Black Women, It’s Time to START Practicing Hypergamy

[zboy1]

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/black-w ... amy-force/

Hypergamy is just a fancy word for “marrying up.” It means that you have paired with a partner who, perhaps has a higher education, higher income or is from a higher class. And in the case of black women, practicing hypergamy could mean marrying someone from a two-parent family, because so many black children are born out of wedlock and have seen generations of their mothers unmarried, and struggling heads of the household. For the trolls who want to interject here about “black women choosing white daddy in the 1960’s” I’m not here for it. It was a choice of welfare or starve and beg in the streets, so stop being assholes.

The black community has convinced black women that hypergamy is a dirty word, and to do so is to be a dirty rotten gold digger. To even expect a man to have an equal education and a steady income will get you a common retort, “black women’s standards are too high. They need to give a struggling brother a chance.” And often times when the relationship fails, we are chastised for “choosing wrong.” All the while, the most elite of black men date and marry a rainbow, and intermarry at 24%. Seems like a little, right? But consider that only a minorityof black men marry at all–you get the idea.

To be clear, ALL women in America–White, Hispanic, Asian–everyone except us, practice hypergamy, and it is not viewed as gold digging. In fact these women are looked down upon if they don’t practice it. What is more, they don’t have to be taught to do it, because it’s simply natural. And oftentimes, with the lack of a father and family resources to ensure your safety, it’s even more essential for black women to practice it.

But in order for black women to properly engage in hypergamy, we have to accept some universal “rules” about femininity that is not limited to what only a small segment of men respond to. If you’re going to compete in the dating world with white, Asian, and Hispanic women, you need to observe what, how, and why they do what they do. Get serious about how you’re going to go about achieving your goals. Take it as seriously as you would your college major. Then, use your education and spending power to reinvest in yourself. Your goal: to gain a universal physical appeal. And on your quest to gain that appeal, you may realize that you, as a black woman, do it better and more uniquely than anyone else. You will truly be a creature like no other.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/black-w ... amy-force/

Hypergamy is just a fancy word for “marrying up.” It means that you have paired with a partner who, perhaps has a higher education, higher income or is from a higher class. And in the case of black women, practicing hypergamy could mean marrying someone from a two-parent family, because so many black children are born out of wedlock and have seen generations of their mothers unmarried, and struggling heads of the household. For the trolls who want to interject here about “black women choosing white daddy in the 1960’s” I’m not here for it. It was a choice of welfare or starve and beg in the streets, so stop being assholes.

The black community has convinced black women that hypergamy is a dirty word, and to do so is to be a dirty rotten gold digger. To even expect a man to have an equal education and a steady income will get you a common retort, “black women’s standards are too high. They need to give a struggling brother a chance.” And often times when the relationship fails, we are chastised for “choosing wrong.” All the while, the most elite of black men date and marry a rainbow, and intermarry at 24%. Seems like a little, right? But consider that only a minorityof black men marry at all–you get the idea.

To be clear, ALL women in America–White, Hispanic, Asian–everyone except us, practice hypergamy, and it is not viewed as gold digging. In fact these women are looked down upon if they don’t practice it. What is more, they don’t have to be taught to do it, because it’s simply natural. And oftentimes, with the lack of a father and family resources to ensure your safety, it’s even more essential for black women to practice it.

But in order for black women to properly engage in hypergamy, we have to accept some universal “rules” about femininity that is not limited to what only a small segment of men respond to. If you’re going to compete in the dating world with white, Asian, and Hispanic women, you need to observe what, how, and why they do what they do. Get serious about how you’re going to go about achieving your goals. Take it as seriously as you would your college major. Then, use your education and spending power to reinvest in yourself. Your goal: to gain a universal physical appeal. And on your quest to gain that appeal, you may realize that you, as a black woman, do it better and more uniquely than anyone else. You will truly be a creature like no other.

I usually don't even read any nonsense from black American women. I should have held true to that instead of reading this.

These women are the most clueless demographic of women on the planet. ALL women are hypergamous, but hypergamy to a black woman means ignoring the clean-cut, college-bound, black man for the violent street thug. Smarter women can see that the opposite is true but black women simply can't see the forest for the trees.

Now after they hit the wall and have a few babies they realize that their thinking was a bit off.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/black-w ... amy-force/

Hypergamy is just a fancy word for “marrying up.” It means that you have paired with a partner who, perhaps has a higher education, higher income or is from a higher class. And in the case of black women, practicing hypergamy could mean marrying someone from a two-parent family, because so many black children are born out of wedlock and have seen generations of their mothers unmarried, and struggling heads of the household. For the trolls who want to interject here about “black women choosing white daddy in the 1960’s” I’m not here for it. It was a choice of welfare or starve and beg in the streets, so stop being assholes.

The black community has convinced black women that hypergamy is a dirty word, and to do so is to be a dirty rotten gold digger. To even expect a man to have an equal education and a steady income will get you a common retort, “black women’s standards are too high. They need to give a struggling brother a chance.” And often times when the relationship fails, we are chastised for “choosing wrong.” All the while, the most elite of black men date and marry a rainbow, and intermarry at 24%. Seems like a little, right? But consider that only a minorityof black men marry at all–you get the idea.

To be clear, ALL women in America–White, Hispanic, Asian–everyone except us, practice hypergamy, and it is not viewed as gold digging. In fact these women are looked down upon if they don’t practice it. What is more, they don’t have to be taught to do it, because it’s simply natural. And oftentimes, with the lack of a father and family resources to ensure your safety, it’s even more essential for black women to practice it.

But in order for black women to properly engage in hypergamy, we have to accept some universal “rules” about femininity that is not limited to what only a small segment of men respond to. If you’re going to compete in the dating world with white, Asian, and Hispanic women, you need to observe what, how, and why they do what they do. Get serious about how you’re going to go about achieving your goals. Take it as seriously as you would your college major. Then, use your education and spending power to reinvest in yourself. Your goal: to gain a universal physical appeal. And on your quest to gain that appeal, you may realize that you, as a black woman, do it better and more uniquely than anyone else. You will truly be a creature like no other.

I usually don't even read any nonsense from black American women. I should have held true to that instead of reading this.

These women are the most clueless demographic of women on the planet. ALL women are hypergamous, but hypergamy to a black woman usually means ignoring the clean-cut, college-bound, black man for the highest status street thug. Smarter women can see that the opposite is true but black women simply can't see the forest for the trees.

Then after they hit the wall and have a few babies they realize that their thinking was a bit off.

Ah, too late!

[MrMan]

I knew a guy married to a Vietnamese lady who said that the Chinese and Koreans were marrying Vietnamese women through agencies. I've seen a news report about Vietnamese brides in Singapore. The Chinese murdered a lot of their baby girls a generation ago through abortion, leading to a gender imbalance. There are a lot of rich Chinese now who can marry Vietnamese. Some of the Vietnamese look similar enough to either Chinese or Korean.

He said if the trend continues, Vietnamese men may not have enough women to go around as wives. But what group of women have difficulty finding husbands? He said black American women. So why not start a matchmaking company to match black American women with VIetnamese men. The idea seemed comical, since a lot of the women would be bigger than the men and culturally it would be a leap.

If black women want husbands, women with degrees should realize that certain trades, like construction work, can provide good careers. Getting a college education doesn't make one superior. Going into a trade instead of some degree that doesn't get one a job may be a more rational choice, anyway.

Also, if black women want to get married, they should drop the term 'independant woman' from their vocaulary? Why marry a woman if she's independent. She can go live on her own. Instead, she should talk about how when she gets married she'll cook and clean for her man and meet his other needs. The stereotype of the American black woman is a cantankerous sassy woman. The thing is, the reason the stereotype is there is because a lot of black women fit the mold.
But who wants to marry someone like that? Sweet and humble is the way to go.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

I knew a guy married to a Vietnamese lady who said that the Chinese and Koreans were marrying Vietnamese women through agencies. I've seen a news report about Vietnamese brides in Singapore. The Chinese murdered a lot of their baby girls a generation ago through abortion, leading to a gender imbalance. There are a lot of rich Chinese now who can marry Vietnamese. Some of the Vietnamese look similar enough to either Chinese or Korean.

He said if the trend continues, Vietnamese men may not have enough women to go around as wives. But what group of women have difficulty finding husbands? He said black American women. So why not start a matchmaking company to match black American women with VIetnamese men. The idea seemed comical, since a lot of the women would be bigger than the men and culturally it would be a leap.

If black women want husbands, women with degrees should realize that certain trades, like construction work, can provide good careers. Getting a college education doesn't make one superior. Going into a trade instead of some degree that doesn't get one a job may be a more rational choice, anyway.

Also, if black women want to get married, they should drop the term 'independant woman' from their vocaulary? Why marry a woman if she's independent. She can go live on her own. Instead, she should talk about how when she gets married she'll cook and clean for her man and meet his other needs. The stereotype of the American black woman is a cantankerous sassy woman. The thing is, the reason the stereotype is there is because a lot of black women fit the mold.
But who wants to marry someone like that? Sweet and humble is the way to go.

On some of this we can agree, but I'm afraid your criticism does not go far enough.

Black American women are generally not suitable marriage partners FOR ANYONE. There are a variety of factors for this:

-Generally exceptionally low level of IQ as a group.

-Generally considered the most feminist and misandric women in the Western world.

-Generally more prone to the initiation of domestic violence than any other group.

-High rates of single motherhood before seeking to marry, often with various fathers.

-Low rates of wifely and motherly characteristics in terms of parenting skills, nutritional knowledge, and partnership skills.

-High preference for government welfare and entitlements over partner support.

-Low rates of experience being raised in two-parent households thereby constituting poor marriage modeling in childhood.

-High rates of aggressive and male-emulating behavioral characteristics which undermine relationship dynamics.

-Highest rates of of STDs (some estimates as high as 50% suffer from Herpes Simplex 2).

-High rates of untreated mental health problems which leads to frequent substance abuse (self-medication) proclivity to violence.

None of this is to deny the rare anomaly among black American women, but the vast majority are not suitable for ANYONE, much less Asian men.

So for all the complaints from black women about why they are ignored as marriage choices, the above list is instructive as to why the most accomplished and intelligent black men choose out-group marriage or MGTOW.

[NorthAmericanguy]

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/black-w ... amy-force/

Hypergamy is just a fancy word for “marrying up.” It means that you have paired with a partner who, perhaps has a higher education, higher income or is from a higher class. And in the case of black women, practicing hypergamy could mean marrying someone from a two-parent family, because so many black children are born out of wedlock and have seen generations of their mothers unmarried, and struggling heads of the household. For the trolls who want to interject here about “black women choosing white daddy in the 1960’s” I’m not here for it. It was a choice of welfare or starve and beg in the streets, so stop being assholes.

The black community has convinced black women that hypergamy is a dirty word, and to do so is to be a dirty rotten gold digger. To even expect a man to have an equal education and a steady income will get you a common retort, “black women’s standards are too high. They need to give a struggling brother a chance.” And often times when the relationship fails, we are chastised for “choosing wrong.” All the while, the most elite of black men date and marry a rainbow, and intermarry at 24%. Seems like a little, right? But consider that only a minorityof black men marry at all–you get the idea.

To be clear, ALL women in America–White, Hispanic, Asian–everyone except us, practice hypergamy, and it is not viewed as gold digging. In fact these women are looked down upon if they don’t practice it. What is more, they don’t have to be taught to do it, because it’s simply natural. And oftentimes, with the lack of a father and family resources to ensure your safety, it’s even more essential for black women to practice it.

But in order for black women to properly engage in hypergamy, we have to accept some universal “rules” about femininity that is not limited to what only a small segment of men respond to. If you’re going to compete in the dating world with white, Asian, and Hispanic women, you need to observe what, how, and why they do what they do. Get serious about how you’re going to go about achieving your goals. Take it as seriously as you would your college major. Then, use your education and spending power to reinvest in yourself. Your goal: to gain a universal physical appeal. And on your quest to gain that appeal, you may realize that you, as a black woman, do it better and more uniquely than anyone else. You will truly be a creature like no other.

I usually don't even read any nonsense from black American women. I should have held true to that instead of reading this.

These women are the most clueless demographic of women on the planet. ALL women are hypergamous, but hypergamy to a black woman means ignoring the clean-cut, college-bound, black man for the violent street thug. Smarter women can see that the opposite is true but black women simply can't see the forest for the trees.

Now after they hit the wall and have a few babies they realize that their thinking was a bit off.

So true Contrarian, and that's why the majority of American black women are single and have a litter of kids to raise on their own. They simply don't chose decent men to begin with.

That being said, I'm over here in France and black women here seem to be very popular with well to do decent looking white men. French black women are of much better quality and more refined and feminine.

[NorthAmericanguy]

To be fair, I believe all women are crazy/mentally unstable to various degrees. If you think white or Asian women are better think again.

The deal is black women (due to on average lower IQ) show you all their dysfunction up front, where as more intelligent white and Asian women create an image that they're picture perfect wives of good character and it's not until you marry a non black, have kids, and commingle assets with them do you realize that the whole thing was a farce. Non black women are good at hiding alcoholism, pill addictions, excessive spending, laziness, infidelity, revulsion of sex and even outright contempt of men right up into the wedding day. They will do whatever it takes to get someone to marry and support them.

This is part of the reason why, at least in the United States/UK so many women are murdered by their husbands. At the moment the way for men now is to MGTOW. It's the only way to keep yourself and your assets safe.

[chanta76]

Contrarian Expatriate ,

You could say the same about black men. And I mean this as no offensive or a racist reasoning.

In my life time I met black guys that were just womanizer. I worked with one guy that got two different yes black girls pregnant. You can blame all you want on black women but it's usually black men that get black women pregnant and just run after that. At the same time I met black guys that go after only white girls and make their goal to f**k as many as they can. It's like how white guys go to Asia and over monger.

I met thuggish black guys that were too lazy to better themselves and wanted hand outs. I also met lots of angry bitter black guys that were always looking for a fight. I also been harass by black men just because I was Asian in the wrong neighborhood.

[chanta76]

http://www.divorcesource.com/blog/inter ... d-divorce/

If you read the divorce rate among interracial couples. Black men with white women have the highest divorce . Black women married to white men have the lowest .

"Marriages involving a white husband and black wife were substantially less likely to end in divorce than marriage involving a white husband and white wife; the former pairing’s divorce rate was 44 percent less than the latter."


'Marriages including a black husband and white wife were more prone to divorce than those composed of black husbands and black wives. Black male/white female couples also had the highest likelihood of divorce of all white/non-white marriages."


I don't discount the fact that there are allot of ghetto black women but I find (and I mean this not as a racist) I meet ALLOT of ghetto black guys too. The educated black folks that I met were few and far in between. I look trust me. It's like black folks just are more messed up compare to other races.

Some black men like Tommy Sotomayor think it's all black women fault. I think it's black people fault. Both black men and women have to take responsibility. For example. I know a Korean girl that dated a black guy. She got pregnant and last I heard he ran off. She felt betrayed and thinks all black men are disgusting. She is keeping the baby and will raise it herself. She was decent girl but was I guess thought he would love her. Like I said I met allot of black guys that are players and only think about the BBC . No responsibility. Maybe that's why the black community is so messed up. It's not always black women fault.

[chanta76]

There is a meetup group for Asian men and black women. I think it's because you have Asian women who sellout and date out just like you have black men who date out . So there is a small movement of black women connecting with Asian men.

It's strange because you have Asian American women saying shit about Asian men . Just like you have black guys saying shit about black women.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

There is a meetup group for Asian men and black women. I think it's because you have Asian women who sellout and date out just like you have black men who date out . So there is a small movement of black women connecting with Asian men.

It's strange because you have Asian American women saying shit about Asian men . Just like you have black guys saying shit about black women.

Small niche on both sides. Generally, very educated and success oriented black women would be interested in Asian men. The lower level black women find almost nothing appealing in them.

I would also say that only the subset of Asian men that specifically fancies black women would participate in this. Most Asian men would rather be alone than with American black women.

That being said, I hope it works for them.....

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Ooooooooo we got Asians, Whites, Blacks and Latinos on this thread. Turn up, bay-bee!

I made a video about this 8 freaking years ago:
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGkG5nxdFkY[/youtube]

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Ooooooooo we got Asians, Whites, Blacks and Latinos on this thread. Turn up, bay-bee!

I made a video about this 8 freaking years ago:
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGkG5nxdFkY[/youtube]

For an unscripted and impromptu video, that was amazing. Very well spoken and eloquent speaker you are E!

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Ooooooooo we got Asians, Whites, Blacks and Latinos on this thread. Turn up, bay-bee!

I made a video about this 8 freaking years ago:
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGkG5nxdFkY[/youtube]

For an unscripted and impromptu video, that was amazing. Very well spoken and eloquent speaker you are E!

Thank you.

[NorthAmericanguy]

http://www.divorcesource.com/blog/inter ... d-divorce/

If you read the divorce rate among interracial couples. Black men with white women have the highest divorce . Black women married to white men have the lowest .

"Marriages involving a white husband and black wife were substantially less likely to end in divorce than marriage involving a white husband and white wife; the former pairing’s divorce rate was 44 percent less than the latter."


'Marriages including a black husband and white wife were more prone to divorce than those composed of black husbands and black wives. Black male/white female couples also had the highest likelihood of divorce of all white/non-white marriages."


I don't discount the fact that there are allot of ghetto black women but I find (and I mean this not as a racist) I meet ALLOT of ghetto black guys too. The educated black folks that I met were few and far in between. I look trust me. It's like black folks just are more messed up compare to other races.

Some black men like Tommy Sotomayor think it's all black women fault. I think it's black people fault. Both black men and women have to take responsibility. For example. I know a Korean girl that dated a black guy. She got pregnant and last I heard he ran off. She felt betrayed and thinks all black men are disgusting. She is keeping the baby and will raise it herself. She was decent girl but was I guess thought he would love her. Like I said I met allot of black guys that are players and only think about the BBC . No responsibility. Maybe that's why the black community is so messed up. It's not always black women fault.

I agree with you and I'm black. American black men are generally abusive assholess. Far too many of them aspire to be absolutely nothing, many are extremely violent, are cruel, and try to take advantage of people every chance they can get. This is why black neighborhoods are bad and the real reason why people don't want blacks around. Black males constantly victimize each other and anything around them so there is no progress or productivity.

American black males want to do anything and everything other than get a job and stay out of trouble, but wonder why their neighborhoods are a mess, why people don't like them, or why opportunities are closed to them.

For example, on backpage escort section, black men are pretty much blacklisted because they rob girls, rape, mistreat girls, or try to force girls into prostitution. Black men will try and do anything they can to a prostitute other then pay, have a good time, and leave so black men get blacklisted. Those black men will then cry racism or anything else but look at themselves and their own poor behavior as to the direct cause to people wanting to exclude them. It's like they can't seem to understand that if you mistreat someone they turn against you and they take no racial pride in setting a good example for their own race.

It's really bad in America with American blacks because the hood/street/gang culture has taken control of everyone. Young black males don't look up to doctors, scientists or prominent influential black people like Obama but look up to dead gangsters, drug dealers, guys doing life in prison, and rappers. For young black males, it's better to have street credit than to have a good credit score and good grades so most don't wind up going anywhere in life other than jail or a fast track route to the cemetery.