The funny thing about "status" is, if you don't have it, women in America want nothing to do with you! However, if you do have "status" women will be all over you like flies on shit! The pickup artist "Mystery" says, a man's status is very important for women! He tells guys to NOT go out to bars and clubs with guys who are "undesirable types" (meaning guys with low status, like guys who are ugly or overweight, or don't dress fashionable).J.Adama wrote:There's something else though. Making someone an outcast allows for people to increase their own status.
If you feel you can push someone out of the group and make them an outcast, then you must somehow be above them. You are better because you can keep them out. Those people you pushed out are flawed. You are better than them.
Making others outcasts automatically increases your own status. So people start looking for opportunities to make others outcasts, especially those who dont fit the mold.
In particular the people with the lowest self esteem are the ones who go about hunting for people to ostracize the most. They are the ones who barely fit in themselves, just the others are too afraid of them to kick them out of the "in-group."
In other words, the act of ostracizing others itself is a way to gain social status. It also serves a dual purpose for those who are naturally full of hate.
I think many men can outgrow this by the time they are 25 or so. Whereas most women will be stuck in this social construct nonsense forever, even in their retirement homes there will be cliques of cool people and those untouchables.
He says, women need to see you in public with "high status" male friends (and of course, you need to be "high status" yourself). It's a shame that women in America can only see men in light of whether or not he has "high status." Welcome to the dating scene in modern day America!