chanta76 wrote:mrbluelight,
Which asian countries did you go to?
I think it depends on the asian country and the quality of the white guy. The wealthy Asian country like South Korea and or Japan ...not so much. The poorer Asian country like the Philippines yes so much that any white gy has some advantage.
I am actually Asian American but have white expat friends who I hang out with with. I have been to China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan with my white friends and we have all been using the same online dating strategy that we've found to be optimal. Note, I am a young and tall Asian guy with good style and have done modeling in the past, so I wouldn't consider myself to be lesser of a looker than my white friends.
What I've found is that my friends tend to attract sluttier girls, while those same girls won't respond to me. While I tend to attract more relationship oriented girls. How do I know this? In one of the dating site we use, there are hundreds of personality profile questions members can answer. The girls who respond to my friends all tend to answer the sex questions in more promiscuous ways, while the girls who responded to me tend to answer those questions in more...prudish ways. For my friends, they can often get girls to meet them straight to the hotel on a first date, whereas for me, my dates all insist on going on "real dates" for dinner or at the cafe. So at least for online dating, some of the "sluts" who responded to my friends positively were closed off to me. I think when Asian girls go online looking for fun and not relationships, they are generally looking for white guys.
The advantage for me is that I have access to a larger pool of women due to my understanding of the local culture and being able to speak Mandarin. Being connected to the culture, I get introduced to high quality relationship oriented girls who my friends can't find on online dating sites or bars and clubs.
Based on mine and my friends' experiences, white guys have easier time getting sex. The girls that I met were less eager to jump into bed with me than the girls my friends met. However, Asian guys do have deeper access of the mating pool for girls looking for relationships.
I will be visiting the Philippines soon, being an Asian American, I wonder if I would get sex as easily there as white guys do