Why do some people have to be left out of the dating market?

[vlkmo]

Why do some people have to be left out in this life from participating in the dating market and by proxy the most physically pleasurable sensation and reproduction system that God created. I wish God would just create a being for all lonely men right here and now like he did for Adam.

Imagine being teased and taunted during your whole existence with this and then when you think there is some hope, it is taken away for eternity. I know a lot of Christians say that we won't need or desire sex or sexual things in Heaven because we will be with Jesus and he is all we need or something. They just double down on that. I don't even feel spoken to and it makes me very uncomfortable because I believe the Christian Bible and the resurrection of Jesus to be true. I wish another Christian can at least listen and empathize. It doesn't matter if anyone invokes the excuse that we will not desire something anymore. It is still sad to be lonely and being left out of the "game" for some reason despite always having wanted to, no platitude will ever change the pain or feeling.

Many of these people are probably well-meaning, but it comes off as being judgemental sometimes.

[fschmidt]

It is God's punishment for these men not organizing a monogamous society.

[Epsilon99]

https://nopussynowork.org/investigation ... god-or-not

[vlkmo]

I think openly sexualizing and being vulgar with chasing after "p***y" as if it were some kind of object, or other stuff like that just makes the image of men worse.

[vlkmo]

I resent the fact that I am in my early 30s near the start of the Great Tribulation... which itself was planned before most of humanities existence.

[Winston]

This is a great question. I've been thinking about it for years. I've concluded that it's not about looks or money or even personality. Because even average looking men with a little money and a not so great personality can find wives in America, if they are destined to and the universe wants them to. Most couples marry and save up money together over the course of years, they don't get married because one is rich and the other is poor. Even your parents are like that if you ask them about it.

The thing I've concluded is that some men have a certain VIBE or energy in them that REPELS women and subconsciously tells women to reject them and treat them like losers and unwanted misfits. Since women tend to conform and have a hive mind and obey the matrix, they will do what the matrix tells them to. So if the matrix has designated you to be a loser and undesirable, the women will treat you accordingly because they conform to the matrix and do not have the strength to oppose it. It has nothing to do with looks or money or having a bad personality. Because you can be nice, kind and gentle and look decent, yet women will dislike you if the matrix has pegged you with the curse of being rejected by women. So it cannot be due to something simple like looks or money or even personality.

If you ask any married couple why they got together, they will tell you that "it just felt right". This obviously means that it was a script and they were meant to be together, not because of money or looks or personality, those are just icing on the cake. Even your parents will tell you that. If you think about it, this seems to be the way things are. It's mostly out of our control.

But that's not what people want to hear. People want to hear that life and destiny are controllable and that one can do things to make it happen and make life go the way one wants it to go. Hence why new age and self-help and the law of attraction and PUA sells, because it tells you what you want to hear, even though it's not true and mostly just false hope.

[Falcon]

The thing I've concluded is that some men have a certain VIBE or energy in them that REPELS women and subconsciously tells women to reject them and treat them like losers and unwanted misfits. Since women tend to conform and have a hive mind and obey the matrix, they will do what the matrix tells them to. So if the matrix has designated you to be a loser and undesirable, the women will treat you accordingly because they conform to the matrix and do not have the strength to oppose it. It has nothing to do with looks or money or having a bad personality. Because you can be nice, kind and gentle and look decent, yet women will dislike you if the matrix has pegged you with the curse of being rejected by women. So it cannot be due to something simple like looks or money or even personality.

Winston, you are 100% correct.

When I was in the 15-22 age range, which is supposedly when you're supposed to be in the best-looking, most eligible years of your life, I just totally repelled women into the friend zone during my years in the US.

I could easily make friends with plenty of girls, but I could never, ever go any further than that. You see your friends dating women, but you can't no matter what. You keep wondering what's wrong.

It was not about money. I was financially all right.
It was not even about my looks, which were perfectly fine.

Overseas, women literally absolutely could not believe that I could not get a girlfriend in the US because they thought I was perfect boyfriend/husband material.

[vlkmo]

https://www.epm.org/resources/2023/Jan/ ... s-desires/

Oh yes, I can relate to the man's post at the very beginning of this article but don't really care as much for the rest. He is saying what I am saying.

[galii]

This is a great question. I've been thinking about it for years. I've concluded that it's not about looks or money or even personality. Because even average looking men with a little money and a not so great personality can find wives in America, if they are destined to and the universe wants them to. Most couples marry and save up money together over the course of years, they don't get married because one is rich and the other is poor. Even your parents are like that if you ask them about it.

The thing I've concluded is that some men have a certain VIBE or energy in them that REPELS women and subconsciously tells women to reject them and treat them like losers and unwanted misfits. Since women tend to conform and have a hive mind and obey the matrix, they will do what the matrix tells them to. So if the matrix has designated you to be a loser and undesirable, the women will treat you accordingly because they conform to the matrix and do not have the strength to oppose it. It has nothing to do with looks or money or having a bad personality. Because you can be nice, kind and gentle and look decent, yet women will dislike you if the matrix has pegged you with the curse of being rejected by women. So it cannot be due to something simple like looks or money or even personality.

If you ask any married couple why they got together, they will tell you that "it just felt right". This obviously means that it was a script and they were meant to be together, not because of money or looks or personality, those are just icing on the cake. Even your parents will tell you that. If you think about it, this seems to be the way things are. It's mostly out of our control.

But that's not what people want to hear. People want to hear that life and destiny are controllable and that one can do things to make it happen and make life go the way one wants it to go. Hence why new age and self-help and the law of attraction and PUA sells, because it tells you what you want to hear, even though it's not true and mostly just false hope.

Wiston you can easily marry. Thousands of girls would like to marry to you but you play the princess and give them no chance because you think they want you for your money. But still you can get them but you do not want.

[WanderingProtagonist]

What I find so strange is that even cuckolds have wives now. That's what I never understood, on top of it all the women won't even drop them for the man they are exploiting and using to have sex with in front of their cuck husband.

[MarcosZeitola]

What I find so strange is that even cuckolds have wives now. That's what I never understood, on top of it all the women won't even drop them for the man they are exploiting and using to have sex with in front of their cuck husband.

Maybe the cucks have more money sometimes than the guys doing the cucking.

[WanderingProtagonist]

What I find so strange is that even cuckolds have wives now. That's what I never understood, on top of it all the women won't even drop them for the man they are exploiting and using to have sex with in front of their cuck husband.

Maybe the cucks have more money sometimes than the guys doing the cucking.

That could be it, but in this day and age it's easier for women to earn a lot more than their own men, especially
if they are doing the whole Only Fans thing and know how to market themselves very well. Most of these cucks
are involved with the whole porn scene so I would assume that most of those people aren't all that well off aside from
the few that do make fortunes off it from the vast majority of people that pay for their crappy stuff. Strange times.

[WanderingProtagonist]

This is a great question. I've been thinking about it for years. I've concluded that it's not about looks or money or even personality. Because even average looking men with a little money and a not so great personality can find wives in America, if they are destined to and the universe wants them to. Most couples marry and save up money together over the course of years, they don't get married because one is rich and the other is poor. Even your parents are like that if you ask them about it.

The thing I've concluded is that some men have a certain VIBE or energy in them that REPELS women and subconsciously tells women to reject them and treat them like losers and unwanted misfits. Since women tend to conform and have a hive mind and obey the matrix, they will do what the matrix tells them to. So if the matrix has designated you to be a loser and undesirable, the women will treat you accordingly because they conform to the matrix and do not have the strength to oppose it. It has nothing to do with looks or money or having a bad personality. Because you can be nice, kind and gentle and look decent, yet women will dislike you if the matrix has pegged you with the curse of being rejected by women. So it cannot be due to something simple like looks or money or even personality.

If you ask any married couple why they got together, they will tell you that "it just felt right". This obviously means that it was a script and they were meant to be together, not because of money or looks or personality, those are just icing on the cake. Even your parents will tell you that. If you think about it, this seems to be the way things are. It's mostly out of our control.

But that's not what people want to hear. People want to hear that life and destiny are controllable and that one can do things to make it happen and make life go the way one wants it to go. Hence why new age and self-help and the law of attraction and PUA sells, because it tells you what you want to hear, even though it's not true and mostly just false hope.

Well the whole PUA scene is dead anyway, some people might still be around promoting it.
But I feel it does depend on circumstances.