I have had whole classes of female students in love with me - and they've told me that this is the case - I have had whole classes give me a round of applause because I am handsome If you're interesting and make them laugh and connect with them as a class, it isn't hard for your students to fall in love with you in China, in China, their teachers are still held in very high regard, ask any Chinese person about their favourite teachers and they will tell you who they are and how much they love them.xiongmao wrote: ↑May 20th, 2012, 7:13 amI'm sceptical of stories about any foreign English teacher who can't score in China. One of the Chinese girls I met confessed to me that she was in love with her English teacher. I'm sure half the class were - it's very common. OK so she wasn't a model, but she was good enough.
I don't really know who to believe online. I once belonged to a board where one of the members faked his own death .
I have had female students give me gifts and going away presents and big hugs - their love is very much genuine but you can't actually date them because they would run a mile despite the fact they love you very much - they love the fantasy of it, the reality of it would be a huge loss of face amongst their peers and it would cause NO END of problems. That and they know the teachers are men who want things like sex, even if they are physically women, their minds are like children - they're kids emotionally and they couldn't handle an adult relationship with their teacher - or a lot of them couldn't.
I knew of two teachers who serial dated their students and they had problems ranging from disobedience to Chinese male students trying to fight them - I would never ever do it but if a teacher wanted to date a student then wait until she graduates - dating them and dating them whilst you're still teaching them? Absolute f***ing madness.