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Interesting you've been told by the girls that they don't like the bar. I asked many about that and while they weren't necessarily enthusiastic about their work, most seemed to say it was "ok". Furthermore, the most consistent answer I get from bargirls, including many Manila/makati bargirls was that they actually like having sex if they like the customer.
I've read that for many bargirls , particularly the ones that come from the province, that the bar life is exciting to them compared to the boring existence in the countryside. Many guys say that the bargirls like the lights, action , and party atmosphere in the bars. They like the attention they get from guys and like meeting different guys from all over the world. And considering my fiancÃ© chose the bar over me, well, kind of supports this notion. I am very surprised that you've had many girls tell you they don't like their work. Some did tell me they didn't like it but mire than half seem to say it's ok, or so so. Hmmmm.
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Well, the atmosphere in AC is more or less benign. The girls are dancers for the most part. They are not forced to sleep with men and are free to come and go as they wish. A sizable percentage are virgins- certified by the doctor. They even have ID tags with a letter V.
Now, things are a bit different in Manila where they get so much money deducted for make up and things that they will not make much if they do not have sex or at least go out with customers.
A huge number of girls working in the AC bars are separated with kids. Many enjoy a roll in the hay for money with a customer they like and can tell the ones they do not like to go fly a kite.
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