pete98146 wrote:Jester wrote:pete98146 wrote:.....If you are a selfish, stuck in your ways type of guy chances are you'll never be comfortable abroad. I'd even venture to say 60% of American men will never be happy living overseas.
Sure women are a dime a dozen overseas but once you land one, then what? Dating foreign women and living abroad are two very different and distinct topics.
What kind of man thrives overseas? (I mean living there permanently.)
What are the characteristics of men who permanently adjust to living in SEA, Japan, FSU, South America etc.?
Sure it helps to have independent money, learn the culture, learn the language. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm curious about personalities, temperament, upbringing, etc. What are the traits of a man who will crash and burn overseas? What are the traits of a man who will take to it like a fish to water?
And what is different about the men who will succeed in FSU, Asia, Latin America?
We know the women are there, waiting for us to bust a move. But life is more than women. Whos hould go? Who shouldn't? Who should go to SEA, who to LA, who to Eastern Europe?
The guys that take to living abroad are ones that actually take interest in the people, culture and language. A perfect example is a guy like Ladislav! He's an absolute sponge who tries to soak up as much about his new country as possible. Guys like him KNOW there are obstacles and frustrations but they soon learn to jump over the hurdles. They don't bitch or moan instead they adapt.
Remember the first time I went to Thailand. I was getting a haircut and and the owner (absolute knockout) of the salon had her nephew visiting her. He was around 8 years old and was going to join a soccer league. His shoes were falling apart tho. After my haircut I went over and spent $10 to buy the kid a new pair of shoes from a sidewalk vendor. The little kids eyes we as big as saucers and I had a friend for life...lol. Everytime I walked by the salon I stuck my head in to say hello and the owner would be beaming with a pretty smile. No longer was I Joe Farang but I was Peter the good guy.
So I'm convinced it's all about attitude. You can choose to get out, meet people and get involved in their community or you can sit in your apartment and be a self absorbed grinch. Guess which guy is going to have the most fun overseas??
Well here is what I'd like to know. If I go to Thailand to live am I going to have the problems I have in the USA?
You see, obviously I'm different from all of you. I have to fight all the time in the USA, it's a never ending battle for me. People in the USA do not like me, they are jealous of me and hate my guts, and as such they f**k with me all the time. So I either have to just ignore them or bust their teeth down their throats. I have always opted to bust their teeth down their throats.
What I would like to know is if I'm going to get f***ed with constantly like I am in the USA? Are the Thai guys going to hate my f***ing guts and want to f**k with me?
Because I can just tell you now that if that were to happen my life will come to an end in Thailand, but I will go ballistic and kill every mother f***er that I can take out on my own.
I have had enough of this f***ing bullshit for one lifetime.....
The USA is the biggest joke country to ever exist, it's the most unfriendly fake country and it's people are all retards and assholes and freaks beyond description.
Like these guys from Oklahoma, I mean seriously, these people are fat, they are stupid beyond belief, they are punks and freaks and assholes beyond belief, I hate their guts, and they being American and me being American are two different things. They are freaks of the world, they are not human beings, they hate hate hate, they love war, they love killing, they are ignorant and stupid and fat and dumb and ugly and mind boggling f***ing retard mother fuckers.
Obviously the government has been f***ing with these people, and dumbing them down, and making them inbreed, and putting something into the water or whatever, but these people are horrible rotten human beings.
I cannot live around them any longer or I'm going to go postal and take people out.....
It's really that simple....
So the question is, am I going to get f***ed with in Thailand?
Because seriously, you guys do not understand, and I'm sorry about that, but if I were to go to Thailand, and some cops tried to extort me, what do you think I would do? Sissy out? Pay their extortion? ROTFLOL.....
I would easily take their guns away from them and kill each of them very very easily, no problem whatsoever.....
I'm afraid this world is not suitable for me to live within....
Signed,
Devils Advocate