Thai women have become more selective :(

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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

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When Philippines birth rate gets to 2 kids/woman that's I predict you'll have a difficult time finding a Filipina girlfriend. That could happen in 10 years. Almost every country that has low birth rate is shit for meeting women.

You have an interesting theory here. But I think a more accurate depiction might be: The more Westerners there are in a country, the harder it will be to land a foreign girlfriend. I think that many years ago, when some of these Asian countries were a new frontier, many Asian women were curious about Western men simply due to the fact that they were exotic and rare. For example, as recently as 15 years ago, many Japanese women would wet themselves if an average white guy simply looked their way. That doesn't happen now. Nowadays, Western men are a dime-a-dozen, and the "exotic" factor has largely been removed. I think a large part of it is that the rarity of something makes it seem more valuable. So,if you're lazy, and not into either game or competing tirelessly with western men who are higher up on the food chain than you are, maybe you should think about going to a country with less white American men, where novelty alone will still allow you to get laid without putting in "herculean" amounts of effort.
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Bane wrote:When Philippines birth rate gets to 2 kids/woman that's I predict you'll have a difficult time finding a Filipina girlfriend. That could happen in 10 years. Almost every country that has low birth rate is shit for meeting women.

You have an interesting theory here. But I think a more accurate depiction might be: The more Westerners there are in a country, the harder it will be to land a foreign girlfriend. I think that many years ago, when some of these Asian countries were a new frontier, many Asian women were curious about Western men simply due to the fact that they were exotic and rare. For example, as recently as 15 years ago, many Japanese women would wet themselves if an average white guy simply looked their way. That doesn't happen now. Nowadays, Western men are a dime-a-dozen, and the "exotic" factor has largely been removed. I think a large part of it is that the rarity of something makes it seem more valuable. So,if you're lazy, and not into either game or competing tirelessly with western men who are higher up on the food chain than you are, maybe you should think about going to a country with less white American men, where novelty alone will still allow you to get laid without putting in "herculean" amounts of effort.
There's basically 5 factors that determine your success with women in most countries. This won't help you in the middle east.

1. Your a racial minority
2. Your a foreigner
3. Your taller than most of the men
4. The country your from is wealthy
5. The country your visiting is poor(below middle class)

In Thailand, I'm sure its still easy to get a girlfriend for now. However, I seriously doubt the long term success rate of these relationships is very high. Its a know fact 55% of Thai women cheat. In addition, their famous for cutting the penis off their boyfriends. It's no surprise the birth rate in Thailand is low. Who's going to marry them?

Women chain themselves to whatever gives them the most money and security. As a result, in western countries working women worship their jobs(money) so much they quickly lose interest in getting married and having kids unless the guy has a higher paying job than they do. Marrying a guy with a higher paying job than they have is called "love". Western women might get married but they rarely have more than 2 kids because it means they can't go shopping 7 days a week. It's no surprise the birth rate in western countries is low. Who's going to marry them?

Korean Women Prefer Career To Family
http://www.asianews.it/news-en/Korean-w ... -7829.html
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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

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taco is there a study on if poor women divorce less? or if uneducated divorce less? Although im sure the studies would apply to american women. wish there were a study on independant feminist asians vs poor in each country. For example whats the divorce rate for a rich filipina or korean vs the complimentary poorer.
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newlifeinphilippines wrote:taco is there a study on if poor women divorce less?
Yes, there is study from China that was done. Shanghai is a very wealthy has one of the highest divorce rates in China . When Shanghai men married Shanghai women the divorce rate was high. However, when Shanghai men married women from poor Chinese provinces the divorce rate was low.

In the US the opposite trend occurs. The highest divorce rates are found in the poorest states. Make no mistake, women from middle class and wealthy families are the most demanding.

Ten Cities With The Highest Divorce Rates In China
http://www.echinacities.com/china-media ... s-in-China
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Taco wrote:Yes, there is study from China that was done. Shanghai is a very wealthy has one of the highest divorce rates in China . When Shanghai men married Shanghai women the divorce rate was high. However, when Shanghai men married women from poor Chinese provinces the divorce rate was low.
Perhaps Chinese girls are very pragmatic? A poor country girl will be very glad to get married to a rich Shanghai man, and her options are a lot less. A rich Shanghai woman doesn't technically NEED her man for anything, she's likely from a richer family, better educated... she feels like she has more options, so does not try to keep her marriage as much as the poorer woman would. She also did not grow up with the more traditional and conservative provincial mentality... instead she has a rich princess city girl mentality. It's a world of difference.
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
Taco wrote:Yes, there is study from China that was done. Shanghai is a very wealthy has one of the highest divorce rates in China . When Shanghai men married Shanghai women the divorce rate was high. However, when Shanghai men married women from poor Chinese provinces the divorce rate was low.
Perhaps Chinese girls are very pragmatic? A poor country girl will be very glad to get married to a rich Shanghai man, and her options are a lot less. A rich Shanghai woman doesn't technically NEED her man for anything, she's likely from a richer family, better educated... she feels like she has more options, so does not try to keep her marriage as much as the poorer woman would. She also did not grow up with the more traditional and conservative provincial mentality... instead she has a rich princess city girl mentality. It's a world of difference.
It doesn't really matter why. Just know, women from countries or cities with a high divorce rate and a low birth rate have "issues".
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Taco wrote:It doesn't really matter why. Just know, women from countries or cities with a high divorce rate and a low birth rate have "issues".
Noted, and very true.

Either way: if you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem. Us HappierAbroaders should do our part in keeping the Asian birth rates high! :wink:
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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

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I think if you dont want kids then marriage or even a really long term relationship is probably a bad idea. Cause you just wind up wasting a womans life for no reason cause most want theme ven if they pretend they dont.
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