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Heres an interesting question....who would be harder to get?

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Heres an interesting question....who would be harder to get?

Post by uncertain » November 10th, 2011, 2:18 pm

In south east asia (yeah i know there are many south east asian countries but I'm talking in general) which one of these hypothetical women would be HARDER to get (as far as serious long term relationships or getting married goes):


- 30 years old
- out of shape (overweight)
- below average looks
+ middle class
+ no kids
+ does not require a potential boyfriend to support her


+ 21 years old
+ decent shape
+ above average looks

- lower class
- no kids
- requires a potential boyfriend to support her

What would the difficulty margin be?

If it depends on the country....please elaborate.

Elaborate any further if you feel you need to.

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Re: Heres an interesting question....who would be harder to

Post by lavezzi » November 10th, 2011, 4:07 pm

I've never been outside the West so my opinion is only speculation based on what I've read here and from going on dating sites. But the answer to this question seems pretty simple. I've luckily found myself involved with a female who has all of the positive attributes of Girl A and Girl B and none of the negatives.

Who would be harder to get? Without question, Girl A by a mile. However, this is not because she would be less interested but because she would be much harder for a foreigner to find.

As for who would be more interested, I think it would depend on your financial capabilities. If you were financially insecure or even broke, but had a strong connection and shared common values with her, Girl A would want to be with you and would be in a position to be so. Whilst Girl B would also want to be with you, but as her financial needs will always come before her romantic needs, she would be forced to look elsewhere.

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