newlifeinphilippines wrote:Jester wrote:newlifeinphilippines wrote:
I dont want to live in singapore its very expensive and I wouldn't be happy there it looks like a miserable place that is very far from my family. my online income is iffy at best although good. I need to retire asap.
Sorry I havent fully understood the situation. Thought you were a lonely, high earning keyboard warrior, content to live in Asia.
Saigon could offer VN chicks plus cheaper than Singapore. But being close to USA loved ones adds another issue.
I have the same issue, BTW.
Dont understand about retire soon. If you mean income drop expected, that again is a major constraint.
If you care to post requirements, constraints and desires in a list, we could take a stab at it. There is always a best path.
my income situation is complicated. im not sure the residency requirements for singapore but i wouldn't look for a wife unless i was "retired" and well see if i can do that with my situation.
Actually id prefer to live in america with a wife its just im scared she will divorce me. If i "divorce" i can't afford to lose my retirement lol at least in phil they dont have divorce and they seem more loyal but that may change. Maybe when my parents are too old i might also not be able to live in asia either for that reason which concerns me. I dont like the idea of being halfway around the world from them. there is a lot of unknowns. and with a mail order bride you would imagine the divorce rate might be high cause you dont have much time to know them.
OK so you want to settle in the USA, and import a wife, from a docile slavegirl culture, that doesnt believe in divorce?
Are those the constraints?
Sounds like any 18 year old from the Phils or Indonesia will work. She wont have a degree, wont have a career, wont want to leave you. Indo might be better than Philly, she will have no expat-bitch-network in the USA to pry her away from you. NON-English-speaking, no TV or smartphone, thats what you want.
If she has a friend who wants to live on the beach in Baja, PM me a pic.
BTW, the house next door to me is available for sale or rent.
BTW, Not sure why you're afraid of divorce?
If the fear is financial, two ideas:
(1) the obvious - prenup
(2) siphon some income to a new Belize IBC (offshore company). Or maybe a HK company, if you're there in person to open it. You will actually pay MORE taxes, but perhaps the income will no longer show on your form 1040 (US tax return). I do NOT know for sure that this will work (more research needed), but might give you an accumulated aftertax stash that a foreign bitch's lawyer wouldnt know to look for. Dangerous stuff though, divorce papers require disclosures.
(3) Stash money in a Singapore metals storage outfit. Not a bank or financial account, not reportable. Enjoy your life, if all goes to hell, you have a stash to start over.
If the fear is regarding kids in a divorce situation, thats harder, I have no easy answer. But the RIGHT answer is to be willing to toss her out at the first sign of backtalk or other issues. (Unless corporate punishment can solve the problem.) Then, when the dust settles, your kids will respect you. Divorce is like an amputation. Or vomiting. If you're going to have to do it, do it sooner.
If the fear is falling in love and then getting hurt, consider it a practice of svadharma, duty... practice your manhood, toughness. Make it a daily game to make her fall in love with you. So SHE is the one crying when you break up. Samurai code: resolute acceptance of death. Living each day like it is the last. Not an evil thing, she will enjoy the ride.
Oh and one final thought. If you go to Malaysia, and fetch yourself a Christian bride in Kuching, they travel visa-free to Mexico. You can live in Baja near US border, no visa necessary, stay forever, noone checks. No entry to USA needed, thus no K-1 needed, thus no on-the-books-marriage needed. Yet you can drive or bus to US and take a plane from San Diego or LAX to see your family.
"Well actually, she's not REALLY my daughter. But she does like to call me Daddy... at certain moments..."