Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.
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Just out of curiosity, how conservative are Chinese women? I am used to Latinas now so I am accustomed to escalating the physical stuff on the first date. With Latinas, you always kiss them on the cheek when you see them, even if it is your first time meeting them. Then you hold their hand the entire date and almost always french kiss before the first date is over. Sex should be expected within 3 dates or so, and often happens on the first if you're going out for drinks on a weekend night. PDA is very common in Latin America, yet I've heard it is frowned upon in China. So what's the deal? Can anyone give me some insight?
Most Chinese girls are still conservative, but the ones who chase foreigners tend to be very 'loose' morally. Remember, China is still a socially conservative country, so it's totally different from, let's say, the U.S. or Europe.
You can still get one night stands, but, like I said before, most girls won't do that. The ones who look primarily for foreigners will do it, but they're not the type of girls you would want to marry anyway.
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I think distracted or preoccupied is a better description. Getting a boyfriend comes after school and making money. This is an unusual scenario where hyper capitalist greed has indirectly preserved the chastity of many young Chinese girls.
Very conservative because they are controlled by their parents for a long time. Plus as Drealm said, the culture preoccupies them with school and work. I think they would still be conservative without those distractions, however.
Most Chinese girls are not accessible for foreigners. And it is not true that China is becoming corrupted by the West. Most of the beautiful, conservative, marriageable girls are in cities most foreigners there will never go to, plus most of them would never date foreigners because they and/or their parents wouldn't even consider it. With Chinese women, convention says that if she is starting to be affectionate with you, it's very serious. As in, on the path to marriage level of serious. Most of the accessible women to foreigners are in Beijing, Shanghai, and other major cities; the problem is these women are much less conservative and are much more open to foreigners as a result.
China ain't for newbies or those looking for easy mode when it comes to wife-seeking. Mongering...stick to p4p, go for worthless Beijing/Shanghai sluts (if you can get them), or have blue balls.
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