- She was friendly and actually made intelligent, interesting conversation about world events, economics, and history. This put her ahead of 90-95% of American students, both graduate and undergraduate, who barely understand how their own Congress works, and think Dow Jones is some guy with a weight problem.
She actually took an interest in me as a person and asked direct questions of my background, experiences, and knowledge. Again, this put her ahead of 90-95% of American students, who seldom show curiosity about others beyond superficial questions.
She dressed better, looked better, and acted more feminine than the vast majority of American women I've seen or met (a big number). In demeanor she's gentle and friendly; without even my realizing it, I felt that being more chivalrous around her was the right way to be. I know that almost any American woman reading this would freak out and call me a chauvinist pig. Well, I've already noted she's smarter and more worldly - so her mind is superior too. And guess what? She's not so insecure that she's constantly trying to prove to me how smart she is (something I try hard not to smirk at when it happens, because my idea of a smart woman is Madame Curie, not Oprah), nor slinking away from a direct discussion of anything beyond fashion, food, butts, or boobjobs.
She was respectful of my time and generosity, and did not take it for granted. Respect encourages mutual respect.
And I'm beginning to think that a country without women worth fighting for is doomed to implode on itself. Given the historical precedents, this process has already begun...