Neptune, first picture does not show, at least on my computer. Imageshack totally sucks. You never know which photos will show and which will have that annoying message about not being registered. Could you re-post it using another software?Neptune wrote:Hi Google,Google wrote:Ukraine's per capita GDP (PPP) really higher than in Brazil, even if also taken into account size of informal sector in Brazil. I think figure $14,000 - 16,000 is more realistic than $ 20,000. (GDP PPP, not nominal)
I curious to know if you have any guesses as to the answer to the original posters question. What income guarantees success with women in Ukraine? For example, in the USA, if a guy earns $400,000 per year, he can usually find a girlfriend or wife who is at least average looking even if he is very ugly. I mean, even the shortest, ugliest guys in the USA, if they make $400,000 per year, can usually find a wife. It is as if $400,000 is a magic number, an income high enough that even the ugliest guy can still find a girlfriend or wife. So I am wondering, what is the income level that guarantees success with women in Ukraine. If a very short, ugly guy lived in Lviv, Ukraine, how much would he need to earn to have a good chance of finding an attractive wife who would marry him despite being short and ugly?
Lets say that the guy is 5 ft 5 in tall and 37 years old and looks like the guy in the image below:
How much would he need to earn per year to have a girlfriend or wife who is at least somewhat attractive,
like a 6 out of 10, who looks about as attractive as the one in the picture below:
and who DOES NOT have children from a prior relationship?
I know that there is no exact number but it would be very helpful if you had even a wild guess. I'm trying to negotiate my salary with my employer and I'm trying to figure out how much I need to request from my employer. If I insist on too high a salary, then my employer might balk at the request. However, if the amount I request is too low, then it would not be high enough for me to get a girlfriend or wife if and when I move to Eastern Europe. I work remotely using log me in and therefore I can work from anywhere that I have an internet connection. So I'm trying to decide how large a raise I need to demand from my employer. I looks somewhat similar to the guy in the image in that I'm about as ugly as he is. So any guesses as to the size of the raise that I should request from my employer would be greatly appreciated.
Would it be 8 times the $14,000 to $16,000 figure you gave for the real per capita GDP? ($112,000 to $128,000) Do I need to demand an income of $120,000 from my employer to have a realistic chance if I moved to Lviv, Ukraine? Would it be more or less than that?
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The guy who asked the question is very smart and i loved his theories and he is right all the way.
1. 6 times de GDP is good i think
2. Don't be so paranoid about crimes overseas. East Europe except Romania are very civilized.
3. You have advantage over eastern men because they drink too much and hit on women. It's the opposite of western societies where being a jerk is good. There, if you are a good man (not a doormat) they appreciate it. Latvia is great because there is a shortage of men and the one's left are deadbets.
4. Height and looks are CRUCIAL to a man but money and the foreign factor can balance the battle to your side.
5. You can have 2 wives in RP and Thai it's a pity you don't like asians.
6. I am obsessed about caucasian blondes too, but bear in mind they are more unfaithful and difficult to deal. Blondes like tall and strong man so you MUST have the income factor to fight her personality.
I sense you are a very smart man and heading to the path of freedom.
Searching my new place where i'll be millionaire and loved.
I'm from Brazil. The difference between UKR and Brazil is "inequality". We are richer and bigger and stronger than UK (look at the size of Brazil's economy) but we have many poor people and many rich people and many problems with infra-structure while UKR is more organized and more equal.
The guy who made the question is right, make 8 times de GDP of a country and you will be fine. Yes you will lose to many natives but these natives can kick american asses in the USA with american women because they are really rich, more than 70% of americans, so don't bother with them.
I look like an american but i have to work 2 times an american to reach the economic power you have due the exchance rate.
We have to give some youth years working before going overseas and have many women like we want.
Your plans are like mine so that's why i liked this post so much.
Searching my new place where i'll be millionaire and loved.
Ladislav you are my hero, you lived my dream! Lol
Searching my new place where i'll be millionaire and loved.
Oh, these Americans... Money, money and again money... Are you looking a girl who be interested only your money, not your personality, your soul? It's so sad. In Ukraine, many not ugly guys may find a good wife, even if earn $ 10,000 a year. Of course, a lot depends on the physical attractiveness and personality characteristics. If you're ugly and foreigner, then you need to have income more than $ 50,000 per YEAR and you can find (buy) a girlfriend or wife. Welcome to Ukraine and Good Luck!
P.S. By the way, I'm unemployed now and i would be happy if you or anyone, who reads this post, will help me find the remote work. Any suggestions, please write me private message. Thanks in advance.
Thanks for the information! It is NOT that I want a girl who would only be interested in my money. It is just that, unfortunately, I am short and ugly and therefore that is really the only way I could have any woman whatsoever. You see, the only choices I have are:
1. Be completely alone.
2. Be a Sugar Daddy.
If I was able to find a woman who was interested in me for my personality or my soul that would
be great. But I just think that is extremely unlikely. I don't have the kind of outgoing personality women like, I am very shy and awkward, plus I'm quite ugly. So getting a woman who is interested in me only for my money is my only alternative to involuntary celibacy.
I sent you a PM
I have heard some horror stories. Some guys get framed for crimes and are extorted for money. Sure living life involves risk but being locked up abroad seems very scary to me. Can you imagine how horrible that would be?
Yea I know. I envy the guys who find Asian women attractive. It makes their lives so much easier.
That's another concern I have. Somehow I also have to find a way to make sure she doesn't become unfaithful. Problem is, if I try to keep her by my side all the time, then she'll probably get pissed off. I'm trying to figure out, how do I make sure she isn't cheating on me without making her feel trapped? How do I keep an eye on her without aggravating her or making her feel trapped?
Yes unfortunately I've used up all my youth working. Hopefully I'll be able to use the skills I've gained to earn enough money to get women overseas.
Brazil's Per Capita GDP is $10,800.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_co ... per_capita
So does that mean that in Brazil, I'd need $86,400 or so? How common are natural blondes in Brazil?
I linked the picture from one that odbo posted. So I'll have to get him to post the image in a different form.
I found an image you posted in another thread. The image I linked to was:
http://img195.imageshack.us/img195/5607 ... otwife.jpg
For some reason, Rock and possibly others aren't seeing the image. Could you please do me a favor and see what is wrong with the link? It is a relatively close approximation of my appearance. For reasons of keeping my identity private I didn't want to post an image of myself. When I found the image you posted I realized it was a pretty good approximation of my appearance and therefore I wanted to post it so I could give people some idea of what I looked like so I could find out how much money I would need to earn to be successful with women when I went overseas. Therefore, it would be very helpful if you could fix the link. Thanks!
I've never used stuff like this and I'm about to start either.
In America is simple. I am Black. What that means is usually women towards the bottom part of the social-economic scale, basically in any country is attracted to me. I don't know what information this is based on, but it could be that world-wide people understand African-Americans while having a large influence on popular Anglo culture which is dominate throughout the world, Slavery has mean various things from lack of opportunity or extraordinary feats of triumph (Obama, Oprah, Micheal Jackson, etc, etc).
How this impacts chances with women I have no idea. I just know I am not stupid rich, highly educated or steeply talented in any direction. This means that mostly middle class to working class women would be interested in me and my experience bares that out. I can go lower than this and I have but the results are disturbing and I rather not go there.
Outside of the United States, this doesn't change, at all. Most women interested in me come from middle class background (teachers, sales clerks, city workers, etc) so I don't believe having more money compared to GDP would help me at all. It would result in the same level of women actually.
Honestly I think it lessens my exposure to gold-diggers. The average Black Man is not rich and I believe most women understand this. So they aren't expecting more than a typically US Middle Class lifestyle. If wouldn't be able to travel if I had less... I couldn't do K-1 if I made less...
If you're attracting women based on your income at all, you're attracting Gold Diggers....
Let me remind you that height isn't that important abroad. Okay you might not be too hot in the Netherlands, the tallest nation on earth, but don't feel inferior just because you're 5 foot 5. Women naturally like tall stature, just like they like big shoulders, muscular arms, 6-pack abs and so on. Just like men like shapely legs, big breasts, waist to hip ratio, etc. But most men don't have unhealthy fetishes for certain body styles. But American women have been socially engineered to be as dysfunctional and picky as possible. One of the requirements many American women now have is that the guy is at least 6 foot 2. Only a portion of the male population fits that, and that was precisely the point of the brainwashing. To make as many men (and women) as discontent as possible. Women have also been brainwashed into lusting after guy's asses. Only gay men cared about other men's asses prior to the media brainwashing. If you ever hear a woman say "the sexiest part of a man's body is his ass", you've got a tool on your hands.
So in conclusion, don't worry about your height, don't worry about your ass, go find a woman abroad who hasn't had her head stuffed with sheer idiocy by the homosexuals at Hollywood.
Thanks for posting the photo Odbo. IMO, that particular guy has some low lying fruit. He's obese. If he would just lose a lot of weight and build some muscle, he would become much better looking. He might even be able to move above average looking. It's hard to judge sometimes how well a very dirty coin can shine up. If you look like him, it behooves you to do better with what you have. Looks do count for a lot in most places. As for height, what matters most is not the absolute level but the relative level. Even then, some women care a lot more about it than others. According to my observations:
- Some hot and not so hot women will go for shorter guys, especially guys who are in some way cute or attractive.
- Other hot and not so hot women will prefer taller guys, even if they are not as cute or attractive.
- Some demand both taller and better looking guys.
- By far the rarest are hot and not so hot women who will go for much older guys, no matter how tall and/or good looking.
At 37, you're still solidly in the game for Ukrainian 20 somethings. If you let too much time pass, that window will rapidly close on you. Get your fat ass in shape, learn basic Russian (via all Pimsleur courses available), and get as much money as possible (US$100K per annum would be nice). Also, don't worry about your height since its not a deal breaker with many young women the way age is.
The problem is, what choice do I have? It is better than being alone.
Thanks for the encouragement! There are several countries I am considering. Should I cross any of the below out because of the brainwashing? I mean, there are probably other countries besides America that have suffered from this brainwashing? I am considering:
Thanks. Hopefully, you are right about me still being young enough. I am not quite as fat as he is but yes, I need to lose weight.
The problem is, in college I did manage to get down to a normal weight. But even then, I could not get a girlfriend probably because of my height. I was ugly even when I was thin. So the reality is, if I'm going to have any woman, it would probably be the type that is focused only on money. My theory is, there is a certain percentage of women who only care about money so if I get to that income, then I have a chance.
Well it beats being alone, doesn't it? If I have a faithful wife, I would gladly spare her the frustration of having to work.
I couldn't get a gf in college either. But everything changed once I got off US soil, I made up for my lost years quickly.
Just get in reasonable shape, style yourself up as best you can, and exit in a hurry. As far as younger women are concerned, 37 is better than 38 which is better than 39 and so on. The clock is ticking and your body and face are wasting assets. 30s is still fine for a large percentage of young women in the better countries. But pushing 40 starts to get iffy and 40s is much worse.
I think for Ukraine's women it's enough just to be a foreigner and to look nice, they'll believe your word that you are rich.
We are all facing the choice between what is right and what is easy.
Skip breakfast, skip lunch, eat dinner. Do that for 3 days and you'll be hooked on the one-meal a day diet. That's the simplest way to lose weight.
Try to eat protein and fat, try to avoid carbs if they're not from raw vegetables/fruits.
Drink plenty of water. Get good sleep. Avoid stress. Don't eat fast-food, snacks/sweets or other pre-packaged foods with preservatives. So no Doritos, no Heinz ketchup, no ice cream, no frozen pre-made meals. Eat raw food or food that you cook yourself. Eat fish not fishsticks, chicken not chicken dumplings, etc. DO NOT USE THE MICROWAVE. And if you go out to eat, avoid restaurants that serve synthetic garbage, so skip most Chinese restaurants and steer clear of Subway.
If you forgot what normal food looks like, go to the store and buy some fruits and vegetables, and a cooked chicken. Eat that for a few nights, and a few days later do it again. When you start eating normal your body will overcome it's addiction to synthetic food and start craving normal food again. You won't have to think about what to buy at the grocery store, your instinct will guide you.