Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

You can tell just how miserable certain married people are by the way in which they try to deflect attention away from the argument of just how brutal an institution marriage is, especially for men.

But don't take my word for it, read the accounts from some of those rare honest married people themselves.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artic ... posts.html

It is well known that most married people LIE about their marital bliss just to justify their huge mistake. It takes more courage than the average person can muster to admit that marriage was a life-ruining experience.

And I like the humorous image of the crying man. I thought about returning the favor but reasoned that there would be nothing funny about examples of married men so utterly destroyed by wife and state that they became suicidal.

[droid]

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Damn, CE I don't necessarily agree with everything but you 're making too many great points. When cornfed's not around you make fantastic posts lol. You've made me sign in again to post.

Sometimes I ponder about making serious proposals to some girls but all it takes to make me back up is a post of a girl with her mom.
Like they say, "look at the mom". I seriously can't fathom waking up to a monster-looking lady one day, which is what all women start turning into after 35 or or even earlier. There are nice aspects as there really are good women out there that are team players and actually bring something to the table, and children I guess, because I do get along well with kids, but also the huge expense makes me refrain. To think that, like you and Winston say, losing all my freedom and money getting spent at three times the rate, crap!

Unfortunately the decision is pretty much a binary one, you either get married or you don't. Although I've seen some that are married to loving women who turn a blind eye and understand their 'needs' to go and do the occasional p4p. I guess those guys have their cake and eat it too.

Regarding the MGTOW thing, I think the term does not apply if you have any interaction with women at all, like dating, p4p etc. So strictly speaking neither you or Yohan etc are really MGTOW. The guy in one of the videos you linked stresses this point.

I think the whole concept is too extreme, those guys pretending they don't need women at all and even some trying to suppress porn and masturbation, completely unnatural. But I understand it as a consequence of some of the things going on in society. Especially sad is that clip with the cat playing piano while supposedly 'not caring' about women's bodies in the background etc

[droid]

All you guys promoting marriage are failing to see the point. If you want lifelong companionship and children, then YES, marriage is right for you.
But if you want tons of sex with tons of different women, then nothing beats the prostitution lifestyle.
I am not going to judge either group. It's each man's choice to live how he sees fit. But the men in the prostitution lifestyle category are indeed much more free and are probably f***ing more women in one year than a married guy has f***ed in his whole life.

+1 fantastic points
All these judgmental guys are truly talking out of their back ends when they say the p4p women are "acting" and there is no "passion", and they're married to 9+ women. So many bullshitters. P4P is one thing people really can not talk about if they haven't done it, end of story.
Fortunately like starchild has suggested in the past we are 'multidimensional' so to speak, and it's not a one-of-the-other thing, we are not forced to stick forever to just one 'paradigm' lol.
It's definitely better to do p4p that going lying to nice girls and wasting energy just to get some action, it does serve a purpose.

[MrMan]

Droid,

I remember in my teens and 20's looking at middle aged, sagging women with make-up, trying to look pretty, and old women, and wondering how their husbands had sex with them. My theory is that it is like a frog in water raised slowly to a boil as opposed to dropping a frog in boiling water. if you drop a frog in boiling water, he'll jump around to avoid it. But slowly raise the temperature, and they say he'll just sit there and boil. The boiling water is sex with an old droopy skinned woman. Offer than to a horny teenager with no sexual ethics, and he still may turn it down.

The problem with my analogy is that sex with unattractive women, either when they are young or just unattractive because of age, isn't lethal like dropping a frog into a pot of boiling water. And plenty of young men have sex with fat, unattractive women from the get-go, and they still survive.

Just on a physical level, my wife would still be appealing to myself at 19. But I've been with her when she was pregnant, something that wouldn't have appealed to me at 19-year-old, and it was not a bit obstacle to overcome. Familiarity and slow change makes it not too big a deal. No shock, at least.

I still have to wrap my head around 60 year old men who get divorced or widowed who want women around 60. I can understand 40 or so if she's in good condition. But I guess they get used to being with an older woman, so the frog in the water may not just be a phenomenon related to one specific woman, but to women in general.

Something to keep in mind is that, while men's faces may stay a bit tighter longer, and younger women going for older men (If they are rich, accomplished, powerful, influential, especially) is a lot more common than young men going for older women, we are all deteriorating and getting older. So when that pretty young woman you like is an old sagging woman, you probably won't look so hot yourself.

Character is more important than looks, but if you are into looks, you can choose a woman that doesn't have a tendency to blimp up, whose never been fat so far and has some 'thin genes' in her family, who has tight facial skin and young looking older relatives, and who takes good care of herself. You could also marry a woman a several years younger if you choose that route if her looking young when you are older is an issue. At least she'll be behind you in age and hopefully looks.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

There are many risks in resorting to a prostitute, such as:

-Theft from apartment, hotel room, pockets, car, etc.

-Extortion, "If you don't pay me double, I will call the police and claim you raped me."

-Mental illness which manifests itself in BPD outbursts or rage fits.

-Illegal substance abuse which could expose you to arrest even though you had nothing to do with the illegal substances.

-Robbery schemes where you are lured somewhere then you are robbed, beaten, and maybe killed for money by her associates.

I would not recommend anyone engage in using a prostitute as I have seen too many of these incidents transpire in my time.

STILL LESS RISKY THAN MARRIAGE!
PROSTITUTES STILL BETTER THAN "NORMAL WOMEN"!

NORMAL WOMEN-
1. Child Support
2. Alamony
3. Jail Time when you are unable to pay

Oh very true!!!

[Cornfed]

There are many risks in resorting to a prostitute, such as:

-Theft from apartment, hotel room, pockets, car, etc.

-Extortion, "If you don't pay me double, I will call the police and claim you raped me."

-Mental illness which manifests itself in BPD outbursts or rage fits.

-Illegal substance abuse which could expose you to arrest even though you had nothing to do with the illegal substances.

-Robbery schemes where you are lured somewhere then you are robbed, beaten, and maybe killed for money by her associates.

I would not recommend anyone engage in using a prostitute as I have seen too many of these incidents transpire in my time.

STILL LESS RISKY THAN MARRIAGE!
PROSTITUTES STILL BETTER THAN "NORMAL WOMEN"!

NORMAL WOMEN-
1. Child Support
2. Alamony
3. Jail Time when you are unable to pay

Oh very true!!!

You f***ing pigs would know it.

[mand38]

"JohnDoeBigBaller", like your post, pro and contra arguments, don't have answer on question which women are better, but your post is really good...

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Man With a Plan]

Yeah. I'm bumping this thread. See, most of you -- damn near all of you -- need to get like Johnny here. Put down the f***ing soda, stop gorging yourself on doomsday/"WW3 is around the corner"! news, quit logging onto JewMediaProgramming.com, and start taking some goddamned responsibility. This guy is obese -- by his OWN ADMISSION -- and he gets more p***y than most men here. If that's not a wake up call then I don't know what is.

Bring it back to self-improvement, before you stoop so low that no one will want to help you whether you finally want to take control or not.

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Jonny Law]

Meanwhile in Thailand
Normal women are prostitutes!
Thai Culture Lesson- Lady prostituting herself is cool (morally the same as being a virgin). And having sex in a committed relationship is thought of as gross.

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Yohan]

.....if you truly want a chaste wife, you have no real choice but to convert to Islam and marry a Muslim girl under Islamic Sharia.

Not really, if you are a Muslim man you have to pay for your bride in advance in case of divorce. (called 'MAHR' in Arabic)
A reason why many poor Muslim men are single, and rich men have 4 wives...

http://lauraofarabia1000.blogspot.com.b ... s-too.html

.....in many Muslim countries, including Saudi Arabia, the woman and her parents request extremely high mahr. This practice has led many young men to forsake marriage, to postpone marriage or to marry outside the country

..... mahr is a compulsory part of an Islamic marriage contract. It can be a gift of money, gold, property or possessions.

.....the gift becomes the exclusive property of the woman. It is an admission of her independence, for she becomes an owner of that money or property immediately, even though she most typically has never owned anything before.

Sounds good for men? Really? I am not so sure.

Islamic Sharia is the only system that doesn't screw men over in divorce.

Islam is not really the only system - Buddhism is not known to offer much to women - maybe even less than Islam.