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This one is going to be interesting, LoL.

Post by momopi » March 23rd, 2010, 2:28 am ... count=3186

I live in Beijing and my Chinese wife is absent much of the time. She has offered me the opportunity to find a woman to sleep with me (and sometimes us). She has presented me with two candidates but I did not like either one. Of course we’d pay the girl, house and feed her, etc and she’d have to perform some other services as well, like housekeeping. Now, I want to do some “recruiting� of my own! I think fellow members might have some thoughts that could help me and us.

Now most of the BBS girls and WGs here must be recruited from their villages and small towns. A friend of mine even met an Australian guy in HK who claimed to be a “recruiter�. I would like to find a recruiter, or a trusted mamasan or papasan who can help me in my search. I know my wife would prefer a young girl, who has been trained in how to please, including massage but is not yet a WG.

Can anyone introduce a “recruiter�, or a mama or papa? Does anyone have any thoughts about if this can work?

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Post by pete98146 » March 23rd, 2010, 3:16 am

Call me old fashioned on this one but if I'm in that guys shoes I would make every effort to save face and tell his wife that it's ok that she is often out of town. It's a good opportunity to reinforce that he loves his wife and cannot imagine being with another woman. It almost seems that when his wife gets actively involved in finding him a bed mate, it's a trap. If he agrees, then you lose face and his wife's respect for you will plummet.

Man this is a sticky subject. I would probably go out and get laid on occassion but just smile, keep it on the lowdown, never admit to it to his wife (just like many wealthy Asian men do it).

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Post by Repatriate » March 23rd, 2010, 8:33 am

You realize this woman is probably pure trash? This sort of suggestion definitely isn't something that's typically done in Chinese culture at all.

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