This Quora article popped up in my feed and one of the responses is very interesting to add to our scientific knowledge of american women.
You know it's so funny how there's so much information about american women on the internet. And yet most men in America are still clueless about women in other countries.
I'm going to put a brief list of the main points we already know here:
1. Empowered (they believe they can do everything they want)
2. Unrealistic high standards (when the cost of a country goes up, the women get worse)
3. Spoiled
4. Ease of getting what they want (due to america giving them everything)
5. They know they have too many options.
Due to all the above, they may get what they want, but they'll never be satisfied.
This comment by Todd is perfect:
Because they are lunatics, and absolutely no one will stand against an irate woman in America.
It all starts with fathers giving in to their daughters every whim. I have a sister, I am a devoted brother to my sister and love her as a brother should, but she is a temperamental force of nature that can not be restrained. Shaming does not work, scolding does not work, punishments from parental or authority figures to not work, the laws of cause and effect simply do not penetrate her mind.
Now apply this scenerio on a nation wide scale. The “culture” of doting on daughters (Because this is very much culturally embedded) creates an adult population of women who expect to be treated by their husbands as their own fathers did. Maybe some of these adults who never grew up benefit from the efforts of feminism and gain actual power, position, or prestige. Suddenly you have high powered men dealing with these forces of nature, and no more certain how to manage them then their own daughters.
So you end up with an unofficial policy of “Never shame, never engage, never argue”. You just give in to them, on a societal level, and let them argue whether walking around mostly naked down the streets has any relation at all to skyrocketing unplanned pregnancy rates, or rage against being shamed by faceless Internet trolls over eating a desk full of Oreos (Because who would dare tell them that to their face?)
In short, American women are undatable because they always get their way, yet are never satisfied by anything.