Tsar wrote:
Many men who are virgins get stuck with a women more experienced (essentially a whore)....
I think that
different levels of "experience" is an issue. I.e. a grizzled middle-aged guy who has "been there, done that" (or even a young playa who has "been there, done that"!) often doesn't mind if a girl has had a few long-term boyfriends. OTOH, a girl who has had a fling, or a ONS, is unmarriageable.
Experience in and of itself is not always sin. For example, the reason that a widow is different from a typical AW divorcee, is that the widow is not a proven bitch. The widow has experience, but she is not a slut. But I do agree that the young guy should stay away from that. Leave the widows to us grizzled types.
The reason I say that a few long-term relationships is not the same as ONS or hook-ups, is that it is normal for people past puberty to be atracted, and for the woman to fall in love, when placed in proximity. If a guy lets his daughter go out on dates in high school, then go away to coed college and live in a dorm, he has to understand that she will almost certainly choose a boyfriend and sleep with him. It's not her fault, it's the system.
This is why I always emphasize going after young women in a conservative religious culture living at home with family. Because they haven't yet been exposed to the dating culture. I don't look
down on late-twenties women who have had three or four boyfriends. I just don't think it's
okay, and I know she will never understand that, and I don't think she would understand how I want to raise and protect a daughter.
Calling her a whore is not right. Just a girl who has been out on her own, living life. But she is used, not new. Some guys do buy used cars, and enjoy them.
Tsar wrote:
...I have 99% odds of any girl I meet in America to not be a virgin.
Ask me what female celebrity or supermodel I would go on a date with I would say none. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with any of them because of my honor and pride. A girl can be hot and desired by millions of men, but if she isn't a virgin it doesn't matter to me. A girl needs both keys if she wants me to give her my heart and love. Just like poker, it's all or nothing.
You know what you want. This is Alpha.