F.UCKING THANK YOU! Somebody else gets it!!!!!! #NoSexualPunzboy1 wrote:Yes, learning Chinese will definitely help expand the scope of girls you are dating; I had to break-up with some, because of the difficulties associated with the language barrier...KokujinKrusader wrote:I've been going out a lot with locals, trying to learn the ropes. This is not like Japan where you could get by with English; here, you are expected to speak Chinese, or at least I am.
The people here have been generally nice. I get a few "you don't belong here" stares, but for every one of those, I get a "welcome to China", and even some stares of interest, and smiles. My lack of Chinese and confidence makes it hard to approach though, and I don't want to misconstrue anything and ruin what few good thoughts they may have had about me.
Also, if you don't want to deal with the more 'Westernized' Chinese females--who usually speak good English--then you will have to learn the language, in order to meet more traditional, and less 'Westernized' Chinese girls.
Most Chinese girls dating foreign men, are either the highly-successful, highly-educated, well-traveled types (who have been overseas to countries like the USA, many times), gold-digggers, hoes, or the more 'Westernized' Chinese females. In order to meet Chinese women who don't fall into those categories, then you need to be fluent in Mandarin.
Umm zboy1? Ummm, sex/intimacy is the universal language that everybody understands, so did you bang them before you broke up due to the language barrier? I had some Thai rice and Thai CO.CKroaches that were thick with some protein crunch that were curious about me, too lol