traveller wrote:It's very sad. Apparently a lot of guys are told that women are the same worldwide. As if women are naturally gold digging, paranoid wild creatures and even as if it were International law that a man have a palace as big as lower Manhattan, a luxury stretch limousine as big as an Amtrak, a 25 figure annual income, a luxury superyacht as big as the Titanic, and the ability to take a woman on even 55 posh luxury world cruises in a row for a honeymoon before he shall even think of getting into a relationship.
Also sad too is that many men are brainwashed into believing that World War II is still raging in every single country in the world outside the USA and Canada, and that they'll get blown right to smithereens by an aerial bombing run before making it to a hotel, or they're told that the hotel would get blown up by a military air raid. Or they are even told that every single country on Earth outside the USA and Canada is a Nazi dictatorship. As if the entire Earth outside the USA and Canada were owned, operated, and run even by North Korea.
Going overseas and making a living, and living amongst a different culture takes a lot of balls and get up and go. You are there on your own with no safety net. There is also the very real probability that you may not want to live in that culture, or with someone of that culture. Certainly I found that. Many people do well overseas but still want to come home for various reasons: culture, weather, family, raisng kids in their culture etc.
The other thing is that you can't just go and live in a country. To get in you must come with money to start a business, have a job offer, a skill that they want people for etc. You have t be able to sustain yourself and show that to the authorities.
Of the reasons you list, do you believe people really think that, or are they just making excuses for their failure to act?
I think women have many traits in common world wide, but the social constraints and cultures regulating their behaviour vary tremendously, hence they appear to behave different.