Updates from Winston's Return to the Philippines!

[Winston]

Update:

Wow im dating this 21 year old girl now! Shes into me and wants a real relationship. Wish you could see our photos. She looks so sweet, pure, genuine, humble, relaxed and down to earth. Wow!

I like her vibe. Its so easygoing and feminine. And her face and body are so young and attractive. Shes only 21. So fresh. Lol

I felt so comfortable around her. Her vibe was soothing. And i felt physical attraction for her too. Wow what a combo! Comfort and attraction! Bingo!

Note: i posted some of our photos in our HA facebook group. If youre a member there, you can see them now.

[pete98146]

He says thinking about negative things becomes a habit and inner drama that loops in your subconscious mind constantly all day and night. He says that i need to do happy things like sing and dance and have a routine where i balance positive activities with a little negative activities too. Not just focus on negative things like fear and paranoia from conspiracy theories, which you cant change or control anyway. He says most forum members are hopelessly lost into negativity to the point of no return and that the forum has become a toxic place.

I would agree with this bit of advice wholeheartedly. My brother is REALLY into talking about New World Order and the Illuminati and while it's interesting, I purposely limit myself to this fascinating topic because I feel it puts a real dent in my soul!

Another topic that is starting to get to me is my friends endless Democrat vs Republican diatribe. It's especially annoying if you are a Libertarian like myself finding yourself not aligned with either party. But I log into FB almost everyday and I read these incessant posts about why their party is so much better. To me, it's annoying and taxing to my psyche. So my New Years Resolution was to mute such friends regardless of how close they are to me.

The older I get, the more I desire to have positive though processes and yes, I think it manifests into being a happier person. Also, never forget that women LOVE LOVE LOVE "happy go lucky guys." Few women that I know want to sit down and talk about world events. If that is your passion, save it for a few of your guy friends and break it down over a few beers away from the women.

[chanta76]

Winston,

Am I missing something...what happened to your chinese girl friend? I thought you wanted to stay in China...now your back in the Philippines. I mean you had a whole thread about how the Philippines suck.

[jamesbond]

Congratulations Winston, she is very pretty!

[Winston]

Marcoszeitola,
Wow how did you embed the photo from facebook like that? I couldnt find a way to do it. Can you do the same and embed the rest of our photos that i posted to the facebook group?

Chanta76,
Dont you remember? I was unhappy with my chinese girlfriend. I wasnt into her. I felt no attraction for her and no chemistry either. I was just going through the motions and pretending. I couldn't even perform in bed with her cause i couldnt get it up for her. I hated that. Lisa was the one i had feelings for but she bailed. The one after her i didnt. I mentioned that in the china update thread. My 2015 ended on a bummer -- i lost the girl i loved and got a girl i didnt. So sad. Rather than go back to that again, i ran away to philippines this time where i knew id have some fun and see old friends again, in an environment where i am more in my element.

[chanta76]

Winston

Not to change the subject but how is your relationship with your son since your back in the philippines.

[egghead]

I didn't read much in the thread, but this winston guy must be pretty hard to look at

No. My photos are public on this site. Havent you seen them? Im ok looking, just fat with pot belly. Wow how did you get a hot wife like that in the Philippines? She looks better than 99 percent of the wives that expats here get.

After reading summary of Cuba from http://culturewhiz.org/destinations/north-america/cuba I decided to email them about the Philippines. I got an advance copy of their guide to the Philippines and used it to build a circle of friends. It didn't take long before I started dating the hottest chicks around.

[egghead]

[I'm not not a very good a looking man or in great shape but that doesn't seem to matter much in the Philippines!

My wife



In America I was just another undesirable guy with a job fixing wheelchairs

That's a real cutie you've got there, congratulations! Where is she from? Did you meet via a dating site?

You're not bad looking, just a bit out of shape. If you live in the Philippines on a diet of fresh fish, fruit and vegetable, you would lose 10/15 Kg in 6 months, guaranteed.

One more thing: consider that intention is very important when dating a Filipina. If you make it abundantly clear that you're looking for a long-term relationship leading to marriage, your chances to find a decent looking girl with a good heart and serious intentions will be multiplied! Age, looks and pocket depth no longer matter.

I wish you and your wife good luck!

Thanks bro, she is from Pasig City. We meet at a business dinner. A mutual friend introduced us.

It's crazy, but she actually loves my fat rolls and turkey neck

[egghead]

You know whats funny, every single guy who says he would never sleep with a prostitute, when they come to angeles city, cannot resist the urge to give in, and they inevitably barfine someone. Ive seen this many times. Even a christian guy i know who came to angeles eventually barfined someone while i barhopped with him. Happens every time. Even with guys who swear that having prostitutes and whores and bar girls is beneath them, will barfine one when the massive temptation is there in an adult disneyland like angeles city. Lol.

When the irresistible temptation is there, they make an excuse like "what the heck, lets do it just this once" because the trouble with temptation is that you never know when it will come again, as they say. Lol. No guy is gonna resist cheap sex with hot young girls no matter how principled or moral he is. Lol.

Even one of my close advisors here, whom i wont name, when he first came to angeles and said hed never barfine anyone, eventually did and told me "im just barfining her to talk, thats all, not for sex". Lol. Uh huh. Right. Lol.

What this means is that i bet that even you guys who claim youd never have a bargirl, if you just spent two days in angeles city, could not resist the urge to barfine someone or take advantage of the scene. Id bet money on it. They may say theyd never do it publicly, but when they are actually here in angeles, they will cave in and do it. Lol. Im serious. Every guy does, including the types who take the moral high ground against it. Lol. Happens every time.

What I find even funnier is that, in a country where if you don't chase tail, tail chases you, a man would have to resort to barfine girls in a seedy strip joint in Angeles city. I have never been to Angeles and doubt I will ever be there (unless I pop to the Clark area for business, as they have lots of IT parks there), but during the time I am in Davao or Manila, I see men of literally every shape and size with decent to cute, sometimes hot, girls. Said men may be young and handsome to decrepit and totally out of shape, short and tall, meaty and masculine or skinny and ephebic.

Why would anyone have to pay for an hour or two of sex with a young woman who doesn't care about them in the slightest, apart from when they're pulling the pesos out of their wallets?

Yes, it might be true that most Angeles girls are single moms from the province and are simple-minded enough to be able to show (or fake) some genuine interest and fun when in the punter's company. Yet, like in a movie, one pays the ticket, exercises suspension of belief and have some fun for those couple of hours. Then they get back to reality, where vampires and Narnia don't exist, cops aren't as fit 'n' handsome as Channing Tatum and the girl next door doesn't look like Emma Stone and ain't single.

I'm not not a very good a looking man or in great shape but that doesn't seem to matter much in the Philippines!

My wife



In America I was just another undesirable guy with a job fixing wheelchairs

I'm going to have to agree with everyone else. She is very cute. Okay, now we need you to spill the beans. I'm sure many of us are curious how you met. Did you meet her through a filipina dating site or did you first meet her while living or visiting the Philippines?

Thanks man, no interest dating sites for me. It's much better to build an offline circle of successful friends. That's why I stay away from sites like this. Too many negative people.

[publicduende]

Thanks bro, she is from Pasig City. We meet at a business dinner. A mutual friend introduced us.

Which is one of the things I have been saying all along to the esteemed gentlemen of this forum: Filipinos are friendly, gregarious and inclusive people, but the best of them won't give a foreigner any credit just because he has a Western passport and has turned up. For women, indeed for people in general, worth meeting and keeping as friends (or more), respect, affection and love must be earned. In case of the Philippines, not dissimilarly from Cuba and other Latin American cultures which share the same Spaniard imprinting, this is done by developing and nurturing male friendships with Filipinos, better if educated, well connected and middle class. Once that is done, access to girls of comparable quality becomes not only easy, but natural. It is naively believed that only Filipino women will try to set a single man up with their friends. Men do that too, and with the same kind of frivolity.

I understand that most people cannot go to the Philippines for more than a couple of weeks a year and do not have time to build a social circle. Still, a lot of them seem to expect the "full monty" of a hot, non-dumb girl who has financial independence and is a devil in bed, to basically fall into their laps within days from their arrival. When they fail to get what they expect and achieve, at best, sex with one or two of the many cash-hungry sluts, they go on about the Philippines being a primitive country full of semi-illiterate people who deserve every bit of their misery. That is unfair not just towards the Philippines, but against themselves, as they will have sorely missed out on what that country could have given them, if only had they put a little upfront "social investment".

Perhaps as your nickname suggests, you have put some thoughts in your actions and, as it happens in the Philippines, you have been handsomely rewarded. Exceptions abound but, in the end, one always reaps what they sow.

It's crazy, but she actually loves my fat rolls and turkey neck

Which is to say that Filipinos love any kind of pale-ish mole-less skin, no matter how gravitationally challenged LOL

[Winston]

Marcoszeitola,
Wow how did you embed the photo from facebook like that? I couldnt find a way to do it. Can you do the same and embed the rest of our photos that i posted to the facebook group?

Oh it's easy, you just go to the Facebook group photo's, click on the picture, click "open picture in new window" and then copy and paste the URL here with the image tags. Surely you can figure it out.

Here's some more pictures of your plain ol' self with your latest conquest...







How's your relationship progressing, anyway? Update us on your latest adventures. I should be in the Phillies in another month or so. Enjoy livin' la vida loca.

I tried to do that with facebook many times but it doesnt work anymore. It used to work but facebook seems to have disallowed embedding of its images. Also if you remove the URL part after jpg then it doesnt even show the image in a new tab. Strange. How are you able to do the same yet get it to work? I must be missing something. Isnt this new girl Angela so maganda? Lol.

[Winston]

Insider secrets to share with you all!

One of my new italian expat friends in angeles city, introduced by billy, told me a great secret last night. He said hes used craigslist for 3 years to meet high quality professional filipinas such as bank managers and psychologists from manila. They were classy women who were stressed from work and seeking casual sex. One even took him to grand lewis hotel for 3 nights and paid for it all. Wow. Sounds too good to be true.

He said that regular dating sites have lower quality women but craiglist has educated middle class quality women who dont show their photos online because they have reputations to protect. Wow. Sounds too good to be true huh?

However craigslist now removes ads that anyone flags so his casual encounters ads keep getting flagged, possibly by bots designed by people who hate craigslist.

This guy is similar to me. He has several online businesses and has lived in Philippines for 15 years, mostly in dumaguete. He is italian by ethnicity but grew up in switzerland, which he says is a true democracy and has an ideal social system where people have full control of government and vote on every issue directly without needing elected representatives to do so. And that swiss people abhor america and everything about it. Hes lived in long beach, California too and says he would blow up if he got started on the bad aspects of america. Hes also sensitive to vibes and energy and into spirituality and philosophy too.

He also says that italy is near bankrupt now because of the european union and having to conform to its standards. He says italy would have done ok if it wasnt part of the EU. If everyone hates the EU then why does it exist? Stupid. EU can conquer europe but its wrong for hitler and napoleon to do the same? Stupid. Why dont europeans have a revolution against it? Its obviously just a step to global government and does more harm than good. So whats the logic behind it? Stupid elites.

He said that italians are backward and live in the past and cant do anything right. All they do is cheat each other. He cant stand them. They are a nation of talkers and not doers.

He told me angeles city is the friendliest area in Philippines with the best restaurants and that mindanao and negros is far more backward and conservative. People down there sleep early and everything closes at 9pm. So theres nothing to do but the nature down there is wonderful. He says that negros has the most extreme religious fanatics who live and breathe christianity and flog themselves regularly to imitate christ. He said the rest of Philippines arent as open with foreigners as in angeles city.

He told me that thailand is better than here in terms of service, food, quality and infrastructure. But the thai people and women are cold and emotionless because buddhism condemns emotion. Not sweet, tender and warm like filipinas.

What u think? Do u agree with him on all the above?

Btw, another italian guy here said it wasnt the EU that ruined italy, but the corrupt politicians and bankers that ruined it and stole all its money. Then they tried to pin the blame on the EU. I dont know whos right. This guy can talk for hours about it though.

[Adama]

another italian guy here said it wasnt the EU that ruined italy, but the corrupt politicians and bankers that ruined it and stole all its money. Then they tried to pin the blame on the EU.

No, those people ARE the EU. Who does the guy think runs the EU? Non-human entities?

If everyone hates the EU then why does it exist? Stupid.

Not when you realize the upcoming antichrist needs a one world government to rule over.

[Adama]

Winston, how did you get a Maganda girl like that? Have you been casting more love spells?

[Ghost]

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