in some areas then others, to be extroverted. I hypothesize that American society has not leaned towards introversion for very long... Probably only in the past ten years or so. So the social norms of extraversion are still around, but were weakened significantly by a combination of the COVID pandemic which basically encouraged introversion and increasingly advanced technologies and predominance of social media which makes the internet more interesting then the world around us now. Because of this, you have a lot of introverted or ambiverted people in America who are trying to pass themselves off as extroverted. But whenever people try to be something they are not, you can tell, and they come off as a try hard.

I do notice, however, that this varies state by state. In the Northern Virginia area, or the general Washington DC area which includes Northern Virginia as well as Maryland... Extroversion is highly encouraged. In Florida, people are extremely extroverted. I have not encountered any state in America where random people will come up and talk to you as often as they do in Florida... For better or for worse. Everywhere you go in Florida you will find people out and about. The state seems to constantly be busy, at all hours of the day, every day.

Virginia, North Carolina, and West Virginia, on the other hand, are more introverted. Its almost like Japan here actually. There's kind of an implicit rule that bothering strangers is rude. There's more pressure to not make a scene when you're out in public then I've seen in other states. If you do make a scene, however, people will pretend they don't notice you doing it because there seems to be a feeling here that directing attention at people, even if they are making a scene and obviously asking for it, is impolite. People here don't go out as much as people in other states do and they seem to enjoy being at home more.

On one hand, this does make it harder to make friends and integrate into the community here... On the other hand, however, people in Virginia oddly are more accepting and less conformist compared to my experiences with other states. People here don't really seem to negatively judge people who are shy and reserved... Or if they do, its only a minor judgment as opposed to the harsh judgments I experienced in other states. Virginia is also more wholesome then other states, I never see disturbing things when I'm out in public here whereas you do in other states.

[MrPeabody]

There is this guy I know that has this same personality. He puts on a big pretense of being in control and has the outgoing extroverted fake personality. But he was born in the phillipines. The American personality seems to be very compatible with filipinos. That's why I prefer Latin America or even Muslim countries to find more real people.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

Don't expect to be friends with them because they got their clique of friends from childhood already since the first grade. It takes big amount of effort to break their ice wall. Unless you all are into American football and into mindless normie conformist cr@p..which I doubt any of you guys are.. you are sh*t out of luck making friends in America.

I agree that it is hard to meet people because they seem to have their own established clique of friends from school, but at the same time, I don't believe that you can't make friends in America. I have not really tried to make friends in America, but I am going to start talking to people in person to create my own social circle (because I have never had one).

I just set up and broadcasted LIVE on YouTube myself walking in Downtown L.A. and I plan to stream myself meeting people, forming a social circle, attracting virgin girls, etc. My goal is to prove that talking to strangers, making friends, dating virgin females, etc. is way easier than most people think, as long as you go out every single day and never give up.

I am aware of the reality that there are so many toxic people, but I don't believe that EVERY person is closed to meeting new people and making friends. Something tells me that people would appreciate meeting new people, if you have a good, real, authentic personality.

I live near the New York City, that's my experience so far. Just like your LA experience. Even if you think you made friendship with those City slickers and suburbanites, they still won't invite you to their home for a hang out. Same thing in Social Media. Even if they have added you as their friend, they still gonna ignore you, not reply to your chat and you have to meet them in real life and build relationship. This is a big catch 22, because they have a thick ice wall erected in real life. Social Media alone doesn't work either.

In contrast, people in countryside, the South, and the Midwesterners are more approachable. I am also willing to form a social group based on those people once I make enough money from my passive income and move down there and also their cost of living is much cheaper.

Or I can move to a cheaper country with hot women such as Lithuania or the Balkans. You should give Lithuania or the Balkans a try. Lot of hot women there. Russia is also good but they are under heavy sanctions and at war with the West.

[dancilley]

Don't expect to be friends with them because they got their clique of friends from childhood already since the first grade. It takes big amount of effort to break their ice wall. Unless you all are into American football and into mindless normie conformist cr@p..which I doubt any of you guys are.. you are sh*t out of luck making friends in America.

I agree that it is hard to meet people because they seem to have their own established clique of friends from school, but at the same time, I don't believe that you can't make friends in America. I have not really tried to make friends in America, but I am going to start talking to people in person to create my own social circle (because I have never had one).

I just set up and broadcasted LIVE on YouTube myself walking in Downtown L.A. and I plan to stream myself meeting people, forming a social circle, attracting virgin girls, etc. My goal is to prove that talking to strangers, making friends, dating virgin females, etc. is way easier than most people think, as long as you go out every single day and never give up.

I am aware of the reality that there are so many toxic people, but I don't believe that EVERY person is closed to meeting new people and making friends. Something tells me that people would appreciate meeting new people, if you have a good, real, authentic personality.

I live near the New York City, that's my experience so far. Just like your LA experience. Even if you think you made friendship with those City slickers and suburbanites, they still won't invite you to their home for a hang out. Same thing in Social Media. Even if they have added you as their friend, they still gonna ignore you, not reply to your chat and you have to meet them in real life and build relationship. This is a big catch 22, because they have a thick ice wall erected in real life. Social Media alone doesn't work either.

In contrast, people in countryside, the South, and the Midwesterners are more approachable. I am also willing to form a social group based on those people once I make enough money from my passive income and move down there and also their cost of living is much cheaper.

Or I can move to a cheaper country with hot women such as Lithuania or the Balkans. You should give Lithuania or the Balkans a try. Lot of hot women there. Russia is also good but they are under heavy sanctions and at war with the West.

I am going to meet people in real life in decent locations, and see if they will bond with me. If I learn that everyone is closed to building a friendship and bonding with me, I will realize that everyone is literally crazy here in the U.S. and will adventure to Eastern Europe (because I want to reproduce with white females). When I get much older, I may go to the Philippines and reproduce with filipinas. My main priority is to reproduce with white females, and it would be meaningful to me to marry a U.S. female, so I am going to stay here for a while longer. I think I am very attractive to females, so I still feel that I can attract a virgin, high-quality female here.