Then why do they refer to themselves as ''branco'' in Brazil but when they get to the states they are no longer white?I have heard them try to say they are not white also which is funny when some of them look so white you would assume they are a white American.I speak fluent Português also but i am a Black American.In Philadelphia if they hang out with anyone who is not Brazilian in the states most of the time it is Hispanics. Go to any Hispanic owned bar in northeast philly it will be full of Brazilians on the weekend as well as Mexicans and Dominicans(it is funny to watch them try to talk to each other)But this is only because Brazilians are not as established in the states as Hispanic but i doubt you will see them hanging around Spanish speaking spots like this in Brazil if such places existed there.WPO wrote:You're dead wrong about that. They see my light brown skin and long curly hair and accept me as one of their own. Some have even made the assumption that I am brazilian. It is the americanized ones who are really dippy and judge a book by its cover. Although the americanized are cliquish and prefer badboys (many of them lived here most of their lives), they would rather speak to me than someone who has no connection to someone latin/hispanic. They're like the german woman I used to see all the time... you'd never see her around white guys. They don't give a damn how much money you have/make. The gym I work at is chok full of them. There's even a brazilian steak house down the road. They are very sociable and feel more comfortable with other portuguese speaking people. If I spoke fluent portuguese (I speak only a little), they'd swarm me like I just hit the game winning home run. Even the americanized ones would want to speak to you. The only difference with the americanized brazilians are that they're just like black american women... cliquish and full of $hit. Sorry bro. That's the way it is. Action speak louder than words. I witness and endure it every work day.skateboardstephen wrote:Brazilian women are the worst when they get to the states especially the mixed race or white ones.And they can be racist also against blacks or anyone darker for that matter.Brazilian women stick to Brazilian men they date out if the man is white and rich.The only black men i have seen that got Brazilian wives had to go to Brazil.Brazilian women in the states get an over inflated ego because to many people kiss their asses for nothing especially Hispanics while most Brazilians look down on Spanish as an inferior language and have no interest in Hispanics for the most part.WPO wrote:No thanks. Not only going abroad to find a real woman (or women), but experiencing different cultures/atmospheres. Another world in that matter. Think of it: getting away from the uptight, rude, hypocritical, always in a hurry to go nowhere type crowd and witness parts and sceneries of the world you never saw before. My father (who's been around the globe) and everyone else say the same thing: If you get a chance to travel - DO IT. My father says that if it weren't for his family (he was in his 20s then), he would have stayed overseas. Well, I have plenty of family here.... But I'll be damn if I come back! The fact that females outnumber males in foreign countries and will treat you well, ask YOU out on a date (imagine that), won't kick you to the curb for an a$$hole, actually answer the phone when you call her, down to earth, moralistic, feminine, physically fit even into their 60s...... America will become a thing of the past.royaldude wrote:you should consult with a lawyer who is aware of the legal situations your foriegn wife could present. for instance preups can be overturned because the wife didnt understand or was pressured into it. so what you need to do is hire a lawyer for you and a lawyer for her and a translator even if she speaks good english and also a retired judge and someone to film the whole process. also you shouldnt do this before a wedding date has been set. also even if you do all that and she decides to leave you could be on the hook for paying for her social welfare. ive heard this could be up into the 6 figures. but im not an attorney so talk to a good one and find out what you willl owe if things go badly.
ps there are lots of illegal and foreign women on green cards in the us. you can date foreign women in the us you dont have to leave the country to find them.
Although there are a lot of foreigners here in the states, finding one who isn't americanized is mission impossible. Quite a few brazilian women where I work at are very attractive. most of them have beautiful bodies, but they're approachable as a rabid wolverine. There was one I tried to speak to (32 years old) who said she's lived here since she was 7. I almost ended the conversation right there! Making a long story short: she gave me her number which I found out was bogus. A week later, she asks for some personal training (what audacity). I give her my information, what store to go and when to meet me so she can start her first session. The number I gave her was my cousin's work number (he's a detective and swat member of the police department!), the store I wrote down has been out of business since 2005, and I don't work on saturdays! If I'm gonna hook up with a foreigner, it's going to be in a foreign country.
btw, the "white" brazilians do not refer themselves as white. They'll correct you immediately if you ask them.
They are polite and sociable yeah if you can break into their circle but from my experience they will socialize with me to a certain extent and usually it is just because they wanted to learn English.The Brazilian men in America i have met were cool as hell but i got a different vibe from Brazilian women in America for sure.
They seemed to all ways assume a Black man is interested in them sexually(especially if they are white) which kind of ruins a lot of potentially good conversation.I had one white Brazilian women almost tried to insinuate that i was making a pass at her and she was eight months pregnant and we were in church!
Even Brazilian men say the women act different when they get to the states.I know a Brazilian girl very attractive who is Pardo.Married a rich white guy i swear this girl is so Americanized and this girl does not have a single friend of color.One time i saw a Brazilian friend of mine i said whats up to him he had a Bunch of Brazilian(white) girls around him conversing as soon as i came over all three of the girls just up and left.The Brazilians i get the most love from are Afro-Brazilian from my ficance's family.
