America= Saudi Arabia in Terms of Dating

[ladislav]

Before the war, if you arrive in the US after Ukraine ( or the Philippines), you immediately see that the place not a dating paradise for men. After you look around, you see these constants that the local men do not see because they are not travelers.

There seems to be more young men than young women everywhere in America.

There are way more good looking young men than good looking young women.

There are lots of overweight women. Younger and older.

The women don't dress well in the US. Plus, they dress like men. Also, very little to no make up. Lots of plane janes. And they act kind of masculine. Their voices are assertive and commanding.

The guys on the other hand look kind of feminine now. Their voices are "sweet" and kind of ingratiating - especially when they talk to women.
Lots and lots of guys do not have GF's. They are the leftover men. But they look stoic-like and look like they are persisting in their effort to one day have someone or something. They are taught that if they do not have a GF, it is their fault and they need to polish their social skills.

Pretty much every female in the US can get a BF just like that. No matter her shape. All the requirements in dating concern men, not women. You see women who would be number 2-3 in Ukraine with great looking BF's. WTF! And these women often have kids. And the guys who are with them look so happy. In Ukraine no woman like that would have a BF. Ever!

Meeting women is a sophisticated, complicated process because you cannot court them- they will report you for harassment. It is like Saudi Arabia or Iran basically ( no matter how ridiculous it sounds). Yes, you can be arrested for trying to pick up a woman in the USA.

In spite of all the rhetoric of the melting pot, American women prefer to date and marry American men ( as in born and raised). Or at least other Anglo men such as Brits, Canadians, Aussies, etc. Other immigrant men, foreign student men, etc do not as a rule have/can find American GF's. It happens but it is an exception. Again, reminds me of Saudi Arabia. In contrast, in Ukraine almost all foreign men, rich or poor get local GFs or wives.

There is a stranger danger in the US culture and general mistrust of a person one does not know and a taboo against talking with strangers. In Ukraine, and even in France, no such taboos.

Any kind of " study" like this gets shared, and I get labeled '' Anti-American" . Not an intention. Many things are great in the US, but it is not a man's paradise. The market conditions make it heavily skewed in favor or women ( and gays). But it can be a barren desert for men. Saudi Arabia 2.0, basically.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

@ladislav

Exactly! 100% on point!

I like to add that the U.S is also "Afghanistan" for men. Why?
Men have to be careful not to offend women, repress his sexual urges, one false rape accusation away from losing his career, social standing, and reputation, have to be politically correct, consider his wife or girlfriend as the "boss", stigmatized for watching porn, but his female counterpart acquire high body counts, encouraged to be transgender and be gay, always get totally gutted in divorce courts, 40% graduate in universities, no government subsidies and affirmative action program for men, very little social support for men, very little advocacy organizations for men, men die five years younger than women, no male role models or strong father figures, masculinity is considered toxic and male kids are given Ritalin and anti depressants, etc.

Men are the Taliban wife wearing the veil while women act like Taliban husband who acts macho and treat men like his possessions. Men's life is
like Taliban wife. Women's life is like Taliban husband.

This is YOU! Men in America! How your F*cking govenment and women sees you! Your just like them. Dethroned, No rights, Women's slave.

[ArchibaultNew]

Agreed, insightful observations. I am writing a similar thread.

[Corey_Bee]

Any kind of " study" like this gets shared, and I get labeled '' Anti-American" . Not an intention. Many things are great in the US, but it is not a man's paradise. The market conditions make it heavily skewed in favor or women ( and gays). But it can be a barren desert for men. Saudi Arabia 2.0, basically.

What is wrong with being Anti-American? The U.S. is a terrible country. No dating, no social life, horrible people in general (both men and women), working sucks there, everything is too expensive even if you're educated and work full time, etc. Even the entertainment is all woke brainwashing now. The U.S. is trash and there's nothing wrong with being honest about it. It's really a disgrace how bad the U.S. is and how we were lied to about it being the best country in the world and should be thankful for living in this shithole.

[Mercury]

Before the war, if you arrive in the US after Ukraine ( or the Philippines), you immediately see that the place not a dating paradise for men. After you look around, you see these constants that the local men do not see because they are not travelers.

There seems to be more young men than young women everywhere in America.

There are way more good looking young men than good looking young women.

There are lots of overweight women. Younger and older.

The women don't dress well in the US. Plus, they dress like men. Also, very little to no make up. Lots of plane janes. And they act kind of masculine. Their voices are assertive and commanding.

The guys on the other hand look kind of feminine now. Their voices are "sweet" and kind of ingratiating - especially when they talk to women.
Lots and lots of guys do not have GF's. They are the leftover men. But they look stoic-like and look like they are persisting in their effort to one day have someone or something. They are taught that if they do not have a GF, it is their fault and they need to polish their social skills.

Pretty much every female in the US can get a BF just like that. No matter her shape. All the requirements in dating concern men, not women. You see women who would be number 2-3 in Ukraine with great looking BF's. WTF! And these women often have kids. And the guys who are with them look so happy. In Ukraine no woman like that would have a BF. Ever!

Meeting women is a sophisticated, complicated process because you cannot court them- they will report you for harassment. It is like Saudi Arabia or Iran basically ( no matter how ridiculous it sounds). Yes, you can be arrested for trying to pick up a woman in the USA.

In spite of all the rhetoric of the melting pot, American women prefer to date and marry American men ( as in born and raised). Or at least other Anglo men such as Brits, Canadians, Aussies, etc. Other immigrant men, foreign student men, etc do not as a rule have/can find American GF's. It happens but it is an exception. Again, reminds me of Saudi Arabia. In contrast, in Ukraine almost all foreign men, rich or poor get local GFs or wives.

There is a stranger danger in the US culture and general mistrust of a person one does not know and a taboo against talking with strangers. In Ukraine, and even in France, no such taboos.

Any kind of " study" like this gets shared, and I get labeled '' Anti-American" . Not an intention. Many things are great in the US, but it is not a man's paradise. The market conditions make it heavily skewed in favor or women ( and gays). But it can be a barren desert for men. Saudi Arabia 2.0, basically.

You could hardly be more correct. A population of 73% men and 27% women. There is such a huge surplus of men that the presence of a woman that is single starts a bunch of shootings, fights, stabbings, brawls, and bodyslams amongst crowds of hundreds of men. In many cases, the only "leftover" women are women that are in fact supermorbidly obese, women even with massive glandular problems and even diseases like Prader-Willi Syndrome.

Courting women is a Federal felony that carries a mandatory sentence of 375 years to life in prison and/or the death penalty, and it's investigated by the FBI and by Homeland Security. Hence the only guys that get a woman in the USA are violent gang members, members of gangs like the Black Pistons, the Warlocks, MS-13, and the Four Corner Hustlers, guys that already did time in prison for other violent offenses, and are not afraid to get taken down by SWAT like a caught cop killer for asking a woman out on a date.

[69ixine]

You're the Best poster on this site.always succinct and detailed in intelligence.