What's really going on with Asian women?--Black women

[zboy1]

Haha...looks like Asian men are not the only ones that notice the behavior of Asian women and their self-hatred:

http://www.lipstickalley.com/f244/whats ... en-366111/

Black female forum:

I was trying out a new nail salon getting a manicure and began talking to the lady. I told her I was single and she said there was a guy there and pointed to a hispanic looking guy. He was half italian/half asian though she said. She kept saying "he's half italian", the other guys here in here (the rest asian like her) she said were short. but it was her whole attitude behind it.

Since I've been in college I keep meeting Asian women who say to me "I've only seen myself with a White guy", or "I don't even find Asian men attractive". I'm a black woman, mind you, so no one else think it's weird that 99.9% of the time I have Asian women ( when we discuss men & dating)tell me that they don't find Asian men attractive?

Hey, it's none of my business but at the same time I have to wonder. I thought they faced less racism than we do, what's behind the obvious self-hate?

Nothing is technically wrong with interracial dating but when you have a race of women who typically prefer to dog out their race of men and prefer a different race, one has to wonder.

Are they dealing with something that we as black people are not seeing? Do they merely want to be white and have white kids? or do they really just not think that Asian men are physically attractive compared to white men?

I just want to add that it doesn't have anything to do with us as blacks, but as a black woman with all types of friends, which includes alot of Asians, I have to wonder and wanted to discuss. I think it's weird for them to be so open with saying how they don't find their race of men attractive. I mean the country is indeed majority white but I'm at the point now where I'm a little uncomfortable, although I know to expect it now. Sometimes I have to defend Asian men when around them and tell them of good experiences I've had with them as friends and what I've seen from them in relationships. I've even had several Asian women who were married to an Asian guy ( like Vietnamese, Japanese or other) say they wish they had married a White.

It gets weird after a while. I would never confront one about it but I wanted to discuss, preferably with fellow black people. Are they dealing with something that we are not seeing?

I tend to agree. People talk about black men and some of them definitely have self hate issues, but I find Asian Women to be the absolute worst. So many of them seem to think that they HAVE to date a White man. Something is up when 45% of Asian women in the US are married to White Men. I can't tell you how many times i've been outside and seen Asian women with White men and the way they act with them it's just pathetic. They act like they have some huge prize. I've even heard Asian men complain that Asian women are too into White men.

I remember one time seeing an Asian lady and her White husband at a restaurant and it was just embarrassing the way she was acting with him. Fawning all over him. She was cutting up his food for him. Putting a napkin on his neck. Stirring his drink.She was treating him like he was a helpless child. I'm suprised she didn't burp him too! lol

I don't have a problem with IR dating, but I do believe Asian Women have a self hate problem. Otherwise, I don't see why so many of them date White Men and why so many feel the need to be with White men.

I think it's a status thing for them probably, but it's sad really

Anyways, once my best friend (the Chinese one) threatened to punch this Filipino girl in the face. The Filipino girl was with a white guy who kept staring at my girl. She was ignoring it. The Filipino girl tried to come over and say something. Long story short my friend spit in the girl's face, told her to come closer so she could punch her in the face. And then they were separated from one another. The other chick looked scared.

asian women would date a white man that treats them like shit

i dont understand the asian man small dick thing because white dudes have small dicks too

alot of white guys ive talked to told me they couldnt compete with blk men in that department thats y they stayed away from blk females

I think a lot of them have self esteem issues. Always dating ugly ass men of other races... rarely on their level physically. They almost always assimilate to the American culture and abandon everything Asian about themselves. I've noticed that Asians as a group seem a little lost.. Theres no cohesive defining culture. A lot of them Join other culture rather than create their own. I think in the next few years we'll see a rivalry between Asian and white women. Its not gonna be pretty but as a black woman I'll enjoy it.

This is so true! I thought black men dogged out black women (and black women dogged out black men), but we have nothing on Asian women dogging out Asian men! It was unsolicited too.

I actually feel uncomfortable when my Asian roommate dogs out Asian men. Another roommate and I have actually stuck up for Asian men. It was just weird to me, because I never criticize black folks as a group unless I'm with other fellow blacks. I also find it weird (and suspect) when someone refuses to date their own race. The finest, sweetest Laotian/Laotian-American dude could be wooing my roommate, and it wouldn't phase her at all.

Damnnn....some brutal observations about Asian women from Black girls on this forum. And they're sticking-up for the Asian men against the Asian women that act like this...Hmnnn...Maybe I should think about dating Black chicks for real--if they're this loyal to their men....I love it!

Though, some of the Black females are dissing the Black men that act like 'Asian females,' LOL.

[zboy1]

Some more comments:

Black men who think that Asian women are submissive will be in for a rude awakening! Hell, I live in a neighborhood surrounded by 95% Asian/Asian-American people and I've yet to meet a submissive Asian woman.

Well, the couples I come across are usually older men 60's, and younger AW 30's.
A lot of these men don't have anybody or their wife has passed so they "pay" for women overseas.
Usually, the women can't speak English well and the man pretty much buys everything she wants.
As for younger Asian women they do hook up with some unattractive white dudes.

White supremacy has hit black people the worst, but some Asian people got it bad too.
Assimilation, status, and money are big factors (I'm not saying all these couples are like that, either).
The irony is that as a person of color our genetics dominate, so I'm sure to those who marry so their kids will look like "Brad Pitt" is outta luck

Yeah, up until high school I was around primarily blacks. A few year when I was very young it was mostly whites. When I first started having conversations and an Asian female would say that to me I wouldn't care, I just figured they wanted to assimilate. Me being black also, I didn't think it was any of my business. But after a while and over many years of experiencing it and opening myself up to hanging out with any people I find to be cool ( which includes alot of East Asians I meet ) I keep experiencing it to the point where it's just dang weird to me.

and yeah, me being a black woman, I find it weird that they so openly are willing to spend a whole 10 - 15 minutes talking about all that is wrong with Asian men and all that is wonderful about White and European men. Asians seem more accepted in this white supremacist society we live in but geez, they sure have alot of self-hate/white supremacy issues.

In America, it seems most women want white men except Black women(we all know why that is). It is not just Asian women. Once Hispanic women go to college or become Americanized, a lot of them marry Anglos. Look it up if you don't believe me.

That may be in some parts of the country but when there are Hispanic men on college campuses and around, I see plenty of Hispanic women with Hispanic men. In conversations with Hispanic women of all different nationalities and races only a RARE few have expressed this God-like vision of White men. Some have included White men in the men they like to date but I would say Hispanics and Indians when their own are around, tend to date their own group when they can - in middle class, college educated situations is what I'm referring to.

Yeah but black women wanting light kids is not as prevalant as Asian women thinking they should marry and pro-create with a White Man. Black culture has evolved and we have had no choice but try to be proud and embrace ourselves. Asians are seemingly more accepted, so the blatant self-hate and rejection of Asian men is odd.

Yup, the white guys they are with 80% of the time tend to be the really geeky/extremely unattractive ones. Asian women/white men couples tend to be extremely unattractive. Not always but by and large.

Yes. I remember when my ex friend (who happens to be asian) and I was having a conversation about guys and I had made a statement like "you're probably used to asian guys" and she corrected my ass with the quickness. She said. "Hell no I don't date Asian guys. I've only been with white guys." First I side eyed her ass. Then I laughed and asked how come you don't date Asian guys? She said they are controlling and she don't find them attractive." I said "oh."

Her parents are white though. Maybe that's why she have views like that.

Yes. I remember when my ex friend (who happens to be asian) and I was having a conversation about guys and I had made a statement like "you're probably used to asian guys" and she corrected my ass with the quickness. She said. "Hell no I don't date Asian guys. I've only been with white guys." First I side eyed her ass. Then I laughed and asked how come you don't date Asian guys? She said they are controlling and she don't find them attractive." I said "oh."

Her parents are white though. Maybe that's why she have views like that.

I think asian women date out the most. I would be mad as hell if I was an asian man.

White men stay winning. And they are always going to win in the end. As long as they have EVERYBODY thinking that the more white you are the better, they will always win. Always.

[zboy1]

i see it all of the time... even all of my asian girlfriends refuse to date asain men - and they find it weird that I love asain men. my first was viet.

but i cant stand how people try to make it seem like only BW get upset over IR dating. clearly that is not the case.

but hey, as long as you need a scapegoat

And I especially love this one exchange:

An Asian women tries to slag off all Asian men as 'abusers and cheaters,' but this one Black women is not buying it!:

I'm Vietnamese and I don't have any self hatred towards Asian men. My ex was Laos and he was very physically abusive. My other ex was Vietnamese and he cheated on me less then 24 hours of our relationship. All of my (6)aunties married Asian men and now there going through divorces. They can be abusive, chauvinist, and cheaters. Thus, changing the ways I view Asian men in general.


Most Asian men are not attracted to me because I'm not "petite" compare to native Vietnamese women. I'm 5ft4 and weigh 125 LB. I'm average size in America, however in my native country it would be more ideal to be a stick figure.

Currently, I only date whites, Hispanics, and mixed guys. I just find them more attractive.. It is a "Preference" thing. If i'm attracted to you, then i'm attracted to you, thats what it is. You can't force someone to be attracted to a certain race.

I love facial features of other races, It is exotic in my eyes... I would love to have mix babies some day, nothing wrong with interracial dating. My friend is black and she only dates Hispanics. I see nothing wrong with that because it is a "preference."

Asian women look for financial security because we want the best for our future generation. I look for someone who can provide me medicine, food, shelter, and good looking kids. Love can always develop later.. Ofcourse, i need to be physically attracted to someone in order to love them.

I just don't understand how you can judge and swear off all Asian men based on TWO men. Just on those TWO experiences. There are plenty of Asian American men who are nothing like your exes. Have any of your non-Asian boyfriends done you wrong? I feel like if some of your white or hispanic boyfriends cheated on you or acted abusive towards you, you would still give white and hispanic men the benefit of the doubt as a whole.

I Love it!!!

[Repatriate]

Yeah it's not surprising. I've had other minority races point this out before and how pathetic it is. Refer to my lengthy post about this mentality. The black women's observations are pretty accurate but they don't even know the half of it. These asian american women are royally f***ed in the head.

That's why I prefer to distance myself from the whole term "asian-american" I like to think of myself as more of a citizen of the world or a "repatriate" hence my nickname. I don't think I owe any loyalty to this group of people or Americans in general and definitely not for what a lot of them stand for which is blind conformism, lack of identity, lack of soul. Let's face it Americans already lack social identity and culture in various ways. Asian-Americans tend to be even more of a black hole in this regard.

[Repatriate]

Asian women look for financial security because we want the best for our future generation. I look for someone who can provide me medicine, food, shelter, and good looking kids. Love can always develop later.. Ofcourse, i need to be physically attracted to someone in order to love them.

BINGO! This asian-american woman is admitting what I said all along that it has much more to do with extreme hypergamy and status than anything else. All the asian women who trusted me enough to spill their guts and insecurities admitted this was the primary reason.

That's why these women predominately date white guys by such a huge margin over any other non-asian race. Looks is a tiny factor to all of this. It's status.

[zboy1]

Asian women look for financial security because we want the best for our future generation. I look for someone who can provide me medicine, food, shelter, and good looking kids. Love can always develop later.. Ofcourse, i need to be physically attracted to someone in order to love them.

BINGO! This asian-american woman is admitting what I said all along that it has much more to do with extreme hypergamy and status than anything else. All the asian women who trusted me enough to spill their guts and insecurities admitted this was the primary reason.

That's why these women predominately date white guys by such a huge margin over any other non-asian race. Looks is a tiny factor to all of this. It's status.

Yes, here's another horrendous story from an Asian guy about an Asian women that dissed all Asian men in front of laughing White people:

http://www.hey-ai.com/forum/35-frequent ... s?start=50

Real life situation I have been in:

(At a party with lots people including non-Asians)

Asian American girl: "I don't date Asian guys"

Non-Asian people: "Huh, why the hell not?!" [clearly thinking this is strange]

Asian American girl: "Because Asian guys are all short and nerdy"

Non-Asian people: [Some slight laughs ]

Asian American girl: "And they all have really small penises!"

[Crowd erupts in laughter, with the Asian American girl leading the way]

Asian American girl: [Uses her thumb and index finger to measure 1 inch] "Yes so tiny!"

[Everyone laughs even louder, all the white women look at me mockingly assuming I have a 1 inch penis, cause hey, who better to know the truth about Asian guys than Asian women right?]

I stand there absolutely humiliated, shocked and feeling like I want to cry from embarrassment. All the white girls there look at me laughing, clearly with absolute derision. I know what they are thinking. Some white guys pat me on the back and say sarcastically "It's ok buddy, size isn't everything"

The Asian girl joins all the white people and I sink into the background with my confidence and self esteem in ruins. The white girl I had just met before and was having a good conversation with quietly moves away from me and starts talking to other people. All the other girls, White and Asian, subtly ignore me for the rest of the night, and I am implicitly excluded from the group.

I came to the night in my best clothes, spent hundreds of dollars on the latest fashion, styled my hair well, and was hyped up and ready to meet all the pretty girls (even the Asian ones). I was full of confidence, my game plan was primed and ready. And then what happens?

The Asian girls pull out the small dick jokes, all the white girls laugh and think I'm not worth shit, my game plan is destroyed and I get completely exterminated from the nights dating scene.

After getting sick of being ignored and not having the face to approach any of the girls who laughed at me, I slip away to the bar, no-one cares or even notices. I down shot after shot of vodka to compensate myself for an appallingly disastrous night. Instead of leaving with some beautiful girls ready to party into the morning as I had hoped for, I head home in misery and despair.

Then in a cruel ironic twist of fate, I spend the rest of the night mindlessly playing computer games to pass the depressing time, the very nerd stereotype I had tried so hard to get away from and convince everyone wasn't true.

As I down some more whisky and slump onto the couch ready to fall into a deep sleep and forget the pain, I picture the most likely scenario, all the Asian girls probably left the party with white guys. And here I am, sitting by myself at home pussyless, knowing I will never see any of those girls at the party ever again.

But then I realise, the night and my game plan which I had prepared for battle with so much strength, determination, confidence and motivation had not been annihilated by a cataclysmic event, or by a series of major defeats my many powerful adversaries, but by one sentence and one woman: THE ASIAN WOMAN.

What a f***ed-up story! What race of women would slag their own race like that to gain approval from White people...sigh.

[Repatriate]

That's a pathetic story. He must hang around idiots because i've been in environments mixed with asian/white girls and they never did that shit. Btw, one white girl tried to make a small penis joke at a friend's party (back in college) and my Japanese-American friend straight told her that he would whip it out in the bathroom and put it in her mouth and she could judge for herself. She was so stunned she shut the f**k up. Later they made out.

This guy is a p***y for letting it get him down like that.

[OutWest]

Haha...looks like Asian men are not the only ones that notice the behavior of Asian women and their self-hatred:

http://www.lipstickalley.com/f244/whats ... en-366111/

Black female forum:

I was trying out a new nail salon getting a manicure and began talking to the lady. I told her I was single and she said there was a guy there and pointed to a hispanic looking guy. He was half italian/half asian though she said. She kept saying "he's half italian", the other guys here in here (the rest asian like her) she said were short. but it was her whole attitude behind it.

Since I've been in college I keep meeting Asian women who say to me "I've only seen myself with a White guy", or "I don't even find Asian men attractive". I'm a black woman, mind you, so no one else think it's weird that 99.9% of the time I have Asian women ( when we discuss men & dating)tell me that they don't find Asian men attractive?

Hey, it's none of my business but at the same time I have to wonder. I thought they faced less racism than we do, what's behind the obvious self-hate?

Nothing is technically wrong with interracial dating but when you have a race of women who typically prefer to dog out their race of men and prefer a different race, one has to wonder.

Are they dealing with something that we as black people are not seeing? Do they merely want to be white and have white kids? or do they really just not think that Asian men are physically attractive compared to white men?

I just want to add that it doesn't have anything to do with us as blacks, but as a black woman with all types of friends, which includes alot of Asians, I have to wonder and wanted to discuss. I think it's weird for them to be so open with saying how they don't find their race of men attractive. I mean the country is indeed majority white but I'm at the point now where I'm a little uncomfortable, although I know to expect it now. Sometimes I have to defend Asian men when around them and tell them of good experiences I've had with them as friends and what I've seen from them in relationships. I've even had several Asian women who were married to an Asian guy ( like Vietnamese, Japanese or other) say they wish they had married a White.

It gets weird after a while. I would never confront one about it but I wanted to discuss, preferably with fellow black people. Are they dealing with something that we are not seeing?

I tend to agree. People talk about black men and some of them definitely have self hate issues, but I find Asian Women to be the absolute worst. So many of them seem to think that they HAVE to date a White man. Something is up when 45% of Asian women in the US are married to White Men. I can't tell you how many times i've been outside and seen Asian women with White men and the way they act with them it's just pathetic. They act like they have some huge prize. I've even heard Asian men complain that Asian women are too into White men.

I remember one time seeing an Asian lady and her White husband at a restaurant and it was just embarrassing the way she was acting with him. Fawning all over him. She was cutting up his food for him. Putting a napkin on his neck. Stirring his drink.She was treating him like he was a helpless child. I'm suprised she didn't burp him too! lol

I don't have a problem with IR dating, but I do believe Asian Women have a self hate problem. Otherwise, I don't see why so many of them date White Men and why so many feel the need to be with White men.

I think it's a status thing for them probably, but it's sad really

Anyways, once my best friend (the Chinese one) threatened to punch this Filipino girl in the face. The Filipino girl was with a white guy who kept staring at my girl. She was ignoring it. The Filipino girl tried to come over and say something. Long story short my friend spit in the girl's face, told her to come closer so she could punch her in the face. And then they were separated from one another. The other chick looked scared.

asian women would date a white man that treats them like shit

i dont understand the asian man small dick thing because white dudes have small dicks too

alot of white guys ive talked to told me they couldnt compete with blk men in that department thats y they stayed away from blk females

I think a lot of them have self esteem issues. Always dating ugly a** men of other races... rarely on their level physically. They almost always assimilate to the American culture and abandon everything Asian about themselves. I've noticed that Asians as a group seem a little lost.. Theres no cohesive defining culture. A lot of them Join other culture rather than create their own. I think in the next few years we'll see a rivalry between Asian and white women. Its not gonna be pretty but as a black woman I'll enjoy it.

This is so true! I thought black men dogged out black women (and black women dogged out black men), but we have nothing on Asian women dogging out Asian men! It was unsolicited too.

I actually feel uncomfortable when my Asian roommate dogs out Asian men. Another roommate and I have actually stuck up for Asian men. It was just weird to me, because I never criticize black folks as a group unless I'm with other fellow blacks. I also find it weird (and suspect) when someone refuses to date their own race. The finest, sweetest Laotian/Laotian-American dude could be wooing my roommate, and it wouldn't phase her at all.

Damnnn....some brutal observations about Asian women from Black girls on this forum. And they're sticking-up for the Asian men against the Asian women that act like this...Hmnnn...Maybe I should think about dating Black chicks for real--if they're this loyal to their men....I love it!

Though, some of the Black females are dissing the Black men that act like 'Asian females,' LOL.

All this talk about "what Asian women are doing" and then the description goes on to talk about
what Asian women are doing in the USA, as if that had much to do with what is actually happening
in the world. News flash: Asian American women at like most other American women...self absorbed, and they mostly suck. Some tiny tiny fly-speck of the world's Asian female population lives in the USA,
and they are certainly not typical. Otherwise abroad, some tiny speck of the female Asian population
will ever have any kind of relationship with a non-Asian man, and fewer still will marry a foreigner.

The Philippines is one of the more accessible Asian countries and yet even there, within a country of
some 95 million, only a few thousand will marry a foreigner in any year. With other
Asian countries, the number is even smaller. These are not statistically significant numbers.

So dudes, don't like what and how Asian American women behave? Join the club- American
women in general are not up to much...kinda reminds me of white trash complaints about how
"Those black folk are taken all our wimmens..."

Good God...welcome to the social shit-pot that America has beocme, get off your duff
and go someplace that is different.

Outwest

[zboy1]

I will be in China this fall, OutWest. I hope to enjoy myself while I'm there, so thanks for your advice.

And what's wrong with me discussing issues related to Asian American men on this forum? See..that's the problem with some White people in general, is that they get upset when Black or Asian men discuss issues related to their own communities. Your not Asian, so go post on topics where you as a White male can feel more comfortable at...

I like your posts, OutWest, but your attack is not warranted in this case...

[Repatriate]

I kind of agree with Outwest here. Read my original asian-american woman post for f**k's sake. Read it and review what I said in there. Asians are only like 4% of the U.S. population out of that 4% even fewer are real asian-americans. Maybe only 1.25% are actual asian-american women and not recent asian immigrants. It's statistically insignificant to the bigger picture.

[Repatriate]

I will be in China this fall, OutWest. I hope to enjoy myself while I'm there, so thanks for your advice.

And what's wrong with me discussing issues related to Asian American men on this forum? See..that's the problem with some White people in general, is that they get upset when Black or Asian men discuss issues related to their own communities. Your not Asian, so go post on topics where you as a White male can feel more comfortable at...

I like your posts, OutWest, but your attack is not warranted in this case...

I don't think he's getting upset he's just saying that it's pretty irrelevant to the bigger picture. Zboy I do notice that you beat yourself up over stuff like this a lot when you should be traveling more. It's good that you are getting out there soon it will be healthy for you.

[zboy1]

I kind of agree with Outwest here. Read my original asian-american woman post for f**k's sake. Read it and review what I said in there. Asians are only like 4% of the U.S. population out of that 4% even fewer are real asian-americans. Maybe only 1.25% are actual asian-american women and not recent asian immigrants. It's statistically insignificant to the bigger picture.

I've read that thread and it is very enlightening, Repatriate.

Sometimes I feel the need to vent, so until I get to China, I will have to annoy you, OutWest, and Kai with my posts, LOL. Seriously, though, I love everyone here and I'm glad there is a place on the Internet for men like me to write about things like this...Also,it is helpful to post threads like this so that new members can come-in and get educated!

When I'm in China, I promise to write more positive and substantial things about my life. I'll write lot more posts about my travels throughout Asia instead of posts about Asian American women.

[Teal Lantern]

What a f***ed-up story! What race of women would slag their own race like that to gain approval from White people...sigh.

One who is smart enough to want to keep "her race" of men available as a fall back plan.
The insult is intended to reduce competition.
She's doing her part to ensure that while she's out trying to snag a blond, blue-eyed, trophy-wallet,
her white counterparts (Becky & Heather) aren't sneaking in the back way grabbing up "her own" (loyal, provider) men.

Snatch Wars: "These teenie-peenie males aren't the husbands you're looking for.
Move along. Move along."

C'mon Z, you should be able to figure this type of thing out.

[Repatriate]

What a f***ed-up story! What race of women would slag their own race like that to gain approval from White people...sigh.

One who is smart enough to want to keep "her race" of men available as a fall back plan.
The insult is intended to reduce competition.
She's doing her part to ensure that while she's out trying to snag a blond, blue-eyed, trophy-wallet,
her white counterparts (Becky & Heather) aren't sneaking in the back way grabbing up "her own" (loyal, provider) men.

Snatch Wars: "These teenie-peenie males aren't the husbands you're looking for.
Move along. Move along."

C'mon Z, you should be able to figure this type of thing out.

Even though you're being facetious there is some truth to this. Asian american women can be brutal cockblocks if you're out and about gaming non-asian women.

[OutWest]

I will be in China this fall, OutWest. I hope to enjoy myself while I'm there, so thanks for your advice.

And what's wrong with me discussing issues related to Asian American men on this forum? See..that's the problem with some White people in general, is that they get upset when Black or Asian men discuss issues related to their own communities. Your not Asian, so go post on topics where you as a White male can feel more comfortable at...

I like your posts, OutWest, but your attack is not warranted in this case...

LOL...you do not seem grasp the essence of what I write. And by the way, can you imagine how
silly it would be for me to tell you where you can and cannot post, and to go post someplace
where Asian men were more comfortable? LOL That takes a lot nerve.

If you read my other posts, you would see that I am more aware of anti-asian male
racism in the USA than most people. I have spent more than 10 years living in Asia, married to
a great Filipina, and I have two Eurasian Children. No, someone with my
background could NEVER have any insights into Asian American race relations or anything like that!

My consistent theme is that Asian-American men consistently underrate themselves,
in part, due to the onslaught of racist attitudes in the USA. I consistently meet Asian-American
men who are educated, classy, refined, and all around good men, and they have been
beaten down within the USA to where they think they have to settle for leftovers.
For those men, the reality is that most American women are not worthy of them.

At least you are headed to China, and hopefully will add a few places to that.
What I say is not an attack, it is a friendly kick in the ass in general. So toughen up your skin a bit and
encourage your Asian American friends to dust off their passport as you are doing. Asian American
men should not settle for second-best, but just get out more to get a better grade of women. I suppose a first step in that direction is to recognize that you deserve better than most of the women in the USA.

Asian American men I talk with often have this deep sense of inferiority within the American context
due to the brainwashing they receive in the USA. Those who spend significant time abroad can
begin to see it in context.


Outwest